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Sutton High School

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mimsical76 · 24/01/2021 20:28

Hi everyone,
My DD has received an offer from Sutton High, for entry in year 7 in September 2021. We are still awaiting results from another school. Can anyone please tell me what it’s like compared to Surbiton High (which I didn’t particularly like)? Though it seems, like parents are more drawn to Surbiton High rather than Sutton High, is there a reason for this? GCSE results seems quite similar.
Many thanks. Smile

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Corblimbea · 28/01/2021 18:49

Thank you @HighRopes I remember being terrified my first time travelling by bus as 11, but then loved it. The bus goes out to Southfields I think but the website says they can add stops by request. My DD will probably be dropped by us for a while, wherever she goes, then find a friend to travel with.

HighRopes · 28/01/2021 15:04

There’s definitely a bus from Dorset Road (Kingston Road end) as I’ve seen it. Not sure about further into Wimbledon.

But you may be surprised by what your dd can manage in terms of independent travel. My summer born dd has been doing two tubes to school since Y7, all by herself, quite happily. We did a couple of practice runs in the summer before, and she generally comes home with friends, but she actually enjoys the journey in as she gets to read or play on her phone and also there’s the chance to stop and buy Pringles Grin

sanam2019 · 28/01/2021 14:17

I thought Sutton High has a school bus covering Wimbledon / Wimbledon Park and surrounding areas?

Corblimbea · 28/01/2021 13:54

DD was toured by two girls on the entrance exam day snd one was from Earlsfield and one from Wimbledon, so I think there will be lots on the train. But I agree - such a daunting thought as they are our babies! But I did it at 11 so we just have to probably push past our fears!

mimsical76 · 28/01/2021 13:50

@Losingthewill01 me neither! my DD has never been out on her own.
You could ask the school, if there are any girls in your area taking the same the train? Perhaps you could team up with them, a good way to begin making new friendships too. ☺️

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Losingthewill01 · 28/01/2021 13:39

@mimsical76 Thanks! I haven’t let her go out alone yet so it will a big step! I’m sure she will be fine.....unlike me!!!

mimsical76 · 28/01/2021 13:37

Hi @Losingthewill01
sorry if I jump in! Just wanted to say that I am sure there will be lots of Sutton High girls on that train. We live in Wimbledon and eventually my daughter will be catching the train from Wimbledon on her own.
It is totally daunting, I agree.

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Losingthewill01 · 28/01/2021 13:19

@Mammamiammy yes it’s the only wobble I have about Sutton high is the fact my DD will be getting the train for the first time! Am hoping there will be others on the train from Sutton. She too is an end of July baby so only just 11 in Sept. I think I’ll be travelling with her for a long while at the beginning until I am confident she is able to find her own way!!!! We are at top end of our financial budget so couldn’t really justify the mini bus school service. It’s only 6 stops on train from us near Hayden’s road so maybe a lot of others will get on at Wimbledon....it’s daunting the thought of independent travel at this age!!!!

mimsical76 · 28/01/2021 13:15

Hi @Mammamiammy
it is difficult if you are geographically far from the school, especially if you eventually want your DC to make their own way. Which is I think, an important part of their development.
Sutton High does have a good school bus route, have you checked it? You might also be able to ask if they could include a stop near you? there might be other girls in your DD’s position.

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mimsical76 · 28/01/2021 13:11

Hi @Corblimbea
We will hear from Emanuel around 12th February, which right now feels like ages away. The numbers also seem huge, and despite my DD having very good grades, her CAT scores are on the high end, she seems to crumble under exam pressure. She didn’t get through to the interview for KGS. So I have no idea how the interview went, as I had to step away from the door. The written exam was unsupervised by the school, I think they are very naive if they don’t think a proportion will cheat. I can trust my own integrity but not those of stressed desparate parents wanting to kids into oversubscribed schools! Surely they could have done better. Other schools have managed.
So I am increasingly drawn to Sutton High.
Though I do think that this whole process has become totally insane and toxic. Some parents really loose their marbles! I grew up in central London, we just did the 11+ without much fanfare, no tutors...it was just a stepping stone.

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Mammamiammy · 28/01/2021 11:14

@mimsical76 well done for getting an interview at KGS. Well we are state primary and it’s a 3 form year with 31 kids in her class mostly some quite challenging boys. It’s a brilliant school but anything private mixed or co-Ed will be significantly better. One school interviewer asked my daughter what she prefers given we’d applied to both and she said I don’t know purely on the basis she’s no idea what an all girls school will be like. I would imagine a lot calmer than what she’s used to but it’s not really an issue for us. In some ways wish we were closer to Sutton as it really seems like a very lovely school and their handling of the entrance process has Ben brilliant. It seems like it would suit her perfectly, but she’s very young for her year (end of July) and at only just 11 I don’t fancy putting her on two trains each way. Perhaps I’m being over precious but it seems too much... fingers crossed for Surbiton. I hope she’s done enough. Well done to everyone else. God it’s such a stressful time. At least we have some offers. I feel lucky.

