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Anyone else finding sixth form applications stressful?

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WeAreGerbil · 26/01/2019 18:25

DD has three possibles, two she will almost certainly get offers for, and another, which was her favourite, which is heavily over-subscribed. However we know that lots of people who have applied there are just doing it as an insurance and are unlikely to end up there next September (it's the only sixth form that is over-subscribed, so those choosing other places as first choice will almost definitely get into those). We think it's likely to be over-subscribed by five or six applicants for each one place.

She may be lucky and get in in the first tranche through the lottery process, but on the other hand she may not get a place at all or not until after they have their GCSE results when people have to make firm choices, as I think people will hold a range of offers to keep their options open. It's a bit of a nightmare - her friends in the main are going to FE colleges and have already got offers and so know what they are doing - and although I keep saying she doesn't need to make a decision now, keep her options open, we both tend towards liking to have things sorted out. It just keeps opening up the discussion again and again about where she's going to go, and are they the right A levels, we did the open days before Christmas, now we're doing school day visits and then there will be interviews. This originally seemed like a good idea to get as much information as possible, but now I'm wondering whether it's overkill! And the stress of two lots of mocks this term and increasing pressure from her teachers over revision.

Anyone else in this sort of situation? How are you managing it?

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WeAreGerbil · 26/01/2019 18:44

I think DD is pretending she doesn't really want to go to number one anymore because of what she's been told about the over-subscription numbers, even though she still does. Numbers 2 and 3 are very different - number 2 is part of an 11-18 school, it's small and academic but in a town she doesn't know well and doesn't rate (it is a bit crap to be fair!), number 3 is a big sixth form college in a city that's more lively, but I think it won't give her what she wants out of a sixth form experience, and it's also a bit of a hassle to travel to.

She wants number 2 school in number 3 location! I keep telling her that something will emerge over the next few months and to also keep her options open at the moment, but she's finding it difficult when her friends have something definite to talk about and look forward to. I would be very happy with school 1 or 2, 3 would also be okay, so I also tell her she's lucky to have so many choices, but she's not quite seeing it that way!

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Babygrey7 · 26/01/2019 18:31

We signed up for two

We already have an offer, which we accepted for what was originally the no. 2 choice.

Trying to keep it simple Wink

Why 3? Can you do one dead-cert, and one option?

It's easy to go into lemming mode over the over subscribed one (must get in! Everyone rates this one most!) But is that also the one that has the best staff/results/atmosphere/ pastoral care/facilities/ easy to travel to etc etc for the particular subjects your dd wants to do?