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Have we got a year 7 support thread this year?

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KangarooLady · 11/08/2020 18:52

Hi all! DD1 is starting secondary this year! She's very nervous about the travel (train and bus) but definitely looking forward to it Smile. Any other new year 7s?

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elkiedee · 20/08/2020 15:15

DS2 is going to the secondary school 5 minutes walk from here, which I'm glad of. I did want to take him to look at others but he;'s joining his brother who will be starting year 9 and he's very familiar with the school.

MoverOfPaper · 19/08/2020 19:07

DD was offered her school off the waiting list a few weeks into the summer holiday. She was settled on the school she’d been allocated, as were we, and is peeved at the change. Gosh I hope it works out. She starts on 3 but I’ve no idea if it’s just year 7 back or the whole school.
No uniform and she can be there in 10 minutes, it’s in her ‘hood!

KangarooLady · 19/08/2020 13:57

You're welcome @Monkey1111!
@ShakeaHettyFeather-I would try Nokia and Motorola, their phones are ok and cheap

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ShakeaHettyFeather · 19/08/2020 11:21

DS will be getting 1 or 2 buses or walking 45 min (35 home - there's a steep hill). Did the journey yesterday to buy uniform.
I got him the official school backpack to save a shopping trip.

3 other kids he knows but not well are going there. Form tutor seems friendly. It's a shame the school cafe and library won't be open so I took Ds to the Lidl opposite so he knows where the pastries are (I predict someone in the class will start a snack business if each class is bubbling).

Still need a dumbphone, stationery, and to get him to try on white shirts.

Buses are only taking 30 not 70 passengers which is why he may need to give up and walk.

He's also autistic so the lack of being able to hang out in quiet areas at school may be a problem, but thankfully he has an excellent sense of direction and is used to buses and accepts wearing surgical masks. They aren't running after school clubs to start but I'm told the SN homework club should still happen. That, or it doesn't get done...

Monkey1111 · 19/08/2020 11:06

Thank you @KangarooLady. I don’t want to get it wrong.

KangarooLady · 19/08/2020 10:15

@Monkey1111, I would try hype, Superdry and vans for bags, I have seen boys coming out of DD's school and the local secondary with these brands. Hope this helps!

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Monkey1111 · 19/08/2020 08:55

My son starts on the 3rd too. He won’t turn 11 until the 31st Aug, I can’t believe he’s going to ‘big school!’
We’ve order uniform but need to sort shoes and bag. Can anyone recommend a robust backpack that is deemed cool enough for secondary school?

Xmasfairy86 · 18/08/2020 10:07

My DD starts on the 2nd.

Ordered the eye watering expensive uniform - which hasn't arrived yet!! have purchased shoes and shirts elsewhere. Should probably look at the letter with stuff on to see what else she needs.

I think I'm in a bit of denial about it all, given the circumstances - she hasn't been in education since March! and all of a sudden they are going back full time! I'm not anxious for her, I'm anxious for me - that it won't happen and I'll have to endure more home education Grin Grin

Eccle80 · 17/08/2020 23:25

We were told before the summer they were intending to run clubs, but I am not sure if it will actually happen or not, he would love to do all the sports activities

KangarooLady · 17/08/2020 20:05

Fingers crossed for all the DDs and DSs that school clubs make a return quickly! 🤞
@tywysoges, my DD started puberty quite early on and so she has had a lot of growth spurts. A friend of mine has a small DD going into year 8 and says she didn't get teased about her height at all.

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GirlsonFilm · 17/08/2020 18:37

Joyce my dd is definitely a big fish in a (very) small pond, and is ready to go to secondary.

We've not had confirmation of after school clubs yet, my dd is very sporty so is really looking forward to this element of secondary, so I hope they get going soon.

Our school has the majority of pupils bussed in each day (massive, extremely rural catchment) so there won't be staggered start times but they will have to wear masks on the bus.

tywysoges · 17/08/2020 18:18

@KangarooLady I do hope she is ok - some of her friends seem to have already grown up so much during summer... she’s not shy or anything, but she has quite young tastes (she’s quite small too so hopefully can get away with it without being teased too much).

tywysoges · 17/08/2020 18:12

(At least the out of school club is restarting soon so she won’t be completely missing out)

tywysoges · 17/08/2020 18:11

Mine is a footballer and was most pleased to find out the school had a girls team. However it’s a no for clubs for us too Sad at least until October half term, we were told. Fingers crossed everything goes ok and they can start them.

missyB1 · 17/08/2020 18:06

Yes we are also hoping the clubs get going soon as I think it helps a lot with making friends. Ds has picked out a few clubs he was intending to join.

