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Henrietta Barnett, Latymer or Dame Alice Owens

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choosingtherightschool · 27/09/2021 11:31

We are currently struggling to decide which one is the best for DD.

DD is in a very fortunate position to have passed round 1 of HBS (and we live within 3 miles), and very good chance of getting through to both DAO and Latymer. Music is a massive part of her life, she plays mutli instruments and has already achievement very good grades in them. She also loves sports, enjoys various types, such as running, football, basketball, tennis, table tennis. She’s very competitive and loves challenges.
She is in a mixed primary school, where she gets on with boys and girls equally well. She is not fussy at all and doesn’t mind go to either girl or mix school.
None of these schools are very close to us, all approx. 40-50mins by bus, but DD feels more independent to travel by bus.
We also have a DS who is in year 4 and I always wondered if its better to send them to same school for the closer relationship and easier life, DAO’s sibling rule is obviously very attractive, but we have to choose what’s best for DD for now.
We want to choose an academic school that also provides all round education, and outstanding in music/performing art/sport, most importantly where she will be happy for the next 7 years.
It’s very difficult at the moment that we can’t visit all of these schools properly apart from DAO offers open days. Anyone has recent experience of these schools please kindly provide us with some insight!
Thank you in advance!

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choosingtherightschool · 08/10/2021 13:40

@megafemme thanks so much for your comments, I'm so pleased to finally hear something so positive about HBS.
Yes the travel is definitely the most straightforward, and I totally get that the pressure is mostly from parents or the kids themselves. The only bit of concern we have is that the school seems lack of diversity, and some girls live far away, I'm wondering if there is community feel, and is it easy to form friendships and have a good social life.?

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Stokey · 08/10/2021 10:17

@choosingtherightschool I think they lost a court case which meant they aren't allowed to only have IC doing the exam. It is a massive waste of resources for an underfunded school. My daughter's rank before they took out OOC was over 500. We found out in March that she was on the waiting list and finally got a place just before term started. She was all set to go to our local school which was our second choice. Ideally I wouldn't recommend this path!

@megafemme Latymer does Latin too from Y8. For some reason they do German in Y7, we would have preferred Spanish.

megafemme · 08/10/2021 07:46

My dd went to HBS and had a really good experience. IMO the pastoral care was strong and it's the parents who create a pushy vibe, not the staff.

We live not far from you OP and her journey was easy, the 263 bus to East Finch then the 102 for the 10 mins to HGS.

She did lots of music and several really nice school trips. One factor in our decision was that HBS offered Latin and DAO doesn't, which she always liked. Then again, Latymer offers Russian!

In terms of travel, I'd say HBS would be your easiest journey. The 626 will get you to DAO but if you're involved in extra curriculars it's another matter entirely. And please do not believe the hype about Latymer being situated in the North London equivalent of the Wild west Hmm.

My line of work brings me into contact with students and parents at all three of those schools. They are all good in many ways. IMO one of the nice things about HBS is that it remains relatively small which creates a more nurturing environment.

Feel free to PM if you want more details and good luck with your decision.

choosingtherightschool · 08/10/2021 06:27

[quote Stokey]@HoverParent just to add another variable. After you get a place in the top 650, you then get your English final place. But then in January your place moves again when they remove all the out of catchment places. My daughter moved nearly 200 places, I think over 40% of the top 650 were OOC.[/quote]
@Stokey that’s such a larger number of OOC, I couldn’t believe it when looking at the results letter saying the same. I heard someone rank in 500 something got offer last year too. Latymer really should start doing something to prevent people using their exams as mock, it’s just not fair on the school.

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Stokey · 07/10/2021 22:51

@HoverParent just to add another variable. After you get a place in the top 650, you then get your English final place. But then in January your place moves again when they remove all the out of catchment places. My daughter moved nearly 200 places, I think over 40% of the top 650 were OOC.

choosingtherightschool · 07/10/2021 17:25

@HoverParent

So Latymer results are out since Monday night! Luckily we were up binge watching Squid Game, so we caught it at around midnight! (Anyone else feel like Squid Game is the ultimate metaphor of the Grammar School process!)

OK, so deciphering the results from being non-news is challenging. It is only really news if that was the end of the line. So, out of 2500 applicants, 650 are through to having their English scored, which will then result in a new final ranking of the top 200. So kids have gone from a 1/12 to a 1/3 chance.

For Music, out of 200 applicants, 30 were invited to audition, and an undisclosed number were accepted based on evidence of Grades. I would guess about 10 of the 30 will be accepted (again about 1/3) and 10 places would be based on Grades (not sure what the probability is here, since about 100 kids did provide evidence but no idea how many were G5 and above), but that is purely speculative. I don't know this for a fact.

