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Trinity/Whitgift 2019 thread

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enterparentone · 14/12/2018 17:04

Is there a thread yet for parents with kids doing entrance exams in Jan? It's been so helpful looking through previous years threads and now we're going through it I'd love a hand-hold and any advice on what to expect!

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PutMum · 06/03/2019 16:08

Hi Daisyphase, CantThinkofOne, Chelsea3 we are in for 10+ at W too. Coming from a small state secondary - its' going to be a bit of an adventure!

SheWhoMustBe69 · 06/03/2019 15:41

opps for 11+ entry

SheWhoMustBe69 · 06/03/2019 15:41

Has anyone on the wait list for W heard from them yet?

daisyphase · 06/03/2019 15:38

Hi Chelsea3 and CantthinkofOne, we too have accepted W for 10+ after receiving offers from both W & T. W is the first big school DS visited 2 or 3 years ago, and he's never wanted to go anywhere else since. He's very excited about making the move. DH a little more nervous and would have liked to keep him at prep for one more year. I hope we're doing the right thing!

Cantthinkof0ne · 06/03/2019 15:02

That should have been **coming from

Cantthinkof0ne · 06/03/2019 15:01

Hi Chelsea, we are 10+ at Whitgift and new to the whole Mumsnet thing. Hi 👋 and well done on accepting. Are you confirm from a small primary or prep school? We are and it’s all a little daunting as well as exciting!

Chelsea3 · 06/03/2019 14:00

So finally accepted whitgift 10+ offer. Was holding out for T until 1pm but it sounds like they are still waiting for 10 responses from their original offer letters before they can even consider waiting list places.

Who else is on the 10+ W bandwagon. Would love to hear from you. Smile

Seeline · 06/03/2019 13:56

Happy to help where I can 😁

enterparentone · 06/03/2019 13:18

Seeline thank you! You're a bit of a celebrity on the T&W threads - I can't believe its actually my turn to hear these things from you!

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Seeline · 06/03/2019 09:04

enter The next second hand sale at T is 16 March 8-11am. They usually have one at the same time as the New Boys morning in June too.

We got out uniform at Hewitts during the summer holiday to allow for growth spurts. If oyu ring them they do individual appointments in the evening during the summer, where you get 1-1 service. It's a lot less hassle!

Motheroftw0 · 06/03/2019 07:20

Dear pipandpop,
Last year we applied at T & W and DS got full fee offers. After contemplating a lotttt we decided to decline both hoping for a grammar at 11 plus or scholarship offer at T/W. We were super nervous worried if we would regret that!
This year applied only for T and again gutted with a full fee offer and was worried if he would get into grammar as no scholarship was probably hinting something. But on March 1st DS got offered first choice highly competitive grammar school and we have declined full fee offer from Trinity.

Again things could change case to case but just wanted to reassure you that people to reject 10 plus offers and there is still hope Smile Goodluck with your decision

pipandpop · 05/03/2019 22:34

Thank you for sharing your thoughts & experiences @mumofLL & @popuppippa. Just wanted to check that our decision to decline the offer for 10+ wasn’t completely bonkers!

enterparentone · 05/03/2019 21:14

Thank you!

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Wobbles21 · 05/03/2019 21:13

Of you go to Hewitt in Croydon they have a list of the uniform requirements . I would suggest going early. We went at Easter and avoided the summer rush and crush.

enterparentone · 05/03/2019 20:14

So the acceptance is in and we're excited for the next stage!

How far ahead is sensible to get uniform? Any current parents know when the next second hand sale is please? Will Trinity send a uniform list and other things to buy? Do they need pencil cases or other gear? Any rules on school bags? Dare I ask - how often are fees invoiced and when? Feeling all very real now!! Grin

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MumOfLL · 05/03/2019 18:01

Hi pipandpop , last year DS applied for W only and declined 10+ offer at W because he didn't want to leave school before year 6. However this year DS only goes for T and we are accepting an offer at T for 11+. We are all happy about this as we think T is best fit DS very well.

Popuppippa · 05/03/2019 17:23

We did @pipandpop for DS3 at 10+ for Trinity. However, I was absolutely certain he would get an offer the following year. He was offered a generous scholarship at 11+ but full fee place at 10+ which made me think that 10+ may be slightly more competitive with fewer places to go around, and an increasing number of people opting to transition a year early.

One thing to factor into your decision making this year is the size of the cohort/birth year. In London especially, it has been reported that this is a high birth rate year with a sizeable number of children not offered any kind of state school at all. This will have a knock-on effect across all school places, state and independent.

pipandpop · 05/03/2019 17:09

Out of interest, has anyone declined a 10+ offer in favour of remaining at primary school for another year?

Jige · 05/03/2019 10:34

Onwardsandupward my DS got offers from both W & T back then. For my DS it was always W, and he loves it there. It’s hard work, but boys there soon grow-up and learn to take responsibility very quickly of organising themselves, ie homework, looking after their belongings and the day to day life at W. He’s become very independent. They do encourage them to try out the clubs and this also helps with having a long lunch break in years 6 & 7.
We have no regrets and haven’t had any issues. Most importantly he’s happy there and doing well 😄

Onwardsandupward · 04/03/2019 12:06

Thanks Jige wish I could go!

Is your DS still loving W? Have you had any issues or regrets?

Jige · 04/03/2019 11:22

Onwardsandupward I’m sure someone will be able to tell you what it cost last year, but the year before it was £135. This covers travel to and from Lake Garda, all excursions to Venice, Verona and sailing. The 4 star hotel which looks over the lake is beautiful and all meals included. My DS loved it, great way to bond but a good experience for most going abroad without parents for the 1st time. Absolute bargain!!!

Onwardsandupward · 04/03/2019 10:09

Does anyone know how much the lake garda trip is?

Motheroftw0 · 03/03/2019 20:11

@AveEldon Wilson's calendar has July 1st as New Year 7 parents evening at 7 pm and July 3rd as the New Year 7 Induction day

Motheroftw0 · 03/03/2019 19:59

Thanks @AveEldon and @Popuppippa
I will check with the school tomorrow.

Popuppippa · 03/03/2019 18:45

@Motheroftw0 I don't recall a sports day but as AveEldon suggests, I'd just give them a call. You may find this is a busy week for them as offers have just gone out but I'm sure someone can confirm the date.