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GCSE Summer 2020 - Thread 11 Carry on Corona Cohort - Starting New Terms and Settings

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OrangeCinnamon1 · 04/09/2020 16:16

Welcome all to the 11th Thread for this year's GCSE cohort - The Corona Cohort!

This is a thread for supporting all young people post GCSEs regardless of the institute they attend or the grades they needed. It is respectfully requested that we are all supportive and helpful to each other. If you want to start a debate e.g state vs private - please don't within this thread.

Similarly it should be recognised that the grades our children need/deserve/want will vary across the board. One same grade outcome can simultaneously cause Joy and Despair for different posters. Please be sensitive when responding to threads about grades.

Some of us have been here since I started first thread back in yr10, some will be new. Everyone has been friendly and helpful in the past. It is hoped this will continue. Going forward any new threads should have 'GCSE Summer 2020 Thread # : Carry on Corona Cohort' in title just to make it easier to find. Not fussy about who starts those !

From now on our DS/DD may go down various paths such as employment, apprenticeships, higher ed, so we decided not to be exclusionary and stay right here in Secondary - at least until Mumsnet HQ chuck us out Grin .

At this precise moment in time we have had GCSE results . It has been decided that the higher of Centre Assesd Grades and Calculated Grades will be awarded - the algorithim seems to have been applied a schol level to the detriment of some students. Lots of our young people have already started on the next stage of their journey with some still to start.

We are all STILL trying to protect our young people's mental health, which the government claimed was their priority...when they talk about wanting students back in schools/college in September...now we have their physical health to consider too as the mingling at various settings starts up again. Hopefully a positive experience this term!

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Oblomov20 · 09/09/2020 18:58

Sorry to hear about passandra dd being Mucked about. What twats. So unnecessary.

And piccolo dd being still unwell.

Ds1 is on fire! Up at 7am, showered and in his suit, looking dapper. He makes himself a sandwich and a pot of grapes the night before. And makes the same for Ds2! Shock

Clearly one of you has stolen my normal 'Kevin and Perry' grunter, and replaced him with this wierd alien, because I recognise him not!

ShaunaTheSheep · 09/09/2020 18:33

Going back to books for a minute, we've picked up some on eBay in excellent condition at about half the new price.

Shimy · 09/09/2020 18:19

@pasanda Good luck to your DD with her A’levels, ‘where there’s a will, there’s a way.’

EwwSprouts · 09/09/2020 17:03

Well DS is back from day1 (same school) and has managed to not have a single academic lesson. Assembly, form time and PE so the rude awakening is put off another day. He's pleased to have a good mate in his form, they do muddled up yr12 & 13 groups.

FoolsAssassin · 09/09/2020 15:43

I was very worried about DS and getting up. Obviously i’m Only a part of that on a Monday , but so far so good.

ChristopherTracy · 09/09/2020 15:38

Slightly off topic but how bloody hard is it to find an Alevel tutor thats local, under £40 an hour and doesnt set off various warning bells (nothing dodgy just disorganised, random requests etc).

Ugh.

icanbewhatiwant · 09/09/2020 14:11

@Monkey2001 ds has slept through till at least 3pm for almost 6 months. It must be a big shock to his system. Some days he didn't come downstairs until I called up that evening meal was ready around 6pm. Then about 10pm he'd be back for cheese and biscuits or similar. Then somewhere round midnight/1am he'd eat a bowl of shreddies 🤷‍♀️.

He's now back to a normal routine.

Monkey2001 · 09/09/2020 13:33

DS has his first day of lessons today. It was really hard to wake him up, he needs to move from his nocturnal rhythm! I expect it is not an uncommon problem, this year more than ever.

Comefromaway · 09/09/2020 11:43

ALis are part of the Durham CEM series of tests , INCAS for primary, MIDYIS for years 7-9, YELLIS for GCSE age and ALIS for A level age. They are similar to CATS, they are more commonly used in private schools and 6th form colleges.

FoolsAssassin · 09/09/2020 11:26

Fingers crossed Pasanda . Some people do come into their own at A level. Sensible to monitor her then if does struggle can look st other things before has missed too much.

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 09/09/2020 11:17

Just read back a bit and see people mention Alis, what are these exactly? Do all schools do them? I have never heard of them, although to be fair, I didn't know that DS had sat CATs in yr 7 until the end of year 10!

