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School uniform in sixth form

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theae · 10/11/2021 09:32

Just beginning to think about possible sixth form options (that is A Level: do they still call it sixth form?) for dear daughter (1st year GCSE). Exploring with her what she is likely to want and it seems that a major factor is freedom of clothing.

At her current school (independent day school) they have to continue wearing the same uniform but with a different tie in the sixth form and this shocked me. Surely the beauty of the sixth form is some more freedom?

I attended similar school in another part of the country 20+ years ago and we had a dress code of essntially smart skirts and blouses for girls, any colour suits and ties for boys - not much different from a school uniform granted but still we were given some freedom.

Is it now more normal for schools to insist on uniform in the sixth form?

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ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 10/11/2021 18:51

Tbh, imo, the better the school, the more strict the dress code

This is so not true. There is no link between achievement and uniform. In fact badly performing schools often overly focus on uniform.

I left teaching last year, but spent 25 years teaching in one of the country’s top state schools.

Uniform in KS3 and 4. No limit on hairstyles/makeup
KS5 could wear anything as long as not revealing it offensive.

Frequently beat both the local private schools in A level results.

gogohm · 10/11/2021 18:43

Dd1 wore whatever she wanted bar a few rules on decency eg no crop tops and skirts/shorts not too short (state). Dd2 wore uniform (private)

DrCoconut · 10/11/2021 17:51

We've not had school 6th forms for years here unless you're paying for private education or going out of area to grammar. Those places have uniform but the colleges don't. The only dress code is suitable for the subject and not offensive.

campion · 10/11/2021 17:34

*JennyDune(
Tbh, imo, the better the school, the more strict the dress code

We do have a weird attachment to uniform in this country. Most others get by just fine and produce well educated young people without prescribing the minutiae of their clothing.

Fwiw for many years I taught in a top independent school which had no uniform or dress code in the sixth form, and the results and behaviour were/are outstanding. There are far better things to occupy your time with sixth formers than the colour of their jumpers.

MrsAvocet · 10/11/2021 17:24

My children's state school has uniform in 6th form but it's different to the rest of the school. It's the only school in our area with a uniform. All the rest have a "business dress" dress code. I prefer the uniform. It's smart and straightforward, relatively inexpensive and not open to interpretation. Virtually everyone I know who has children at other local schools have had to spend quite a lot on 6th form clothes as their children's normal clothes don't meet the dress code, and quite a few have have outfits rejected by the schools as being unsuitable. At least with uniform you know where you stand, and you don't need as much either as nobody is worrying about being seen in the same outfit twice in a week.
I think business dress is the worst of both worlds. It's still clothes teenagers don't really want to wear but it costs more than uniform and takes more effort. Either have a uniform or let them wear what they actually want!

Placido · 10/11/2021 17:23

@521Jeanie

Most round here specify formal business attire (suits) or office wear (ie smartish casual, not denim or sportswear.). DD travelled some distance to a more liberal college, where as a PP said, they emphasised turning up on time and doing the work over the students' appearance. I was fully supportive of this. I felt she needed to grow as a person and find out who she was rather than be squashed down.
Completely agree. How much more sensible is your opinion of what should be happening in a school than what @JennyDune believes in. I have seen so many people arrive at University ill prepared having come from stifled institutions that prioritise results over mental health and exploration.
Cattitudes · 10/11/2021 17:11

[quote JennyDune]@Cattitudes

I meant generally. Obviously there will be some individuals who are the exception/s.[/quote]
I meant schools not individuals around here it is very much as Finknottlesnewt describes. It is the 'up and coming' schools who have the strictest dress codes, so your prejudice against certain schools would definitely be misplaced.

QueenofLouisiana · 10/11/2021 17:08

DS wears a suit/ tie or smart trousers/ waistcoat/ tie. The girls are meant to wear business dress but it seems much more loosely defined. It fits in with the whole school focus on uniform and presentation.

JennyDune · 10/11/2021 17:05

@Cattitudes

I meant generally. Obviously there will be some individuals who are the exception/s.

JennyDune · 10/11/2021 17:04

[quote Placido]@JennyDune do you really only judge a school on those limited criteria?[/quote]
I would disagree that what i said was a limited criteria. Imo, its the main purpose of school.

