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National Offer Day - 1st March. Anybody else anxious?

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ToxicGirl · 23/02/2022 15:22

I feel like a woman on the edge. Am unbelievably anxious about 1st March. Made my peace a long time ago with the fact DD won't get a place at our nearest secondary (within easy walking distance) because it's so oversubscribed. All her friends and most other children from her school will go there. We live a tiny bit further away and just won't get in, particularly as I understand it's a big birth year.

Would be happy with either our 2nd or 3rd choice schools. They're further away and not as popular but we'd have got a place at them in previous years as we're in catchment and just within the distance they usually offer.

However our LA has warned of unprecedented pressure on school places this year and said that the schools are likely to be significantly oversubscribed. I'm worried that we now won't get a place at the schools that would previously have been 'bankers'. Our other preferences are too far away. We won't get a place at them. Just put them down because there was nowhere else.

There are a couple of hugely undersubscribed and really poorly performing schools in neighbouring towns within the borough. From everything I've read and from looking at Y6 leavers destination info from previous years, I'm absolutely convinced we'll be allocated one of them. They're the schools people get allocated when they only put one choice down and don't get it.

I'm so anxious about it. Can't think about anything else and am driving DH mad. Am managing to hide it from DD but know she'll fall apart on Tuesday. She's prepared to go to school without her friends but not to a completely unknown school in another area.

It's going to be a long few days...

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prh47bridge · 02/03/2022 20:33

If your daughter would have got a place but for the mistake, that is a good case. You don't need to show any further disadvantage, although it is useful if you can. However, if she wouldn't have got a place anyway, the mistake is irrelevant.

AuditAngel · 02/03/2022 20:26

@PRH47Bridge I hoped that you would respond, thank you for doing so.

I’m in a slightly unusual position as I know both these families. There is another child I have been told about, and yes, in that case I don’t know if there may be other factors which may mean that child falls into a higher category.

The admissions policy says in the event of oversubscription places awarded in the following order:
1, 2, 3 which is broken down into 4 subcategories and within each of the categories there are priorities such as medical/exceptional social need/EHCP/Sibling

I think it would be hard to provide reason that my daughter will be disadvantaged by the mistake. I know the allocated school has some bullying issues, but many children are happy there. This I will have to consider, I know the journey and difficulty accessing the allocated school aren’t adequate reasons.

Appreciate all the comments,

TeenPlusCat · 02/03/2022 12:49

They do keep it quiet and quite rightly. But some also know that in some areas this can guarantee a place in the school they want so will provide evidence to get the place.

I think you may have misunderstood me (or maybe I you?). Of course adopters provide info to the LA re their child's adoptive status since by law in England ex LAC are way up the priority list. I just meant that random other parent may not know the child is adopted, and thus may think they were incorrectly given the place.

ufucoffee · 02/03/2022 12:09

@TeenPlusCat Many people with adopted children, especially if there are no 'outward issues' keep quiet about the fact their children are adopted to other parents. So that would be an example of a child apparently being offered a place from too far away, even though in reality they would be nearly top of the list. Alternatively they might have lied about their address (see various threads on AIBU where far too many posters seem to find it acceptable.)

They do keep it quiet and quite rightly. But some also know that in some areas this can guarantee a place in the school they want so will provide evidence to get the place.

If anyone thinks someone has lied to get a school place please please let your local Admissions team know. They will check it out. Some people think it's ok but it's not, and your Local Authority won't think it's ok.

prh47bridge · 02/03/2022 12:05

The school ExitToTheLeft is dealing with has very poorly drafted oversubscription criteria. I'm sure they don't implement them as written as they have distance listed as a category ahead of some of the groups to which they want to give priority. Critically, if ExitToTheLeft's twins are in the same band, the school doesn't define how it breaks the tie on distance. It appears whoever wrote these didn't anticipate this situation. They cater for two applicants in the same block of flats (provided they are in different flats), but not two living in the same house.

