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Intimidating teacher

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chillie · 27/01/2022 20:58

My son came home yesterday and told me that 8 boys including him in yr 10 were locked in a classroom with and by their chemistry teacher in clubs time until all the rubics cubes were handed in. After they were handed in she proceeded to shout at them that they had been disrespectful. When asked by one boy what was it that he had said or done to be disrespectful she unlocked the door and told them to all leave. She didn't answer him.
Today the same 8 boys were told by the head of year and an assistant headteacher that young female teachers can be intimidated by them and they should be more aware of how they behave.
This is in a super selective grammar school. All boys my son included can behave badly but I really feel that this was inappropriate to say to the boys. They are 14, all black or Asian and nobody shouted at her, swore or approached her. Surely if you are intimidated by teen boys then you don't take a job at an all boys secondary school?
My son who is not in her form tells me that other boys say she often locks the door, can't control the class and sometimes cries. I feel worried about this teacher, it doesn't sound like she is coping. I think she needs help. No teacher should need to lock the door, I would expect the teacher to have enough authority that the boys would not dare leave until given permission. Am I expecting too much?

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noblegiraffe · 27/01/2022 21:20

Sounds like these boys are making this teacher's life a misery. Pissing around with rubix cubes and not handing them over?

Yes it sounds like the teacher needs help. It also sounds like your DS and friends need a kick up the arse.

And large groups of teen boys can be intimidating, regardless of whether you're a teacher or not, particularly if they are being bolshy and throwing their weight around. That doesn't mean the teacher is in the wrong job.

No idea what their race has to do with it.

The teacher shouldn't be locking the door, that's basic safeguarding. I would hope that she is getting support from higher up. In the meantime, tell your DS to ditch the pack mentality and start behaving himself.