Hallo everybody. Don’t suppose anyone remembers me, but you were enormously helpful to me aback a while.Just caught up with this thread, having missed a few. Don’t know why I dropped off, you are all so fantastically well informed, and supportive.
Our inherited teen really struggled with the last lockdown. I did worry that she wouldn’t pick up again. She was very withdrawn and morose, no interest in anything at all. But since being back in school in March, she has re-emerged. She loves school, and wants to go to university. With very little understanding, she has decided she would like to go to Oxford. NowI am all for encouraging people, but I don’t want to set her up to fail, and predicted grades don’t really work for someone who barely went to school beforeEaster in year 9, but her predictions are BCC. So she knows she would need 3 As and a very good interview. We wouldn’t want her to get to Uni and then struggle, so Meanwhile we are arranging some testing to discover her potential and any barriers to learning, apart from having missed about 8 years of school.. I’m just hoping that if we keep it real, having a goal will raise her game , and she does know that we are already insanely proud of her for making a success of school, despite so much trauma in her life. On the plus side, there does seem to be an understanding that it is insanely difficult for children to go to Uni after difficult domestic circumstances and a period inCare.
So reading about other parents wondering how much support in terms of information gathering etc to give has been very helpful to me. I think I may suggest a day trip somewhere over half term, as I don’t think she’s ever seen a University, and also check out some open days.