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Boarding Suggestions for 6th Form Boy

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Dancingdreamer · 27/03/2019 11:32

My friend will be moving abroad again and is looking for a boarding school in the UK for her DS for 6th form. They are an European family so want a school that’s not too traditionally English and has an international vibe. She wants very strong academics and definitely not a weekend party culture! Her DS is a quieter boy who likes rugby, cricket and golf. I thought about Concord College but I don’t think they offer the sports her DS wants. So I am struggling about where to suggest. Any ideas?

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AnotherNewt · 31/03/2019 17:47

DC certainly offers golf

www.dulwich.org.uk/senior-school/sport/sport-played/golf

(it owns quite a lot of Dulwich, and suspect it owns the land of that golf club)

Fairly traditional school, but very international outlook. Numbers boarding are small, but there are enough of them to have a good community, especially in the sixth form. Worth a look

LeFaye · 31/03/2019 15:41

Dulwich College? It does empty out a lot during weekends but they do a lot to keep the boarders busy, and being a London school, the opportunities for weekend outings are amazing. Great academics, amazing sports.

kaffkooks · 31/03/2019 13:48

If golf is important have they considered St Leonard's school in St Andrews? Mixture of day and boarding pupils and lots of sport.

AnotherNewt · 31/03/2019 09:37

T might help,with recommendations if you say what parts of the country work best (transport links, easiness for wider family to visit for school events, journey for emergency guardian)

Also what sort of boy is he - interests other than sport? Is non-availability of golf a showstopper, or is it just something nice to have? (the other sports are standard).

As there is one school already on her list, what exactly about it does she like? What didn't she like about nearby school to there such as St Peters of Bootham, that means she isn't considering them?

Disfordarkchocolate · 30/03/2019 17:08

I know nothing of it but there some threads on here about Queen Ethelburghs it may be worth reading.

justforareply · 30/03/2019 13:08

Agree completely with chickoletta about millfield from friends experience

Dancingdreamer · 30/03/2019 11:44

BubblesBuddy - agree re Rugby and Harrow. Rugby was one of my first suggestions but just reporting how my friend feels. Queen Ethelburgas came up as my friend knew someone with DC there and recommended the school.

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Chickoletta · 29/03/2019 20:03

I've taught in independent schools all my career and would recommend Clifton College in Bristol or Truro School in Cornwall - both are sporty with high academic standards but also have an international vibe in the boarding houses.

I've never been to St Edward's (Teddies) but have a friend who is a housemaster there. It has an amazing reputation.

I personally would be quite wary about Millfield - I've heard some things that would concern me about falling standards of pastoral care there.

Ultimately, your friend and her DS need to visit a few places and see what feels right.

AnotherNewt · 29/03/2019 20:02

Are they interested in Yorkshire particularly? Near family or something?

CherryPavlova · 29/03/2019 19:58

Brighton tends to empty out at weekends but is very popular within Sussex.

CherryPavlova · 29/03/2019 19:56

Wellington has fabulous sports facilities and good pastoral care. The new master was head of admissions and one key reason we chose the school. He is just lovely and inclusive.
Ours went to the odd 18th party but not that many and not all in London. It certainly wasn’t every weekend as most were during the holidays. Work definitely took priority over parties but there were the occasional really big parties for some.

BubblesBuddy · 29/03/2019 19:48

Oakham and Uppingham are quite isolated. I love the idea that Rugby and Harrow would not stretch him! Really? Why do people think these schools don’t have bright pupils? They do.

anniehm · 29/03/2019 19:28

Oakham is meant to be good and they certainly do cricket. Uppingham doesn't really have day students (a few local scholarship kids only) but not as sporty I'm told.

Dancingdreamer · 29/03/2019 19:22

MullofKintyre - thanks for the state boarding suggestion. Lancaster Royal Grammy seems to tick lots of boxes.

LIZS - Brighton looks a good choice.

BubblesBuddy/NeedsMoreSleep I think she is in the camp of wanting some pace and stretch for her DS. Her reason for boarding is that her experience of international schools is that they just don’t challenge students academically

As for other suggestions, Tonbridge and Sevenoaks look interesting. She is also going to investigate Abingdon and St Paul’s which were not on the radar before. St Edwards might be a good option solid back up option. Thanks everyone.