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 09/09/2020 11:11

Good luck to her Pasanda, I think they just need to know what is happening so they can settle properly. Months of confusion and worry have not helped any of this years cohort.

pasanda · 09/09/2020 10:48

But I'm relieved for her. She's now just got to prove herself.

I will also say I totally appreciate she doesn't have the grades and am secretly worrying she will not be able to manage the A levels at all Sad. But for someone who hated secondary school and isn't particularly academic, to see her excited about any form of academia/course is a breath of fresh air and I'm not going to quash that in any way. I've just got to hope she proves them all wrong.

pasanda · 09/09/2020 10:43

So she's received an email back from the art teacher saying thanks for letting me know (that we've spoken to head of A levels etc) - we will assess how you're going after a couple of weeks and if you're struggling at that point, look at different options.

Fair enough. I just don't think they realise the stress they have put her under tho.

Fiddlersgreen · 09/09/2020 10:43

@pasanda I’m not surprised you’re furious, I would be too! It’s not fair for them to mess your DD around like this! Hindsight is a wonderful thing but you weren’t to know this would happen. I’ll keep my fingers crossed for your DD to be able to do the A level courses.

@Alsoplayspiccolo so sorry your DD is still unwell. Bad timing at the start of term and if it is caused by stress then I just hope it doesn’t cause more stress for her missing out on lessons.

ealingwestmum · 09/09/2020 10:21

It’s not surprising Pasanda. Injustice after injustice is very difficult to keep stomaching. I hope she gets to remain in her A level class and someone sees sense and makes good of her being messed around.

pasanda · 09/09/2020 09:41

Piccolo. Your poor dd. I think my stomach is going the same way! The anxiety some of these poor kids have had/are having is horrendous. I hope she feels better soon 🤞

I'm waiting for dd to wake up and check her emails to see if the art teacher has responded.
Honestly the organisation from this college has been absolutely shocking. I wish I had kept a timeline and names and dates of people we've spoken to and demanded written confirmation every step of the way. But hindsight is a wonderful thing and tbh you never expect they can cock things up the way they have Angry
Can you tell I'm furious! Grin

FoolsAssassin · 09/09/2020 09:37

So sorry to hear that Piccolo, last thing she needs right now.

Passanda hopefully there has been a break down in communication somewhere in the school. That must have been horrible getting that email.

Alsoplayspiccolo · 09/09/2020 08:42

crazy, were pretty sure it’s gastritis, which is basically inflammation or erosion of the stomach lining.
DD is a stress head by nature, but she’s also spent lockdown drinking coke and coffee, and eating chocolate and ice cream, which are apparently the worst culprits.
I think it’s the perfect storm of physiological and psychological factors that’s triggered it.

crazycrofter · 09/09/2020 08:38

@pasanda I'm so sorry to hear the issues you're having with the college - that's awful. I hope you can get something resolved soon.

@Alsoplayspiccolo are you sure it's not her appendix? What a nightmare for you. It sounds too severe to be simply caused by anxiety? Dd has been having tummy aches and not feeling able to eat, but she knows it anxiety about school. I keep telling her she will get through it - but your dd sounds really poorly.

A class at ds' school was sent home to isolate due to a covid case yesterday, so I'm wondering how long we will get at school this term anyway!

Alsoplayspiccolo · 09/09/2020 08:23

Not great news here - DD is still unwell.
She made it through a whole day at school yesterday, but has got up this morning feeling dreadful and has been sick.
We are pretty sure it’s gastritis, causes by 5 months of anxiety and daily coke/coffee/chocolate, but it’s not going to get better overnight and without treatment.

Pulling my hair out at the thought of her missing any more education. Sad

Alsoplayspiccolo · 09/09/2020 08:20

passanda, that’s awful! How does the art teacher have the jurisdiction to overrule what your DD has been told by the head of A levels?
I’m not surprised your SD is distraught - it beggars belief that this has come up after orientation!

pasanda · 09/09/2020 00:52

No. It's either 3 A levels or a level 3 course of say media makeup, accountancy or visual arts for example which is worth the same as 3 A levels. The trouble is, dd doesn't fancy any of the 'courses' as most are quite vocational.

Monkey2001 · 09/09/2020 00:50

@pasanda what a horrible situation!

First, the other courses will not all be full, there is usually a fair bit of movement in the first few weeks of the year.

Second, the school should not say yes then no. Definitely a good idea to go back the the Head of A Levels, or forward something to the art teacher showing that the school confirmed she could go ahead with her grades.

Good luck!

Comefromaway · 09/09/2020 00:21

Do they offer a Btec instead?