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London School Advice Please: Slightly quirky 11yr old boy

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Anniegre07 · 10/01/2019 05:36

Hi, brand new to mumsnet & currently in Australia.

Our family is relocating to London in September. Our son will be 12yrs old on Aug 14th. Currently in a top Australian school but bullied as he's a little 'quirky' following a brain injury. Hits all his academic markers well, is polite, friendly & well-liked by his teachers.
Would dearly love recommendations on schools to look at that may suit a kid not currently thriving in the traditional all boys, intensely academic and sport-driven school environ. Will look at any location around London. Would prefer co-ed for him I think? Thanks so much. This is horribly daunting. We know London pretty well. Lived in SW19 (1998-2002)

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After8itsgrownuptime · 14/06/2020 21:04

Hi all , we have been offered a place for year 5. Did anyone go for HCH and have any feedback?

cosima1 · 04/12/2019 16:32

Oh just seen this is an old thread which people started posting on yesterday!

cosima1 · 04/12/2019 16:27

run under! (hopefully also fun)

cosima1 · 04/12/2019 16:25

OP, Kew House school are opening a new senior school, Maida Vale School that will be fun under the same ethos as KH in Sept 2020. I’ve attached a link to their website. Could be a great opportunity to be part of something new and less daunting than joining a big, established school?

Also, similarly, I believe Fulham Prep should hopefully be opening their new co-ed senior school in brand new premises in Parsons Green next Sept. Give them a ring maybe?

London School Advice Please: Slightly quirky 11yr old boy
CountessDracula · 04/12/2019 14:33

I would also look at The Hall School in Wimbledon - it has had issues of late but I was speaking to a friend recently who has had 2 dds there and she said that it's really overcome those now after a change of ownership and they are so happy with it. Quirky children seem to do well there. I'ts very small which could be a good or bad thing depending on your opinion!

Gettingthroughtheweek · 04/12/2019 10:19

Might also be worth looking at a Trinity? My quirky non sporty DS is extremely happy there, and the teachers seem genuinely interested in helping all the boys find their own niche, whatever that might be. My other DC went to very sought after state schools but enjoyed school far less because of the need to live up to much more rigid expectations with far less space for individuality; Trinity is a breath of fresh air and might suit your DS.

XelaM · 03/12/2019 22:24

King Alfred Phoenix in Hampstead had been recommended to me as "quirky" and unusual but lovely. It's very small and very pretty grounds (my daughter performed in their theatre and it's such a lovely-looking school.

Ds123 · 03/12/2019 20:36

My son attended Hampton Court House till Year 2. I guess it would not be considered a “mainstream” school as there is no uniform, they speak a lot of French, and the children are on a first name basis with the teachers. It is a more informal atmosphere but we really loved it because of that. It is very academic but also places a lot of emphasis on character development. I would not say it had a large SEN population when we were there.

TahiraFaye · 16/02/2019 15:04

We really like Harrodian. We applied when DS was 11 and also quite quirky. Co-ed, non uniform, beautiful grounds, very easy going but still challenging academically for those ready to work for it.

Our son did change and mature a lot and in the end he opted for an all-boys public school, but we only have warm feelings towards Harrodian.

Anniegre07 · 13/01/2019 00:50

Thanks again @cakeisalwaystheanswer So helpful to have local perspectives! xx

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QueenVictoria11 · 12/01/2019 13:29

thank you cake. I might have a look.

cakeisalwaystheanswer · 12/01/2019 13:18

It just genuinely offers something differnt QV, which some people don't seem to understand and they get slated for. Not all DCs suit "traditional" schools and sometimes the schools may not suit the parents who want something different. If you have a DC who struggles with authority and fights the rules all the time then HCH can be a fantastic choice. E.G. for a friend's DC compulsory games/PE is a major problem but at HCH the DC didn't participate - and the number one cause of conflict at school removed. Result a well behaved child learning.

But I also know a couple of friends who put DCs into HCH and moved them because what they really wanted a traditional LEH/Hampton type of school with all that goes with it, but less academic. The parents are much happier with one of the new local Indy schools recently opened which are much more traditional.

If you are interested please do go and look. I did for my DCs, but they are as boring and mainstream as DH and I are. Also the boys are hugely sporty so I would never send them to a school without a serious sports department, but I did think carefully about it for DD when she was young.

QueenVictoria11 · 12/01/2019 12:33

Following the thread with interest.

cakeisalwaystheanswer

what do you mean about Hampton Court not being a mainstream school? Does it have a high number of students with SEN do you know? Or is it more that its curriculum is different and it has no uniform?

cakeisalwaystheanswer · 12/01/2019 11:45

Don't worry about the deadlines. London schools have expat DCs coming and going all the time and are set up for late applications, it shouldn't be a problem. Further out in the burbs deadlines etc do matter and there's less turnover but that can make it harder to fit in if you join late.
Call the schools and speak to the admissions team.

Anniegre07 · 12/01/2019 11:25

Thanks so much for the perspective @cakeisalwaystheanswer Greatly appreciated! 🙏

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Anniegre07 · 12/01/2019 11:23

Thank you @sanam2010. Online it looked like the date for admissions to Kew has already closed for 2019 unfortunately. But a great option. Thanks so much for helping x

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Anniegre07 · 12/01/2019 11:17

@Michaelahpurple Thank you. I took a quick look on line & thought it looked wonderful! But it seems applications for 2019 needed to be in by early Dec with testing next week - so we’ve missed out on an opportunity to even try. 🙈🙈 Which has heightened my all round anxiety with the entire process. Greatly appreciate the suggestion. Thank you x 🙏

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cakeisalwaystheanswer · 12/01/2019 08:56

Be aware OP that Hampton Court is quite alternative and not a mainstream school. Suits DCs who don't fit in at normal schools and many travel some distance to attend. It was actually opened by one of the founding members of Harrodian.

Kew House is a new school. When it first opened a lot of families jumped ship from local Indys which they thought had become too academic for their DCs and they wanted something more nurtuting. Consequently, the results at the moment are lower than the surrounding state comps. But a lot of local parents are unhappy with the local state senior school option in the immediate area and they have piled in at 11+ which will bring the results up medium term.

sanam2010 · 11/01/2019 22:36

I'd second Kew House and also Fulham School (new senior school opened by Fulham Prep).

Michaelahpurple · 11/01/2019 20:44

I'd second Hampton Court

LottyNotty · 11/01/2019 12:31

You're very welcome @Anniegre07. I know how worrying it can be. I hope you find a suitable place for you son and good luck with the move xx

Ivegotthree · 10/01/2019 12:46

Also I've heard Kew House is great - I have a friend with a son who sounds like yours and he absolutely thrived there.

Anniegre07 · 10/01/2019 12:14

@littlemisslucky2 Thank you, I’ll check it out! ❤️🙏

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littlemisslucky2 · 10/01/2019 11:32

Hampton Court House School might be another to consider. Co-Ed and no uniform. Don’t know much more about it but might suit a quirky child.

Anniegre07 · 10/01/2019 11:24

Thanks so much @cakeisalwaystheanswer I’ll take a look. So appreciate all these comments & suggestions xx

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