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justforareply · 29/03/2019 12:59

I would be looking at full boarding with fixed exeats - they have more going on at weekends than places that have weekly boarders or high proportion of day pupils or exeats not fixed.
Just because concord college always seems to be top of academic boarding tables, it doesn't mean it's the best boarding school. I wouldn't send my DC there. 'Not a party culture'- fine but he's still 16 17 18 and surely needs a bit of fun with peers?
Marlborough has coaches to London airports at exeats/ half terms I believe

PrayingandHoping · 29/03/2019 12:21

As mentioned up the post I would consider King's School Canterbury. It ticks all your boxes.

paap1975 · 29/03/2019 12:17

Millfield?

LIZS · 29/03/2019 12:15

Brighton College?

Needmoresleep · 29/03/2019 10:45

Tell her to have a good look at Sevenoaks. Inter alia it is popular with London based Europeans.

Perhaps Westminster. Though boarders are only a third of the year group, their day friends are able to come in and join them for weekend meals, and they all have London with its theatre, art galleries and range of public lectures on your doorstep.

I am going to disagree with Bubbles. Depending on subject there can be a huge difference between a very selective school and one that takes a wide range. An A* maths student may really struggle in a class where others are unlikely to get more than a B. Maths A level can be insufficiently challenging for a talented student anyway, but worse if it is taught at the pace of the least able student. The same will apply in other subjects. History is more fun if the whole class engages at the same level. I doubt many would say the same about Universities all being to get the most from bright students so I don't understand why the opposite would apply to sixth forms

Mangapps · 29/03/2019 10:21

A friend's very bright daughter moved to d'Overbroeck's sixth form and they are very happy with it.

BubblesBuddy · 29/03/2019 08:41

I think most top to mid table boarding schools can educate bright children! I would choose somewhere in a decent sized town or city for a boarder with guardians. Oxford is a great choice. Never go to the middle of nowhere. Former Day pupils won’t really enjoy being so remote. However you have to realise that many schools within striking distance of London have children in them that party in London at the weekends! It’s inevitable but not every child goes, obviously. I know DC at Rigby who had a fairly quiet existence!

Some big names are competitive at 6th form so choose a bit of a spread from fashionable to a bit less fashionable. Many schools allow 6th formers more freedom to go out at weekends so if he has to stay at school, look for an international intake and a decent sized town or he will go stir crazy!

sendsummer · 28/03/2019 22:29

For a sixth former boarder I think Abingdon is worth considering. International pupils are full boarders and seem to be very happy despite it being mainly a day / weekly boarding school. It certainly fits the academic and sports remit. Also Radley should n’t be dismissed. It has a traditional reputation but in view of sports, academics and available facilities I would suggest visiting even if just to compare to other candidate schools. It is opening up to more international pupils including in the sixth form.

happygardening · 28/03/2019 21:39

There is quite a lot of competition for 6th form places amongst those which are less selective at yr 7/9, these school will often take very bright pupils from outside the UK whose English might not have been good enough at yr 7/9 but are are likely to get top results and go to top universities because it boosts their results/university destinations and looks good on their websites. Ultimately there is nothing wrong with this but the schools can afford to be choosy so unlike a yr 7/9 a place is definitely not a done deal.
SPS does have boarders only a very small number 30ish last time I looked and mainly 6th formers but it could suit as its not a traditional boarding school but I suspect competition for places is very fierce so your friend would be wise to have at least 1 back up.

Dancingdreamer · 28/03/2019 21:02

Thanks for all the replies. They have been given plenty of notice of the move so won’t be applying until Sept for entry 2020. The reason I posted is because she said she was looking at Queen Ethelburgas and wanted to give her some alternative options. My friend has moved internationally before and isn’t keen in an Ed Consultant as her previous experience is that they wanted her to use schools that they had some sort of deal with - generally schools that were desperate for students. Maybe she had the wrong consultants I don’t know.

I appreciate all the suggestions.

I hadn’t though about St Edwards and will suggest that

My DC was at Marlborough and there was definitely too much of a party culture there for my friend! I was also concerned about Wellington for the weekly exodus and London parties. I don’t know much about Kings or Sevenoaks. I am not sure Gordonstoun, Monmouth, Uppingham or Sherborne are as academic as she wants. Oundle - I heard that it’s difficult to get a place at 6th form as those place available go to DCs from SE Asian feeders. Please correct me if I am wrong. Atlantic doesn’t seem to have the sports he wants.

I did suggest Rugby and Peter Symmonds. I think her DS will try for Westminster but recognises that it may be aspirational and probably not achievable. Does St Paul’s take boarders?

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nolanscrack · 28/03/2019 15:08

The op says she wants "very strong academics",so people say schools like Gordonstoun..Reeds,Epsom etc,pay a education consultant,unlike random people on the internet they might know what very strong academics mean..