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If I need to take my dd (year 9)out of school next May June time, when would be best ?

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Lardlizard · 05/07/2020 21:50

When would be the best tome
That would effect her schooling the least ?

Need to go for two weeks she will have a weeks school holidays w/c 31st May
So could go a week before or week after so one of the weeks will be school hols so she will only loss one week of school

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Porcupineinwaiting · 06/07/2020 21:54

A week off in Y9 is totally doable for a diligent child, but the time of year you're proposing is difficult because of assessments. Easter might be a better bet. I wouldnt worry about COVID too much as everyone in Florida is likely to have caught it by then, judging by the rate its spreading now.

OverTheRainbow88 · 06/07/2020 19:16

In my school we don’t do any GCSE topics in year 9, so may be worth checking what her school does.

Hoppinggreen · 06/07/2020 18:58

So when you say you “need” to take her out of school that’s nit actually true is it?
I have taken both dc out of school for an odd day or even more for holidays so I’m not totally opposed to it in principle but you need to pick the right time and Y9 really isn’t it, especially since we don’t really know how things will be from September
Plus I would probably be avoiding America for the time being

OverTheRainbow88 · 06/07/2020 18:56

I would say miss the week before when kids tend to be tired and less focused any way!

titchy · 06/07/2020 18:54

I suppose I’m just aware she will change and grownupnallnof a sudden now

And? Mine are adults and would jump at the chance to go to Florida!

Lardlizard · 06/07/2020 13:04

My youngest is 6 so would be 7 next year

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TeenPlusTwenties · 06/07/2020 08:50

To be honest, if you've waited until 13/14 to do Florida, you could just as well wait until after GCSEs. it's not like she'll still 'believe' What age will your other kids be then?

(ps. Maths GCSE content starts in about Reception. It is seamless. There are questions on the Foundation paper on topics taught in Primary.)

Lardlizard · 06/07/2020 08:44

Thank so much for all the advice, I’m taking it all in tbf I wasn’t aware that Florida had 10000 cases of Covid per day either
I can see I’m going to have to put a lot more thought into this
It’s just that ba are doing flights that you can cancel if need be, so I thought right I’ll book for May/ June next year then .....

I suppose I’m just aware she will change and grownupnallnof a sudden now

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allhappeningatonce · 06/07/2020 08:36

Tbh in a lot of schools the end of year 9 is very relaxed. She'll be able to catch up. It's one week & any gcse content will be covered again in year 10. I wouldn't worry at all. If her school do year 9 exams check about those dates but honestly as a teacher losing a week last term of year 9 is not going to affect her grades. Have a lovely holiday

Lonecatwithkitten · 06/07/2020 08:33

My DD missed a week due to appendicitis and honestly she is a hard worker and she found keeping on top of the new work and catching up hard. Science and Maths had started autumn term of year 9 and English and MFL term three of year 9. Art, Textiles and Photography all started term 3 with particular reference of the course work.

Drama started working in their small groups on their divised pieces, dance start their choreography.
Classics and history were about the only subjects that didn't start in some way.

RedskyAtnight · 06/07/2020 08:30

Next year is Disney's 50th celebrations (Covid-19 allowing) so expect it might be extra busy/booked up. Not to mention all the people with cancelled holidays from this year.

The last 2 weeks of the summer holiday are a good time to go (lots of American schools are back, so it's a bit quieter).

BeyondMyWits · 06/07/2020 08:13

Everything has changed. We do not know when exams will be next year - to be honest we do not know when school terms will be next year.

Would bear in mind that covid is on the up in the US. Florida is counting over 10,000 new cases every day at the moment. Travel is unlikely this year. Next year will be very busy.

We went to Florida every other year - but did not take the kids out of school in secondary school. Easter was our time of choice. Would leave it a year though.

Lardlizard · 06/07/2020 08:05

I’ve been in aug and Oct and when we went in aug. The thunder caused a few thjngs to close amd ruined the last day so I wanted to avoid that again if poss

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MummaGiles · 06/07/2020 07:58

I have been to Florida in the summer holidays and the rain/thunder was awesome! Didn’t ruin the holiday at all. It was always short sharp rainfall and you just planned around it. It was over 25 years ago and I still remember it! I wouldn’t let it put you off.

Lardlizard · 06/07/2020 07:50

To be totally honest it’s for a trip to Florida, alreadycaway at Easter but I could try n swap those dates and try N go at Easter, don’t really want to go July and August as it rains and thunders so much
And didn’t want to go in Oct 2021 and make her miss a week then as she will be in year 10 then

I’m just aware she’s just turned 13 and I feel like her childhood is disappearing fast so I’m trying to pack loads of things in

At the moment she’s v v diligent and hard working
So I really hope she’s able to keep the good attitude up over the next few vital years

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altopredominant · 06/07/2020 07:19

No way I'd plan time off this year (assuming it's for a holiday or similar). Who knows how much time kids are already going to miss through local lockdown, possible repeated self-isolation due to cough/cold symptoms etc? I wouldn't be adding to that, regardless of the child's year group.

TeenPlusTwenties · 06/07/2020 07:03

One thing to be aware of, is that for 2021 the government is considering moving GCSEs to after half term.
So what you might say, my DD is y9.
But if for example they normally do some formal end y9 exams in the end of June/early July, then next year they might still be doing GCSEs. Therefore they might move the y9 exams to before half term.

I think that if you do need to go, I'd book the week after half term, as GCSEs will be happening then so y9 exams unlikely. personally I'd try not to miss school from the second half of y9, but if she is a good student she'll catch up.

Pipandmum · 05/07/2020 23:33

If there is a legitimate reason for her to miss a week then discuss it with the school. They may be able to give her work to do. But to be honest if she is a diligent student she may be fine. My daughter missed a month in Y8 (due to illness) with no issues.

Lardlizard · 05/07/2020 23:28

Thanks so mich for the benefit of your advice, you guys on this section are always so helpful more helpful than my dd school

Shes my eldest so I have no idea about GCSEs and teen stuff etc
One good thing is she’s actually worked really hard through lockdown, so I’m hoping she won’t have too much to catch up on , although I suppose if the teachers are focusing on catch ups perhaps they will all suffer when the ones that have workered so hard during lockdown
The standard of work she produces for year 8 has been fab

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RomaineCalm · 05/07/2020 22:56

Honestly, I would avoid missing any schooling next year unless absolutely necessary.

As far as I can work out the schools will be playing 'catch up', there will be a focus on making up any gaps from the last six months and it's going to be a tough year for both teachers and children.

No one can predict what might happen over the winter but the possibility of localised lockdowns and a second wave of Covid-19 could result in even more school being missed.

TW2013 · 05/07/2020 22:48

Sciences were all started in yr9, maths I think they started at the end of yr8. Fortunately it means they are not too far behind in yr10 with covid.

ineedaholidaynow · 05/07/2020 22:45

There is so much content in GCSEs now, that is why some work is done in Y9. This is why there is also so much concern about the current Y10s missing so much work, as there is very little spare time to catch up before the actual exams next year.

Lardlizard · 05/07/2020 22:42

Omg how do I not any of this 🙈

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ZombieFan · 05/07/2020 22:32

That would be missing a week of GCSE study at my DCs school, which starts them after Easter Y9, as soon as all the options have been finalised.

Lardlizard · 05/07/2020 22:23

I didn’t know that Shock

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