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Trinity/Whitgift 2020 entry

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Breathe10 · 07/12/2019 12:31

I've read through lots of chat re 2019 but can't see a 2020 10/11+ 2020 thread. How are your DS's getting on?

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Hopefulmum72 · 27/12/2019 02:10

Brrr10 my DS was told, when he went for a rugby camp, 70% average across the 3 papers for the 11+ at T. This does not guarantee an offer, but likely to be called for interview. I do know they take the whole package into consideration when they invite the children, not just academics, but you need to be above the 70%. I was told last year on a visit day for the 10+ , it was 60% average.... 11+ is more demanding. ..

Brrrr10 · 26/12/2019 14:27

Thanks Walking & Enpot, Merry Xmas to all! Definitely no prep going on here these last few days! They are 9/10/11 after all and need to have fun!

Enpot2007 · 19/12/2019 22:07

Just wanted to wish you all the best of luck for the upcoming tests. I was in your position last year and my son is now enjoying Y7 at Whitgift.

Re prep for hols. Do let your children enjoy Xmas too. Our rule was two quick multiple choice tests per day. One in the morning and one in the evening. Between those times it was play. PS4 is a good bargaining tool! SmileIt worked for him. No work from Xmas eve to after Boxing Day. Just do what works for both of you. Try not to stress out. It’s so hard not too!!

Re exam day Whitgift make it easy for all the boys. They sit in rooms in alphabetical order. They get play, good lunch, chat between tests and a snack to take home. They make friends too! Trust me not all entrance exams are like this.

Last year the boys wrote a story based on a photo or a scenario. A maths test and VR test. It may well be different for you.

Interview stage is also made easy on the boys. They go in first and are asked questions about themselves and different scenarios. Parents interviewed separately. If you ask they will give you an idea how your son did in the test - not exact scores but will say above average or outstanding or he did this well etc. Ask anything you want. Admissions team are also super helpful.

Then you’ve done all you can.

My son also applied for a sports scholarship so can share that process too. Happy to answer any other questions too.

It’s quite an emotional time but your boys are more resilient than you think and hopefully will take the tests in their stride. My son said the best bit of the day was the food! Good luck and I’ve got my fingers crossed for all of you!

Walkingtheplank · 18/12/2019 23:49

Chalkyc2, no need to worry about interviews etc at this stage, and to be honest, I think you can overstress on the exam prep too. Looking at the boys at my DS's school, there wasn't much of a correlation between hours spent preparing and success. I'd also say that the type of school your son is at now isn't important. My son was at a local state school and from what I know, most of the boys he's now friends with went to similar schools. I suspect Whitgift and Trinity consider this in their selection process and they are looking for potential rather than learned knowledge.

chalkyc2 · 18/12/2019 15:53

This thread is actually making me feel really nervous - I think we have maybe been a bit too relaxed about this set of exams!! The thought of interviews and meeting the HM is too much I can only focus on the exam right now!

Ok - what prep are your boys doing over the holidays and what other schools are others applying for? My DS isn't at a prep so I've no idea whether he stands much chance of getting in or not....

enterparentone · 18/12/2019 14:34

Maybe it's different for 10+. We and friends had weekday interviews but without HM or other staff. They seemed to have families come in in pairs (so 2 boys interviewed by 2 different teachers at once - not a room full as described for Saturdays). Agree the boys I know whose parents were invited to meet HM were then offered scholarships.

Seeline · 18/12/2019 11:39

The system at T has always been at Walking describes. Historically, parents are only 'interviewed' if their DS is a potential scholar. Of course the HM is relatively new, so it is possible that it may change.

dancingbadger · 18/12/2019 10:58

Hello everyone, I've got 1 sitting W 11+ and 1 already at W in yr 8. They need to be getting around 70% to be safe but will depend on cohort and what else they can bring to the table. I truly hate the whole experience and am looking forward to it being over in all honesty! My eldest DS went in at yr 6 from state primary and is thriving, I'm still not sure whether it's the right school for my younger son though as they are so different, so he is sitting for other schools too.

Walkingtheplank · 18/12/2019 00:06

I should add I made an absolute wally of myself with the Trinity Head who made a point of speaking to everyone. Fortunately he didnt know which child was mine. Blush

Walkingtheplank · 18/12/2019 00:04

My memory was that weekday interviews at Trinity were for potential scholars and with senior staff.
Saturday was an interviewing marathon for those not being considered for scholarships and a lot of children at a time are taken to the library for 1-2-1 interviews with nine senior staff. Meanwhile parents have tea and cake with senior staff, including the Head - there were around 20 sets of parents there at a time IIRC. All organised very well.

LuluBellLondon · 17/12/2019 23:09

Does anyone know if Trinity VR is multiple choice or not?

enterparentone · 17/12/2019 19:10

I don't think most parents meet the HM at Trinity interviews. I read on here that only the borderline candidates or potential scholarship candidates see him. Though they do say you can request to see him if you want to. Parents just wait in a meeting room chatting to someone from the PTA otherwise with any other parents waiting whilst their son is interviewed.

