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Current Year 10 2020/2021 support thread

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Alsoplayspiccolo · 14/08/2020 09:37

I can’t see a thread for upcoming new year 10s, so I thought I’d start one, as the long-running GCSE one I’ve been part of for DD has been a life-saver.

DS has opted to take history, German, drama and music, plus double science, maths, English x2, and RE.
He’s pretty bright and does well without having to break a sweat (much to my frustration!), but doesn’t really know what he wants to do in the future. He’s a music scholar at his school, so does a lot of music (DH and I are both professional musicians...or were, before Covid hit...) but loves history and English.

His school provided excellent online schooling and he was lucky to be able to go in 2 days a week for the last 3 weeks of term.

His sister has just finished year 11, so we are biting our nails, waiting for results next week. She has quite a different academic profile, having ADHD and possibly dyspraxia, and has had to work hard throughout the last few years.

I hope us parents of DCs just starting the GCSE journey can help and support each other over the next couple of years. 🙂

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StColumbofNavron · 03/03/2021 22:05

Well done to all these Maths whizzes. It all sounds very cool.

Sympathies to Wales. I just don’t know what to say any or tbh.

IThinkIMadeItWorse · 03/03/2021 21:47

Thanks Silkie, just got him to log on and he only got one wrong so he is through to the Hamilton :)

Silkies · 03/03/2021 19:37

Thanks Its If you DS logs on to the UKMT site where he did the competition the results are on there with username and password for IMC competition, school still haven't told us ours but if DD logged on UKMT has marked them and DD got 130/135 and DS 105/135 - I think Olympiad was 100, y9, 110 y10 and 118 y11. It's on UKMT website now. I think she will struggle with the Harvard one as its their higher round and only 1000 do it from around the world but its good experience, and probably the only chance she will get to do it as its online this year. Its a team thing and they just met up online so she doesn't know the others but think they are regulars in Olympiads here, maybe the Senior ones, think they are mainly year 12s doing Maths and Further Maths A levels. I stopped maths at GCSE - well had a short exam for first year of degree - so its all over my head now.

IThinkIMadeItWorse · 03/03/2021 19:15

Well done to your two Silkies - excellent results! We haven't heard DS result yet but he has been doing some past Hamilton papers as practice. Good luck to your DD in the Harvard competition!

I discovered that M&S school trousers have an extra inch at the bottom if you just unpick the hem so thank goodness for that! Not sure about the school shoes but think they will just have to last until April.

I have been monitoring DS much more closely since half term, basically checking on him in every lesson. Annoyingly the school seem to have stopped sending him checking in emails even though I flagged it as an issue. Thank goodness he is going back next Tues. Much sympathy for those in Wales. Hope those with parents evenings coming up find they run smoothly and are helpful.

Silkies · 03/03/2021 18:53

Sympathy to those of you in Wales.

Back on next Tues DD and next Friday DS though wouldn't be surprised with the mass testing three times if they are all out on the second test so about 3 days in before Easter. But still grateful for them going back.

DS is massively stressed about all the testing - school have let me opt him out and he's only been on his sofa whole of lockdown so don't think any chance he will have it. He's still being incredibly hard to get to do anything and I'm having to do all his lessons so I'll be so glad when he is back and hoping it doesn't close again though resigned to it and school have widened criteria for sending children home and now almost whole year home if 1 child tests positive. Though at least we are rural and rates are really low but not sure if they'll be basing it on lateral flow which has some false positives, around 0.3% which is 3 for our school of 5 years per test so 3/5 years could be out second test and all the years 3rd test.

I think uniform should still fit and their school now allows layers to be worn over uniform as so cold with all the windows open - DD does that but DS loves the uniform so freezes in it.

