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Gcses 2019 support thread 5

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Iambuffy · 12/06/2019 14:50

Hi :)
Hope this is ok as we are at 1000 posts on thread 4!

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Foslady · 08/07/2019 18:30

Sorry - a three foot mound on her bed?

Foslady · 08/07/2019 18:28

And so glad @pointythings that you are missing the trend - have a fabulous holiday!

Foslady · 08/07/2019 18:27

I’ve found it!!!!!

Between the bed and the side of a completely covered bedside cabinet.

In the meantime her bed had been piled high with a three mound of crap to sort (and it’s a double bed!).

She has been warned no social media until it’s cleared and if she wants music to listen to it’s radio or cd’s only. And clothes she has to fully launder inc ironing, and anything not for wash has to be ironed before putting away, and everyone the bed has to go away to MY standards until she’s done.

She’s so grateful it’s been found so far none of this is an issue.......!

pointythings · 08/07/2019 18:12

Well, I'm breaking the pattern because I'm on a lovely term time holiday with my DDs. That's the joy of having your youngest finish GCSEs and the oldest her A levels...

Yesterday was really rough, DD2 was laid up in exhaustion most of the day having overdone it on prom day and then having had the journey. But today was a really good day so we went to the zoo and she has played some badminton.

Tomorrow will be a beach day, so a nice mix of the lazy and the active. Weather looks set fair for at least the next week. We're having a lovely time.

Iambuffy · 08/07/2019 17:28

Ds has lost a £60 jacket that I'm very cross about.
He got really shirty when I was trying to get him to retrace his steps.
We had words!

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Arewedone · 08/07/2019 16:22

Oh Fos I totally get it- welcome to my world 😭
Dd lost her key yesterday. DH overseas with work with 2nd key. DS still on boys holiday and I had to lock her out because I have a hospital appt.she left in a mood because I wouldn’t give her mine!
I’m now running around like a blue ass fly as we go on holiday tomorrow.I'm totally fed up. When I questioned why her bed wasn’t made I was yelled at with “ you know I’ve had no life for the last 4 months” Shock I really had to hold my tongue!
Hope everything calms down for you! Sending you hugs x

Iambuffy · 08/07/2019 15:46

Oh fos :(
That would send me over the edge I think.
Ds1 is not really being annoying as such but he's not really doing anything unless asked which means he's moping about the house which is driving me a bit mad...
Ds2 is tired. Endoftermitis.
Dh is being a twat no change there then
I have meetings and voluntary stuff this week and we are supposed to be going on holiday on saturday!
I haven't even written a list...
Sigh...

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Foslady · 08/07/2019 14:11

Entire? Evening to

Foslady · 08/07/2019 14:11

Oh, and I can’t even go for a walk either at lunchtime or in an entire calm down as I have something of value in the house and i’m scared stiff that the key has been lost out of the house so am having to bring it with me to work in my handbag and have it with me at all times.
I don’t think she realises just what a PITA this is for me

Foslady · 08/07/2019 13:54

Need to vent/calm down!
Have been asking dd to sort out her room/study/old uniform and has she done it - no.
Everywhere is a shit tip, she’s disappeared on NCS wk 2, and whilst I was at work announced that the key she said she’d find hasn’t turned up. I have a mountain of jobs to do every evening this week including time sensitive stuff and now I have to find this blasted key - and to complicate matters ‘I think I saw it last in the house’.
We’re away in three weeks time - she can pay for a bloody locksmith if it doesn’t turn up.
Neither shower is working, the kitchen ceiling needs repainting because of said shower, I have 2 hours to make up at work, home stuff and now this.
I want to cry

SilentSister · 08/07/2019 11:13

Iambuffy DD1 regularly drives DD2 around and about now, odd to see them disappearing off down the road together. Always have that little flutter of concern. Silly really, but I can't help it.

Iambuffy · 07/07/2019 14:51

Ds had his first drivers lesson today :)

I feel very old

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Iambuffy · 06/07/2019 19:44

I thought my life was over. Honestly.
(Dramatic)
But I'd had to leave my job and was very low.
But...one step at a time...I had a few months then went pt...
It's a hard thing to take at any age but shes so young.
Lots of love to you both x

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pointythings · 06/07/2019 19:40

buffy we have been told to rest but also pace - so exercise in moderation to build up, don't overdo it when you're having a good day, good sleep routines. If you have ideas that might help please do let me know - I'm open to pm. I'm also asking DD2 to contact my late H's cousin, who also has fibro and lives a full and happy life with it. However, I don't want to pressure her - she's 2 days into knowing this and needs time to process.

Iambuffy · 06/07/2019 19:36

I'd point out that since I was 18 I have travelled, worked and had 2 children.
Don't do what I did and read up on forums and self help groups!
They scared me witless tbh.
Rest is good, hope she (and you!) Has a lovely relaxing time x

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Iambuffy · 06/07/2019 19:20

Pointy...I have fibro but I've been ill on and off since I was 18.
There are a few things that an help.
Please pm me if I can help x

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pointythings · 06/07/2019 18:59

DD2's A level choices have been fixed for a while now, she just needs to get the grades. She's very likely to. We're on holiday now - prom was yesterday, she had a lovely time and got lots of compliments on her dress.

But we need the time to come to terms with the diagnosis we got on Thursday - she has fibromyalgia and is going to have to make a lot of changes to enjoy life to the max.

Iambuffy · 06/07/2019 17:23

silent he popped them back in himself 😖
Bit he's ok thank you.
maud oh your ds has made me chuckle! BTechs are well regarded afaik. Dh has a few plus hnd's then went onto a degree.

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Iambuffy · 06/07/2019 17:17

Hi all,
Blimey what a week.
Hope sour is ok.
Ds1 has his induction on Tuesday and it went well.
He has chosen history, geography and politics a level.
I'm quite relieved he's dropped biology tbh.
He found the taster lesson "boring" apparently.
Hope everyone is ok havent rtft x

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Iambuffy · 06/07/2019 17:10

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Arewedone · 06/07/2019 15:40

Oh no! Hopefully just name changed Shock

SilentSister · 06/07/2019 12:53

Soursprout has completely gone :-( How sad. All her messages have disappeared. I hope nothing terrible happened. She was a lovely poster.

Arewedone · 06/07/2019 10:39

Bimkom- it’s a really good idea to hunt eBay! We’ve just purchased a stack of reading material. Thankfully not in your situation as Dd staying on for 6th form at school but can imagine the stress! I’m still trying to be positive her Alevel choices, chosen because she loves the subjects, (with the exception of maths) will lead her somewhere!

Arewedone · 06/07/2019 10:33

Silent- Dd sat cie English Lit , Lang. and German. The individual passwords were issued from cie. Not that it’s s big deal but seems unreasonable your Dd will need to wait when the school will already have the results on the 13th. It was a stomach churning moment though as Dd clicked through and we both stared at the screen! Like a silent rehearsalConfused

SilentSister · 06/07/2019 08:42

Arewedone DD's school doesn't seem to do that, they haven't mentioned it anyway. I think they must hold on to the results and issue them together on the standard results day. In fact as they have so many boards, I am assuming the school consolidated them all and issues the results in one email...... that's what I am expecting anyway. DD did Biology and English CIE.

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