TeenPlusCat · 02/03/2022 07:32

@ufucoffee

Quite often parents appeal because other children who live nearby have been offered a place and they think this means that a mistake has been made. Sometimes children are offered a place because of reasons that other parents don't need to know about. Look at the admissions criteria for your area and look what's at the top.
Many people with adopted children, especially if there are no 'outward issues' keep quiet about the fact their children are adopted to other parents. So that would be an example of a child apparently being offered a place from too far away, even though in reality they would be nearly top of the list.

Alternatively they might have lied about their address (see various threads on AIBU where far too many posters seem to find it acceptable.)

ufucoffee · 02/03/2022 07:14

Quite often parents appeal because other children who live nearby have been offered a place and they think this means that a mistake has been made. Sometimes children are offered a place because of reasons that other parents don't need to know about. Look at the admissions criteria for your area and look what's at the top.

prh47bridge · 02/03/2022 00:09

@AuditAngel

We didn’t get our first choice school. I am aware of 2 children that I can name that fall into a lower band that have been allocated places. Have accepted offered place and we automatically go onto waiting list (stated in LA email) .

Will also appeal as one option on the school’s appeal form is that you believe there has been a mistake in the way the admissions rules have been applied which has denied your child a place,

I'm not clear if you are referring to admissions categories or a banding test. If the school uses fair banding, admitting children from a lower band does not mean anything has gone wrong. That is how the system is supposed to work. If, however, you mean admissions categories, that shouldn't happen assuming you are right about the category these children were in. It may be that there is something of which you are unaware that put these children into a higher category.

As Meditrina says, if a mistake has been made the crucial question is whether the mistake cost your child a place. If your child would have missed out even if no mistake had been made, an appeal relying on the mistake should fail. That is why, even if you believe a mistake has been made, you should always include arguments as to why your child will be disadvantaged if they aren't admitted.

meditrina · 02/03/2022 00:01

Will also appeal as one option on the school’s appeal form is that you believe there has been a mistake in the way the admissions rules have been applied which has denied your child a place

It's not just that a mistake has (possibly) been made

It's also that the mistake denied your DC a place.

So, if there were indeed no non-obvious factors about the apparent anomalies you have spotted and it is a mistake, you wouid only win at appeal if your DC had been deprived of a place because of it.

If admissions reached a lower category than your DC, but somehow missed your DC out when going through his category (maybe mis-assigning him to one even lower) then yes you should win.

But if these two mysteriously jumped up the list, it would only be relevant to your DC if she were in one of the top, wo places on the waiting list (ie the two people who would have had those two places). If he's 3rd or lower, the mistake didn't deny him a place, so the appeal would fail.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 01/03/2022 23:52

@AuditAngel

We didn’t get our first choice school. I am aware of 2 children that I can name that fall into a lower band that have been allocated places. Have accepted offered place and we automatically go onto waiting list (stated in LA email) .

Will also appeal as one option on the school’s appeal form is that you believe there has been a mistake in the way the admissions rules have been applied which has denied your child a place,

But, as has been said in the other threads you've posted on, you can't know exactly why they have been offered places.

For example, you don't know if they have previously been in care. You don't know if there is a compelling case on compassionate grounds. You don't know everything about them. Because it's not anything to do with you and they don't owe anybody an explanation.

There could have been a mistake, somebody could have conducted a very careful and expensive fraud - or you could be complaining about somebody who has exceptional circumstances they have chosen not to share with you when everybody's asking 'What did you get? What band were you in?'.

'It's not fair' doesn't make for a successful appeal. By all means say you think there has been a mistake, but look carefully in the policies and see if there is something else that is more useful.

LightBulbous · 01/03/2022 23:46

It was pretty much a given, but always that slight worry something's gone wrong

Spoke to a parent today who was flabbergasted that we didn’t offer him a place as they live close and “the headmaster said we’d get in”. Yes if you’d applied on time you would!

When I pointed out he applied late he said he was “away”… really? You were away for 2 whole months? … and it can be done on your phone?!

Just a word of warning to anyone here for advice on next years intake… apply on time!