DD and DS both have their UKMT IMC results back and both got through to the Olympiad though think DS will struggle with Olympiad as he does everything in his head and never writes method just the answer and its marked largely on method. He'll probably get all the answers correct but be unable to communicate how he got them other than well its obvious. Hmm DD has the Harvard competiton for maths this weekend so its maths comp central here. I need to print out some Cayley papers for DS though not sure if he will do any practice. Will be a shame if they have to isolate as neither will be able to do Olympiad as its paper in school only though they could well have issues with that but so good of them to run these things. Had a full day of lessons plus school assembly today and did DH's tax returns and watched budget and telling DS about it, one of the few things he's interested in - got parents evening virtually for DS tomorrow.

HelloDulling · 03/03/2021 18:15

@Muchtoomuchtodo

So today’s update for Wales is as clear as mud for most year groups!

Thanks for that Kirsty!

Yup. Year 7 and 10 here. Not a clue.
Muchtoomuchtodo · 03/03/2021 17:55

So today’s update for Wales is as clear as mud for most year groups!

Thanks for that Kirsty!

PaddingtonPaddington · 02/03/2021 21:07

Hadn’t thought about uniform. DS is back on Tuesday 9th and can’t wait to be back with his friends and especially his girlfriend.

They’ve got GCSE English spoken language part to do when they get back. I seem to remember from DD that this was pass/merit/distinction and it gets recorded on their certificate next to the grade.

Muchtoomuchtodo · 02/03/2021 20:20

Hi, can I join you?
We’re in Wales too and have ds in years 10 and 8. Who knows when they’ll be back in! I’ve also seen that primaries here aren’t testing kids, which I don’t think is a great tactic.
We have parents evening via Teams next week for ds1. He’s a bright kid, top of the class in primary but has never pushed himself and this has been a perfect opportunity to coast I think. I’m a little worried about what we’re going to hear. We’ve done our best to support him but with both of us being out at work all day Monday to Friday we’re limited with what we can do.
I’ve not checked any uniform - they’ve only been in school for 13 weeks since September, I really hope it all fits!

HelloDulling · 02/03/2021 20:13

DD will def need new shoes by Easter. These were new in Dec 2019! If the Welsh Gov make a quick change and send them back early, we will be caught out.

StColumbofNavron · 02/03/2021 18:11

I went for a walk with a friend today and she mentioned she had checked all the uniform still fits. DS then tried on his shoes when I panicked and his toes are right at the end. Pretty sure DS in year 8 is the same but I can’t bear to check right now.

zighead · 02/03/2021 11:00

@HelloDulling

I really feel for the welsh secondary school children. It's ridiculous that they can't go back in the next few weeks. I have a friend with a year ten in Denbighshire and they have missed so much school and now have an even longer than necessary delay. Sad

zighead · 02/03/2021 10:57

My DS has to go into school on Thursday for a LFT and then will have two next week. I'm so happy about them going back as DS has become very disengaged.
We had online parents evening too. I was dreading it as hate FaceTime situations but actually it was fine and I was impressed with the efficiency of it. Can't see the old style parents evenings returning anytime soon.
Fingers crossed the disruption to education is over and that our year tens will be able to do their exams as planned next year.

StColumbofNavron · 26/02/2021 22:06

We’ve heard too. Back on the Wednesday with all year groups.

They are having all of the kids in bit by bit leading up to it to have the tests done.

Silkies · 26/02/2021 21:11

We've just heard y10 back on 9th, y9 on 12th, probably for about 3 days before get isolations but still every little helps.

StColumbofNavron · 26/02/2021 08:30

Yes, I was stressed with the tech but I heard from parents with later appointments that it was smooth. I also dislike them being there because I can’t always say the things I want to but I understand why they do it. Ours was year 9, we have DS y10 in March. We’ve basically never had a parents evening that didn’t say ‘he is great’. Which is lovely but he never gets any push or now you could do this. Since Reception. He is very studious and diligent but it does mean he won’t go over and beyond because he knows he can manage. My worry is that he maintains this and then doesn’t quite get the grades, though I think it would be A level rather than GCSE where it might impact.