So either, this was end of the line, and for the rest, wait another two weeks, something like that!

Yes we have been lucky enough to get through to the 650 and music audition, I think up to 16/17 candidates will be chosen from the 30, had a look at the previous music allocation reports, 3/4 candidates done grade 6 or above exam will get offered a place straightaway. Good luck to everyone doing the audition and waiting on 2nd round results.
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HoverParent · 07/10/2021 15:57

So Latymer results are out since Monday night! Luckily we were up binge watching Squid Game, so we caught it at around midnight! (Anyone else feel like Squid Game is the ultimate metaphor of the Grammar School process!)

OK, so deciphering the results from being non-news is challenging. It is only really news if that was the end of the line. So, out of 2500 applicants, 650 are through to having their English scored, which will then result in a new final ranking of the top 200. So kids have gone from a 1/12 to a 1/3 chance.

For Music, out of 200 applicants, 30 were invited to audition, and an undisclosed number were accepted based on evidence of Grades. I would guess about 10 of the 30 will be accepted (again about 1/3) and 10 places would be based on Grades (not sure what the probability is here, since about 100 kids did provide evidence but no idea how many were G5 and above), but that is purely speculative. I don't know this for a fact.

So either, this was end of the line, and for the rest, wait another two weeks, something like that!

choosingtherightschool · 04/10/2021 21:44

@Mrsfrumble

Apparently Latymer are having technical issues and won’t be sending out results until Monday.
Still not received! Do you know when to expect?
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choosingtherightschool · 01/10/2021 19:22

@nancypineapple

I think it all depends where you are based op and realistically the travelling. My kids have several friends that go to all 3 of those schools-the favoured one is definately DAO. Latymer is in quite a rough neighbourhood and there were a few incidents of muggings for phones etc. HBS has the rep of being a hothouse and lack of pastoral and is a pain to get to unless you live in HGS. DAO is the only one with a sibling policy plus it is one of the top rated schools for music and has several bus routes.
Thank you for your recommendations. We are in Friern Barnet and it’s similar time to travel to all these schools, I’m aware of the issues with Latymer, but their music department seem to be so strong, and so is their pastoral care. We are yet to hear back the results so very anxious and exciting times!
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Mrsfrumble · 01/10/2021 16:23

Apparently Latymer are having technical issues and won’t be sending out results until Monday.

nancypineapple · 01/10/2021 14:49

I think it all depends where you are based op and realistically the travelling. My kids have several friends that go to all 3 of those schools-the favoured one is definately DAO. Latymer is in quite a rough neighbourhood and there were a few incidents of muggings for phones etc. HBS has the rep of being a hothouse and lack of pastoral and is a pain to get to unless you live in HGS. DAO is the only one with a sibling policy plus it is one of the top rated schools for music and has several bus routes.

longestlurkerever · 01/10/2021 14:46

Oh thank you. Not holding our breath, tbh, and unsure about the distance anyway, but good for the mental load to narrow down the options. Good luck!

HoverParent · 01/10/2021 14:38

@longestlurkerever
Latymer results are supposed to come by email in the next 2 hours (I heard that it may be end of day Oct 1, to give people the weekend to process it, whether good or bad)!

choosingtherightschool · 29/09/2021 13:54

@Anydream

The buses at DAO do go at the end of the day. Lots of students stay on for clubs but then walk en masse to the station to get trains/buses or parents collect them if they can/want to. There aren't any late buses because the school doesn't run the bus services. *@stokey* sorry if my comment made it sound as though that was a wider concern about Latymer - I don't think that can be the case as their results are excellent. It was just some of my friends who felt that their children needed to be pushed more to achieve better. I'm sure that that isn't the case for everyone though (and is second hand info!)
@Anydream thank you Re info after school journey options, I suppose as long as many other kids are doing the same, it's not a major concern. I think many of my worries is obviously from the usual anxiety of sending the 1st child to the big school, seemingly overwhelming for kids and parents...
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choosingtherightschool · 29/09/2021 00:06

[quote Stokey]@choosingtherightschool my DD1 has just started at Latymer and so far so good. I obviously can't claim to be an expert yet but have been impressed so far by how well she's settled in, she didn't know anyone else who was going this year.

I was worried about the journey and it was nearly a deal breaker, but actually she's coping with it fine. There are loads of kids going to and from the bus stop or train station each day so there's always a group. We met a group of kids from our area who are all going and travel in together. I think from some places, parents have arranged private buses too. School also finishes reasonably early, 3:10 most days, 2:30 on Fridays and every other Tuesday, so it gives them plenty of time to do clubs or get home. She is quite tired but I think they all are when they start.
It doesn't feel hot housey at all, quite the opposite. I've no idea of @Anydream's comment about children not getting expected results as we're nowhere close to that yet.
The music seems amazing, they're encouraged to participate and lots on offer.

