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Corona Cohort Y12 into Y13, braving the storm of the third wave

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Monkey2001 · 20/06/2021 11:24

Supportive thread for parents of Y12 students going into Y13.

Previous thread - www.mumsnet.com/Talk/secondary/4240252-Thread-16-Corona-Cohort-Year-12-2021-Zooming-through-Summer-Term

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KingscoteStaff · 22/06/2021 12:28

@estherfrewen DS is just finishing year 1 at Durham and the sport (even this year!) has been brilliant and so friendly. It’s a high standard too - the 4th teams for cricket and rugby a full of boys who have been in their county age group squads all the way up.

Also, anyone with cricketing daughters - Durham women’s cricket is excellent.

ealingwestmum · 22/06/2021 12:24

Great predictions btw!

ealingwestmum · 22/06/2021 12:23

If there’s one thing the travel industry is master at, is bouncing back; very best of luck to her whoamI, such a fabulous sector. Across all functions. Does she have a preference for short or long haul? I guess it’s still early to decide...

whoamitojudge · 22/06/2021 12:06

Hi. My DD is at college just finishing a L2 BTEC in Travel with predicted grades of double distinction, she is going back to do L3 next year.
It's very interesting to read about the uni application processes as she doesn't want to go to uni so its not something that we have had to research.
DD is extremely focused on ( hopefully) getting a cabin crew job at the end of L3 which is a 2 year course so we will wait and see how the travel industry picks up.
Congratulations to you all that have posted your good news on here I've just caught up from the last thread!

MirandaWest · 22/06/2021 11:06

@Orangecinnamon21 thank you - that sounds interesting. If you know any more about it that would be great.

As DS only said about this last night I’m not sure how much he’s thought about it but I am wondering whether it would be better to apply and defer, or wait until next year to apply at all, as he’d have his A level results then anyway…

ealingwestmum · 22/06/2021 10:41

In non-academic news DD got her sax result today, distinction for G4, which was great as she got the sax for her 16th with most learning being taught remotely since. God knows how the maintenance of it works though!

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 22/06/2021 09:59

@estherfrewen thanks for your comments, it's sort of reassuring that your DS found it hard but still got a B in his mock. I know he was disappointed but I think they great results and he should not beat himself up. I'm not sure where they are with the NEA stuff, DS said that the poetry was going to be coursework only but that doesn't sound right? Good luck for the Russian History, that is what DS is covering in History, I find it quite fascinating a someone who didn't take History as an option.

@shimy well done to your DS on that great test result!

Orangecinnamon21 · 22/06/2021 09:46

@Fferny1

Well done for *@Shimys* D's. Especially triumphing with Sen issues makes it all the sweeter.
    Loughborough & Cardiff are In the top few for Architecture apparently. With Loughborough having 100% in employment, post course. But I know absolutely nothing about it. Other than it's very good for sports. Same with Cardiff, other than it's cheap to live there.
    How do I convince DD that it's worth looking at these places when she's so fixated on London?

Am i the only mnetter where Oxbridge holds no appeal? Dd1 doing vet. Medicine has said Cambridge vets. Have a certain reputation in practices of being not very practical and hands on. I can see the appeal if doing a non-vocational degree though and for future job applications.

Dd is not Oxbridge level (yet haha ) she is a B but sometimes A and sometimes C student. She has to put lots of effort in to 'get' stuff. I digress, if she was an A star star student Oxbridge's Music courses would hold little appeal. Cambridge is slightly more diverse in subject matter now , but lack of supported performance opportunities is a big no for her..she doesn't even want to go into performance but it needs to be a 'rounded' musical experience for her.
Fferny1 · 22/06/2021 09:40

Well done for @Shimys D's. Especially triumphing with Sen issues makes it all the sweeter.

    Loughborough & Cardiff are In the top few for Architecture apparently. With Loughborough having 100% in employment, post course. But I know absolutely nothing about it. Other than it's very good for sports. Same with Cardiff, other than it's cheap to live there.
    How do I convince DD that it's worth looking at these places when she's so fixated on London?

Am i the only mnetter where Oxbridge holds no appeal? Dd1 doing vet. Medicine has said Cambridge vets. Have a certain reputation in practices of being not very practical and hands on. I can see the appeal if doing a non-vocational degree though and for future job applications.

Orangecinnamon21 · 22/06/2021 09:22

@estherfrewen

We’re in Yorkshire so some are too far south for him. A lot of his swimming friends are looking at Loughborough but he’s not so keen on the history course there. Cardiff also an option - somewhere we spent a lot of time when he still competed as DH from there. Doesn’t fancy Durham for some reason best known only to him!
Seems a blunt tool but you could look at the BUCS league tables

www.bucs.org.uk/fixtures-and-results.html

estherfrewen · 22/06/2021 09:08

We’re in Yorkshire so some are too far south for him. A lot of his swimming friends are looking at Loughborough but he’s not so keen on the history course there. Cardiff also an option - somewhere we spent a lot of time when he still competed as DH from there. Doesn’t fancy Durham for some reason best known only to him!