IThinkIMadeItWorse · 26/02/2021 08:22

Yes I think the running to time aspect of online parents eve is much better than stressing in the corridors because the teacher is running late and 5 minutes is the usual time (apart from usually we are supposed to get 10 mins with the SENCO but we only got 5). I just ended up feeling frustrated mainly because of tech issues, they couldn't see us (our camera was working for us don't know what was going wrong there) so the first minute of the appointment was the teacher asking if DS was there and then waiting for him to respond (he was nodding - but they couldn't see him!) I guess I'm also just a bit frustrated with the school that they didn't seem to have noticed he wasn't handing in work before half term.

Sympathy for @HelloDulling and others in Wales, after Easter somehow seems forever away!

Better get them to brush their teeth before registration.

StColumbofNavron · 26/02/2021 07:52

I thought online parents evening was quite good (though we also missed loads because of tech issues at the beginning - we were the very first ones). At our school appointments are supposed to be 5 mins anyway, but inevitably people take longer and overrun then you are just standing around in queues and being late for the next one etc. I sort of felt it was fairer this way as everyone got their time (tech notwithstanding). I do know what you mean though, it just cuts to the next appointment.

Silkies · 26/02/2021 00:24

Thanks StColumbo and welcome Fferny

We've been told ours are back sometime between 8th and 19th and that they don't have capacity to do more than 60 tests a day at present and may be further delays. So not sure there will be much school before Easter but hoping to be proved wrong. Sorry to hear you have no school before Easter HelloDulling.

We have parents evening for DS on 4th. He is currently listening to lessons as a ghost with a duvet and sheet over him with me logging in, typing for him and playing it loud. Hmm I bet his year is last back. Quite depressing things don't open until after Easter holidays. We are still getting details through of school opening.

HelloDulling · 25/02/2021 20:59

No return to school until after Easter here in Wales. Is driving me bonkers. End of March, DD will be able to go to the hairdresser, but not to school.

IThinkIMadeItWorse · 25/02/2021 20:05

We are waiting to hear how school will manage the testing and return logistics, must be a nightmare for teachers and school leaders at the moment with all the GCSE/A level stuff going on as well. Really counting the days until they go back though, we have all definitely had enough of online school now!

Parents evening was a little frustrating, five minutes is not really enough. Only actually got about 3 and a half mins with the French teacher as slight technical issues at the beginning, he doesn't seem to have worked out that DS knows no French and is putting in no effort! Also the English teacher only started in January so hasn't really met the class. Great reports from his maths and physics teachers so at least he is doing well in the subjects he wants to continue at sixth form. English is the main worry but I'm hoping things will improve once he's back in the classroom.

Hope everyone is managing to keep going, at least the weather is getting better and the return to school is in sight!

StColumbofNavron · 25/02/2021 19:00

We are going to have staggered start but they are going to write again to let us know exactly what that looks like. They are finishing an hour early every day next week to accommodate teachers getting ready.

Rollergirl11 · 25/02/2021 18:44

Welcome @Fferny1. Wow, I didn’t know you could do Astronomy as a GCSE! Sounds really interesting!

So our school are gearing up for first day back on Monday 8th. No staggered start with all 1700 students back on the Monday! They have timetabled Wed, Thurs and Friday of next week for all students to go in and have their first lateral flow test with another to be scheduled sometime during their first week and another the following week. School had them wearing masks during lessons since the November lockdown so no change for the DC’s there..

They have a short week next week with an afternoon off and an inset day so think next week will go quickly and then back to school!! They are both stupidly excited about it. Me even more so! Although I’m keeping that to myself. 🤫😬

Fferny1 · 22/02/2021 10:29

Hi all.
Can I join in?
I found this thread really useful with my eldest dd.
I have a year 10 ds who is my no. 4 doing the usual subjects plus Astronomy, Computer Science & French.
He's also the youngest ... with all that entails.

StColumbofNavron · 22/02/2021 07:40

@Silkiechickscat great news about the vaccine for DH. Hoping you get some answers on the other tests soon. I am in awe of how you juggle it all. Hopefully a bit of normality will mean things can move forward for DS.