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Attending a Catholic School as a non-practicing Catholic

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KateBlush · 28/02/2021 13:26

My DD is highly likely to be allocated a place a Catholic Girls School tomorrow. I'm interested in what her day-to-day experience might be like for non-practicing pupil.

From school visits and communication coming out of the school, its catholic culture seems pretty all-pervading. DH is catholic (I'm Anglican) and our children are baptised catholic, but religion is not part of our daily lives and if pushed, we both feel pretty negative about the church. It's an 'outstanding' school and academically very strong. It's also unapologetically old-fashioned - combined with the faith factor this worries me a bit - might this be a potentially stifling environment for a non-catholic?

Do any of you have children at faith schools where the faith is not a determining factor for you - how do your children fare? Do they feel excluded in any way? Does it feature in every part of their school experience? Thank you.

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Biscuitsneeded · 28/02/2021 13:40

I wish these sorts of schools that perform religious indoctrination were not allowed to be funded by the public purse, but even if they must be, why on earth would you send your daughter there if you are a non-practising family? The Catholic church's position on women's rights is pretty dodgy OP. Is that really what you want for your daughter?

Tempusfudgeit · 28/02/2021 13:33

If she's baptised Catholic, she's a Catholic. Whether she believes or chooses to practice it, is up to her.

PotteringAlong · 28/02/2021 13:32

But yes, it will probably feature in lots of their school experience. My children are at a Catholic school and my DH teaches in one. Prayers at the start and end of every lesson. Daily collective worship, more for things like Ash Wednesday. School residential retreats, their RE curriculum will be geared towards Catholic Christianity.

PotteringAlong · 28/02/2021 13:27

So why did you apply then?

There’s also no way or knowing without knowing the specific school - some catholic schools are more Catholic than others!