AuditAngel · 01/03/2022 23:40

We didn’t get our first choice school. I am aware of 2 children that I can name that fall into a lower band that have been allocated places. Have accepted offered place and we automatically go onto waiting list (stated in LA email) .

Will also appeal as one option on the school’s appeal form is that you believe there has been a mistake in the way the admissions rules have been applied which has denied your child a place,

NeverDropYourMooncup · 01/03/2022 23:24

@ExitToTheLeft

They're also aware that they're twins as you have to state that on the application, so something has happend along the way.
On some of the eAdmissions sites, somebody has to go into the individual records and tick a box to confirm multiple birth applications - it comes up as a possible, but then it has to be confirmed manually - it may have been missed. However, they should be the last child to be offered a place and the first child to not be offered one, as they would be under the same oversubscription criteria and obviously the exact same distance - so even if this has not been done, it's highly likely (well, it should be) that Twin 2 is #1 on the waiting list and will be offered a place in the next few days.

Worth contacting the school and asking for T2 to be placed on the waiting list just in case it's not been done automatically, though.

Nemorth · 01/03/2022 23:04

@ChildrenGrowingUpTooFast

It’s not complicated in England the school doesn’t have enough places for catchment children. We got our first choice catchment school and always known we will get it. No different from Scotland I guess.
But that's the thing. We don't even apply. Never mind first choice, second choice etc.

There's no application process at all!

prh47bridge · 01/03/2022 22:54

Agree with PanelChair. Without knowing this school's admission criteria, it is impossible to be sure, but many schools try to keep twins together. The worry here is the mention of a banding test. If they were in different bands, that may be the problem. If you are uncertain, feel free to PM me the name of the school and LA involved and I will be happy to take a look for you.

PanelChair · 01/03/2022 19:59

That’s why you need to keep probing, to check (amongst other things) whether they overlooked that they are twins or whether the banding results (or anything else) override them being twins.

ExitToTheLeft · 01/03/2022 19:35

When I received the email regarding the banding results, it stated that I should apply as both are likely to be offered a place.

PatriciaHolm · 01/03/2022 19:30

Do you know what cutoff between the banding scores was? You may have got unlucky in that if they are in seperate banding groups, the fact they are twins may not be relevant.

PanelChair · 01/03/2022 19:26

Hmm. You flagged up that they are twins but there’s still the possibility that they didn’t treat them as twin applications. Do double-check. The LEA should be able to tell you your place on the waiting list, but there’s likely to be a lot of churn this week as people decline places because they have moved or have a place in an independent school etc etc, so it might take a little while (and even then your place on the waiting list could later move up or down as more people join the list).

ExitToTheLeft · 01/03/2022 19:14

They're also aware that they're twins as you have to state that on the application, so something has happend along the way.

ExitToTheLeft · 01/03/2022 19:13

Thank you I'm going to call them tomorrow and work out what I'm going to do
He is on the waiting list and both took banding tests with only a 2 point difference.

Does anyone know how I view how high up he is or would that also come from the LEA?

PanelChair · 01/03/2022 19:08

Yes, it’s rare (but not impossible) for twins to be separated under current admission arrangements. Check the LEA/school’s oversubscription criteria and check that they were aware that they are twins.

boyblue · 01/03/2022 18:59

@ExitToTheLeft defo check the policy & see what's happened

TeenPlusCat · 01/03/2022 18:47

@ExitToTheLeft

My Twins have been allocated two different schools. One was our second choice that we're pleased about the other is a school we didn't apply for, which is our closest but a horrible place and ds will not be going there.

I'm devastated, but had a feeling this was going to happen.

Many schools have rules about if last allocated is a twin the other gets in too. Did your second choice not have that rule? (Or do you live somewhere with banding tests or random allocation?)
ExitToTheLeft · 01/03/2022 18:45

My Twins have been allocated two different schools. One was our second choice that we're pleased about the other is a school we didn't apply for, which is our closest but a horrible place and ds will not be going there.

I'm devastated, but had a feeling this was going to happen.

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