KangarooLady · 17/08/2020 18:00

@tywysoges, my DD is also a very young 11 too! I am a bit concerned about the age gap but she's a tough girl and has always been ok socially and academically, I'm sure your dd will do well Smile. Unfortunately the school has no after school and lunchtime clubs, DD loves doing netball but I don't think they will be covering it, she's definitely not happy about that! Hopefully it won't be too long before the clubs are running again

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tywysoges · 17/08/2020 16:30

Can I join in? DD also starting Y7, on the 3rd. She doesn’t seem either excited or anxious, which I find a bit unsettling, but (1) I think 29 of her class are going to the same school and (2) I don’t think she realises how big it is (even though we did visit last October). Uniform was, thankfully, about the same £ as primary school as same supplier and no blazers or anything expensive. She’s going on the school bus and the pass arrived last week.

I’m a bit anxious about it all, things like missing the bus (no public transport option so I’d have to fetch her), her being a bit naive/uncool - she’s a very young 11... but I’m sure I’m overthinking it all.

missyB1 · 17/08/2020 16:26

Ds starts on 3rd September, only the year 7s in that day to help them get orientated. He won’t know a single other child there but he’s very excited anyway.

It’s totally the other side of town through horrible traffic so we are hoping he’s got a place on the school bus (he’s top of the waiting list). The school have said a couple of kids might drop out if the bus - fingers crossed!

Bokky · 17/08/2020 16:25

DD goes on Friday 4th - only Y7's are in that day and the school are treating it as their transition day, which she is pleased about.

We're now just waiting for the official stuff coming through next week about the routines, adjusted start/finish times and buses, etc. I'm a teacher so can't be off on her first day but DH has booked a day's holiday to make sure she gets to where she needs to be - be it straight to school or the bus, if it's running that day - and she makes it home too!

We have all the uniform and she's just tried it on today. I shed a little tear - in fact I was sobbing! She looked so grown up. Not sure I'm ready for it!

JoyceByersWasRight · 17/08/2020 16:17

Glad to hear everyone is sorted for travel. I wondered how Covid would affect public transport to schools and if this might mean ‘full’ buses and longer travel times.

Wow , Girlsonfilm; your DD has a mighty big change ahead, but sounds like she’s not phased at all. My DD varies between wishing she was still at Primary and chomping at the bit counting the days to stating secondary. I am a bit sad that it won’t be a full school day for her due to Covid, (which will probably mean more homework), and that there won’t be any clubs - dance, drama, choir etc. All the fun stuff is on hold sadly.

GirlsonFilm · 17/08/2020 12:19

We'll be dropping my dd off at the bus stop and she'll get the bus alone from there.

GirlsonFilm · 17/08/2020 12:17

My eldest dd starts at secondary school on 9th Sept. She's going from a tiny village school (less than 30 children), to a huge school with 1800 pupils, the only other child from her primary will be in her tutor group.

We've been to get the uniform today; we've also more pe kit than actual uniform.

She seems pretty laid back about it (it's just me that is fretting!).

TheyThoughtItWasAllOver · 17/08/2020 09:15

DS is my oldest and starts Year 7 on 2nd Sept. He's so excited, bless him.
He only has 3 other children going from his school but they've put one in the same class, so he'll have a familiar face.
Gosh the uniform - why so many bits of school sports kit?! Three different pairs of shoes too Confused
He was going to do a mix of being driven (DH works there) and bus for independence, but for now we will stick with lifts and he will have to find something to do if DH has a meeting or something!

KangarooLady · 17/08/2020 09:14

@JoyceByersWasRight, my DD is getting to the train station on the bus and her friend will get on at the next station

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WeakandWobbly · 17/08/2020 07:20

@JoyceByersWasRight just found out DD has got a bus space. The school had originally suggested from a covid viewpoint that we should all drive them to school to increase social distancing. However, knowing what the traffic chaos up at the school is like, we'll opt for the bus! DD is fine with that-- the bus stop is 5min walk away from our house.

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