Corblimbea · 28/01/2021 10:59

@mimsical76 when will you hear from Emanuel? It wasn’t one we looked at. We had interview for KGS as a co-Ed option but now very firmly thinking single sex and I’ve been reading so much about this. @Mammamiammy it’s a hard choice if SHs is so close to you! we have some friends from Kingston/Surbiton who get the 213 to Sutton (for grammars) so might be ok as a direct route. Definitely the smaller year group appeals at Sutton. I think Surbiton said they have 120-150 in a year which is a lot, but then the grammars have 240 in a year now which is one reason DD is not so keen. Sutton was around 80 I think. We are in a relatively small prep so she’s preferring the smaller classes and schools I think. So hard!

mimsical76 · 26/01/2021 18:47

@Losingthewill01
Thank you!! Yes, maybe see you in September ☺️
(Sutton High is also the only school my daughter got to visit!)

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mimsical76 · 26/01/2021 18:45

Thank you!! Yes, maybe see you in September ☺️

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Losingthewill01 · 26/01/2021 17:05

It certainly has! I think we found it easier to accept Sutton as it was the only school my DD has managed to get a tour of during the entrance exam! Not sure how parents are expected to accept a place at a school they have never set foot inside!.
Good luck to you all. Maybe see some of you if you accept Sutton high!
It will soon be all over 😁

mimsical76 · 26/01/2021 16:44

@Mammamiammy thank you and very true!!! 😂😂😂 it has become a crazy process. 😬

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Mammamiammy · 26/01/2021 16:40

And good luck to you. What a horrid process. Who’d have thought it would be so difficult to pay £18k a year for the next 5 😩

mimsical76 · 26/01/2021 16:07

@Mammamiammy
Good luck, I really hope you get Surbiton High!
We are waiting with much trepidation, the outcome from Emanuel. Again, another super oversubscribed school! 🤞 🤞

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Mammamiammy · 26/01/2021 16:01

Yes all the indies are massively over subscribed somehow. So much for a global downturn 😩. Yes daughter was a flat NO from KGS with 1300 applications for 100 places. We all love SHS and as it’s literally on our doorstep, we feel like we know it very well. We certainly endure the traffic associated with it 😜. DD did a superb interview (as I was listening outside) so let’s hope her exam was decent too. Well thanks all for the tips. My fingers and toes are crossed but know we are lucky to already have two in the bag!

mimsical76 · 26/01/2021 15:39

thank you @sandyandmandy
I think these are all very personal choices. Both schools are most probably excellent! I went to the open day at Surbiton High, and didn’t take to it. Though my daughter didn’t come with me. So things might be different if she had, as we didn’t apply to Surbiton High. Plus, I do really like the GDST values which is a bit draw. Very difficult decisions!!

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sandyandmandy · 26/01/2021 15:12

We looked at both schools a few years ago when open days were a thing and my daughter plumped for Surbiton despite the fact we live in Sutton.
The big draw of SHS for her was the sport, the art room and the fashion show!
Despite being shy the size of the school was not a drawback in fact it was a bonus. It means there is much more on offer in terms of clubs, sport and of course friendships.
I have friends with girls at Sutton High and they love it there but many leave at the end of of year 11 to go to a bigger sixth form. So this is something to bear in mind.
I also have to say that the lockdown provision and the pastoral care from SHS has been outstanding over the last year.

mimsical76 · 26/01/2021 15:08

Hi @Mammamiammy
from what I have heard, most girls get offered a place at Surbiton High. Though this year all independent secondary schools have received an unprecedented number of applications, so I am not sure whether things will be different. KGS is a much more competitive school to get into, this year they had over 1,000 applications for only 50 places for girls (100 in total). So try not to worry, easier said than done, I know. 😬 such a stressful time! Good luck!

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Mammamiammy · 26/01/2021 14:37

We live v v close to Surbiton High school so if we were lucky enough to get both we would have to go with location but Surbiton is getting very tough to get into.. DD was offered a place in year 4 but we turned it down due to financial implications but I’m regretting it 😩

Corblimbea · 26/01/2021 13:57

@Mammamiammy whereabouts are you based?

Mammamiammy · 26/01/2021 13:01

Hi guys. My DD also has an offer from Sutton but now also one from Notre Dame Cobham and waiting on Surbiton. Surbiton is our first choice but there is very high demand this year. We would struggle to get to Sutton so SHS more attractive although head at Sutton was really lovely. Those of you in prep schools have you been given guidance on likelihood of getting into SHS equal to Sutton? We are in state primary so absolutely no guidance whatsoever in fact almost no school for the last year really 😡. Your thoughts would be appreciated... we didn’t get into KGS and are awaiting Claremont

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