I feel like we've made the right choice but only time will tell. Good luck to everyone waiting today.[/quote]
@Stokey Thanks so much, great to hear the positive things about Latymer, and lovely to know that your DD is settling well there. We heard their pastoral care is excellent.
Thanks for the reassurance about the journey, Latymer is definitely still a stronger contender for us, although still waiting on results and music audition.

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Stokey · 28/09/2021 19:12

No problem @Anydream. It's so early for us but at the moment DD feels like she's being challenged which definitely wasn't the case at her primary.

Anydream · 28/09/2021 18:27

The buses at DAO do go at the end of the day. Lots of students stay on for clubs but then walk en masse to the station to get trains/buses or parents collect them if they can/want to. There aren't any late buses because the school doesn't run the bus services.
@stokey sorry if my comment made it sound as though that was a wider concern about Latymer - I don't think that can be the case as their results are excellent. It was just some of my friends who felt that their children needed to be pushed more to achieve better. I'm sure that that isn't the case for everyone though (and is second hand info!)

Stokey · 28/09/2021 18:16

@choosingtherightschool my DD1 has just started at Latymer and so far so good. I obviously can't claim to be an expert yet but have been impressed so far by how well she's settled in, she didn't know anyone else who was going this year.

I was worried about the journey and it was nearly a deal breaker, but actually she's coping with it fine. There are loads of kids going to and from the bus stop or train station each day so there's always a group. We met a group of kids from our area who are all going and travel in together. I think from some places, parents have arranged private buses too. School also finishes reasonably early, 3:10 most days, 2:30 on Fridays and every other Tuesday, so it gives them plenty of time to do clubs or get home. She is quite tired but I think they all are when they start.
It doesn't feel hot housey at all, quite the opposite. I've no idea of @Anydream's comment about children not getting expected results as we're nowhere close to that yet.
The music seems amazing, they're encouraged to participate and lots on offer.

I feel like we've made the right choice but only time will tell. Good luck to everyone waiting today.

choosingtherightschool · 28/09/2021 13:23

@longestlurkerever

Very well done to your dd! A slight hijack if I may - does anyone have any idea when to expect to hear about non-music places at Latymer?
Thank you, we are also keen to find out about the 1st round results, I heard it could be sometime today.
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longestlurkerever · 28/09/2021 13:13

Very well done to your dd! A slight hijack if I may - does anyone have any idea when to expect to hear about non-music places at Latymer?

Moominmammacat · 28/09/2021 10:42

Lovely open site too.

choosingtherightschool · 28/09/2021 10:30

@Moominmammacat

No idea if this is true but somebody told me there are way more children from DAO in Saturday conservatoire than from any other school.
@Moominmammacat That's great to hear. Thank you for your recommendations. DAO must be doing something right to be so popular :-)
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choosingtherightschool · 28/09/2021 10:23

@Anydream Thanks so much for taking your time writing such comprehensive review, it's much appreciated, it's so lovely to hear all your 3 children had/having wonderful time at DAO. I have always had a great impression of them. I heard the unfortunate incident happened earlier this year, but I feel no school is perfectly, I'm more concerned about the tragedy at HBS, and can imagine the high pressure.
I have a feeling that DD might be leaning towards Latymer, as one of her school friend is also applying, his sister is already there and really enjoying it, and the family are very impressed of it's music department too. But my only concern focuses on the safety issues outside the school, worrying about the long walk to/from the bus stop...
Apart from the areas, I think DAO and Latymer are very similar, DAO is surprisingly academic considering it's only partial selective. we are further from DAO. I heard the school buses leave straight after school, which makes me wonder how can she participate in after school clubs. HB is closer but I'm not entirely convinced that single sex education is better... although a friend's 2 daughters both went there and were very happy too.
Would be great to hear more from some Latymer or HBS parents too!

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HoverParent · 28/09/2021 10:09

DAO is definitely not racist in its intake, or its grading, or the university destinations of its ethnicities. The student population is more mixed than ever. Lots of Indians and Chinese, and high-achieving West African kids as well. Many private schools have less of a mix.

The furore came from how the senior management dealt with a racist incident in a perfunctory manner, and hopefully they have learned from that. And it's good seeing kids stand up for their rights and effect change in a positive manner. Good for them making a big deal of it.

Moominmammacat · 28/09/2021 08:58

No idea if this is true but somebody told me there are way more children from DAO in Saturday conservatoire than from any other school.

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