Other stuff, like life skills, DIY, cooking, social skills, behaviour need to be taught and reinforced at home

irregularegular · 10/11/2021 17:03

My children both went to single sex grammar schools. My son had basically full school uniform (suit, tie) though suit could be grey/dark blue/black. Daughter had no uniform and pretty much anything goes. On balance I prefer the latter, though it does cause some extra stress too.

I think the worst is "business dress". What on earth is that supposed to be? What a pain! And particularly crazy when University doesn't ask for anything like that.

Cattitudes · 10/11/2021 16:59

[quote JennyDune]@Placido

I judge schools based on academic results and the proportion of pupils who go on to study good degrees (medicine, dentistry, etc) or good universities (red brick, etc).

And you can most definitely judge a school/cohort's behaviour on appearance. As someone who lives near several schools, the children/school who are well dressed usually behave more orderly.[/quote]
Ah well your prejudices would be misplaced near me then.

521Jeanie · 10/11/2021 16:56

Most round here specify formal business attire (suits) or office wear (ie smartish casual, not denim or sportswear.).
DD travelled some distance to a more liberal college, where as a PP said, they emphasised turning up on time and doing the work over the students' appearance. I was fully supportive of this. I felt she needed to grow as a person and find out who she was rather than be squashed down.

Placido · 10/11/2021 16:44

@JennyDune also absolutely nonsense that smartly dressed children behave better. I have a DN at Eton and there is plenty of drugs and drinking and vandalism and bullying going on there I can tell you!

Placido · 10/11/2021 16:41

@JennyDune do you really only judge a school on those limited criteria?

Twizbe · 10/11/2021 16:32

My husband wore full uniform in sixth form - independent boys.

I went to a state sixth form college and had no uniform or dress code really.

averythinline · 10/11/2021 16:17

Different for each school here..2 pretty much wear what you like with some limits 1 Different tie, 2 business smart, privates all suits for boys.the girls private is own clothes within a tight framework.

My ds changed from a suit school to a wear what u like.....which is fine but they also had to meet minimum standards as well...which we discussed beforehand so clothes couldn't be the only factor

NeonShortsInWinter · 10/11/2021 16:12

Ds's sixth form is pretty strict. At the open evening the head laid it out that they have a dress code and it includes, no shorts, no sandals, no vest tops, no hoodies, no joggers and no ripped jeans. Cue loud sighs from lots of girls wearing ripped jeans some of which revealed entire thighs and looked more like chaps than jeans.

The head said quite frankly if you care more about being able to wear ripped jeans to college then we don't want you here as you do not have the right attitude. Grin He said you have plenty of time outside of college to "express yourself" clothing wise and you can do it then. You come here to learn and progress, not walk a catwalk. Loads of parents were nodding in agreement.

Amazingly it is oversubscribed every year and there is plenty of choice locally. It has really good results and cares more about your attitude to learning, your engagement with college life including all the clubs and enrichment activities than it does about top grades. They focus on the individual and achieving their goals rather than being selective. I can't fault it. And before anyone says they must bake in summer, nope, it is a modern purpose built place with air con and a fucking branded coffee shop inside. Times have changed.

steppemum · 10/11/2021 15:52

I have 2 kids at grammar school sixth form

Both have no uniform.
boys school asked for no hoodies ripped jeans.
girls school has no rules at all as far as I can see

yomellamoHelly · 10/11/2021 15:49

Ds has "business wear" which is defined as a dark suit (for the boys), shirt and the school tie with proper shoes for boys. Ds calls it a uniform as he wouldn't dream of wearing any of it for any other occasion. (Dh goes to work in jeans and jumpers / anything he likes.....)

Coughee · 10/11/2021 15:49

It's uniform (slightly different uniform to the rest of the school) at my kids secondary school. Its same for other schools in the area too. I also had to wear a uniform in 6th form so it seems totally normal to me.

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 10/11/2021 15:47

There's no information on the website, which is annoying.

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 10/11/2021 15:42

DS2 is in year 9, I'll have a look at their 6th form dress code. I'm interested now.

RuthW · 10/11/2021 15:41

I've never know a sixth form to have a uniform. Round here it's office wear.

Lemonsyellow · 10/11/2021 15:38

I had school uniform in sixth form at my comprehensive school back in the ‘80s. There’s still a uniform in sixth form now. Seems normal to me.

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