Monkey2001 · 22/06/2021 08:53

DS1 fell in love with Cambridge when he was about 11 and we went punting. He really wanted to go, but did not get in despite great academic and admissions test results. However, he loves St Andrews, and it really feels like Cambridge light with bonus beaches - beautiful old buildings, a lot of very clever people around you and he has a choral scholarship. He was concerned that it would feel too posh, but he has made a great variety of friends, English, Scottish, International, rich, poor, it has worked very well for him, to the extent that it can in Covid times.

I think somebody mentioned that the first year uni mumsnet thread is dominated by very happy Lancaster parents. They seem to have Manfred a very good social life despite convos restrictions.

Loughborough is excellent for sports and Exeter was a very good choice for the very sporty DS of a friend.

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ProggyMat · 22/06/2021 08:20

Durham?

Piggywaspushed · 22/06/2021 08:07

Exeter?

estherfrewen · 22/06/2021 07:58

Great result @Shimy! DS still thinking of applying for Cambridge but I’m not sure on so many levels. Up to him though. He did Warwick Open Day various elements last weekend and really likes the look of their ancient history/archaeology and also still fancies Lancaster. He wants somewhere with lots of sport

Piggywaspushed · 22/06/2021 07:43

I am assuming Oxford and Cambridge are wonderful places to study for many when they get there. The college system has a lot going for it.

It's the intensity beforehand and the savage competition. Plus the idea that there is a complacency there : by far the most dull sounding online prospectuses, course descriptions and modules come from those unis.

AndwhenyougetthereFoffsomemore · 22/06/2021 07:11

Congrats to @Piggywaspushed and @KingscoteStaff @Shimy juniors! Great results! Both ds and I have been put off oxbridge and the mn thread is certainly terrifying - I lurked for a bit and it cemented the idea that maybe it’s not the place for ds ( he likes to feel safe; unlike ds who really enjoys being challenged and thrives on competition). Off to have a look at Southampton based on all the love here ;-) Not sure when we’ll get results and predictions - chomping at the bit although exams only finished on thurs for ds!

Orangecinnamon21 · 21/06/2021 23:47

@MirandaWest I know someone that did an extra college course in music production in their gap year. I think it was free!

MirandaWest · 21/06/2021 22:52

DS was doing some Geography in the living room when he suddenly said that once he’s done these exams he’s going to put some time in on recording some music (music is really his big thing but doesn’t do A Level as they don’t do it at his school).

Then he said if he had a gap year after A Levels he could give recording and performing a proper go and then go to university after that. And he had more enthusiasm for that than thinking about Geography degrees.

Was a sudden thing but I think it could well make sense. I did say he’d need to get a part time job as well (although maybe he could make it big….)

EwwSprouts · 21/06/2021 22:32

Got a DC in 6th form then you belong here whatever the results.

That fighting spirit is clearly going to serve him well!

Shimy · 21/06/2021 22:16

Thanks Eww, I feeling a bit like an imposter because DS1 had quite the opposite results when he did his. Didn’t study, games the whole way through, and so on the thread for his Yr when lots were posting fab results it was a complete head in hands throughout. I remember discussing alternatives, BTecs etc and we dared not even look at the Unis ds2 is considering. But not just that, DS2 has SEN and has always struggled but he is a fighter! so I can hardly believe the results he’s getting.

EwwSprouts · 21/06/2021 22:06

Shimy Fabulous result there!

Monkey2001 · 21/06/2021 21:50

@PaddingtonPaddington ours was status "waiting for form" for about 6 weeks, then changed to despatched and arrived next day. I don't think chasing will make a difference as I think there is a massive pile of post waiting to be scanned and once it gets on their system it very quickly gets issued.

There are a few people who pop up on the Oxbridge thread every year who are quite frustrating! Cambridge website is brilliant for information, the stats page is great, although it will show you that for some courses there were 20% more applicants and 20% fewer offers this year, probably due to grade inflation last year. Some Oxford stats are published by depts, so vary in level of detail. There is also lots of data on whatdotheyknow.com, a great resource!

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Shimy · 21/06/2021 21:38

This thread is moving fast! Congratulations to those with good results. DS came top of his class in Economics with 80% Smile. Predictions out on Friday.

Orangecinnamon21 · 21/06/2021 21:36

That's great @PaddingtonPaddington. It seems to be a city with so many accessible opportunities. We really liked Bute Park etc and Dd absolutely fell in love with the Bay area.