Yey22 · 17/12/2019 17:42

I don’t think it was just for the awards I think most parents meet with the HM or senior leadership team. Although I was very nervous, the HM was nice and talked about the ethos of the school and wanted to get to know alittle more about our son etc and why we applied. This was similar for all the schools apart from Dulwich where you met the headteacher with two other parents and were able to ask one question. Most interviews take place when your son is being interviewed. Goodluck x

Brrrr10 · 17/12/2019 17:02

Yey22 interesting to hear your insight re how they look at the combined results and iron out any weaknesses at interview. I didn't realise you meet with the HM as I thought that was for awards only.
Be interested to hear what the parent interview was like!?

Yey22 · 15/12/2019 21:30

I have a son in year 7 Trinity, he is loving it and we couldn’t be happier. In the interview the Headmaster said they look at the combine result of the three test but also check the individual results and may use the interview to iron out any quires from the test (your son will be interviewed whilst you are meeting the headteacher).

The process is so scary but I think more so for the parent and the schools especially Trinity try and put the boys at ease.

Goodluck everyone xxx

champagneandfromage50 · 09/12/2019 09:30

My DS is in yr 8 at W. He takes two trains to school. He comes home late once a week after Rugby training. He isn’t phased by the travel. He was a bit daunted in yr7 so we did some trial runs during the summer. He has no issue working out alternative routes now if there are delays and cancellations. As for the exam we didn’t think he would be offered an interview as he was so inconsistent. He was strong in maths but not so good in English. Good luck to all your boys going through it !

Brrrr10 · 09/12/2019 08:29

Thanks all for your replies. All such useful info! Yes travel is a biggie for us as we're not in Croydon. However I do know a few boys that have found travel ok to/from W via train. My DS is inconsistent atm so reassuring to hear it doesn't necessarily mean we are doomed!

enterparentone · 09/12/2019 07:16

@AtomicRabbit I'd think very carefully about the distance and potential problems on trains or buses. There are extra curricular things on most days after school until 5.30pm, and musical performances are often later. They will still have homework to do after that too. Don't underestimate how much the travel will tire them out, not to mention socialising when they're older. If there's a great school closer to you, I'd look at that. Do check the school bus routes but be aware it's not necessarily a faster route home than public transport by the time other boys have been dropped off!

Walkingtheplank · 08/12/2019 20:04

Hello! I was also wondering when this year's thread would be created. I've just taken a look at last year's thread. In December last year I was stressing about my son's inconsistent academic ability. Later on I was considering how I would tell DS he hadn't got into any of the schools. He ended up with offers from all 3, so what did I know?
IIRC there were very very few people without any offers, most people had more than 1 offer. I'm basically trying to say that whilst this years parents will stress themselves out, it's really rare for it not to work out.

DS is in Y7 at Whitgift. Absolutely loving it and I wish we'd gone for Y6 instead because he is so stimulated. It's a big intake this year which I had reservations about but DS is unfazed.

Good luck everyone!

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enterparentone · 08/12/2019 19:59

I think they have to do well, but agree with @Seeline that they can be weaker in one - DS certainly was in English but better in maths and VR. It must depend on what the rest of the cohort is like year on year, but they do interview a lot and of course over-offer as they know many parents will apply to several schools. I think the interview is important to get a feel for them. I read that at 10+ a lot of that is to see whether they seem like they could handle moving up early - some do genuinely benefit from an extra year at primary as they need to adjust to be very independent. Managing their own homework from lots of different teachers, checking their email and replying to teachers, checking notice boards to find out about sports training and music practices, passing messages home to parents for things they need to bring in or do, deciding which clubs to commit to. Personally I feel happy DS has this year to get used to it all so he will be on the ball for the start of year 7, because according to DS friend in year 7 Jbugs get away with murder!! Grin

Seeline · 08/12/2019 10:31

I think they have to do pretty well in the exams, but I don't think it matters if they are slightly stronger in one area, and less strong in another. A good performance gets them an interview, which I think plays quite a big part. The schools know what type of student will fit - both whether they are suitable for the school and whether the school is suitable for them.

And don't worry if your DS is the shy type, the teachers interviewing are very good at getting the best out of each child.

Are you thinking of scholarships too?

Brrrr10 · 08/12/2019 08:06

Oh that's great to here! Sounds like a fantastic start to his time at T. I read through all the posts this time last year and can see you certainly had your fair share of worries like we are now! You mention high expectations at entry- I know they don't publish a pass mark and there's probably more to their decision than just the exam (here's hoping!) But any ideas on this?

enterparentone · 08/12/2019 07:41

I’ve been wondering when this year’s thread would appear! DS v happy settled at T Jbugs (10+). He’s matured so much in the last 3 months. It’s a v steep learning curve with high expectations of independence compared to state primary but somehow they all manage it! Considering the standards expected to pass the exams, the level of work expected doesn’t seem too high, but perhaps they’re easing them in this term! The range of extra curricular opportunities is fantastic. Very busy but fulfilled boys. Fun, engaging, kind and nurturing staff. We couldn’t be happier with our choice. Early days for us but happy to answer any questions!

chalkyc2 · 07/12/2019 17:15

We're doing T 11+. Preparation has stalled a bit after the grammar tests in sept/Oct and not at a prep sch so nothing at school. Feeling a bit concerned!! Hoping to get on the case when he breaks up next week. Argh January is going to be painful!