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Trinity/Whitgift 2019 thread

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enterparentone · 14/12/2018 17:04

Is there a thread yet for parents with kids doing entrance exams in Jan? It's been so helpful looking through previous years threads and now we're going through it I'd love a hand-hold and any advice on what to expect!

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walkingtheplank · 31/05/2019 17:11

When we bought Whitgift kit they did advise an inkpen but didn't have to be a fountain pen - so bought a Lamy Balloon pen that uses cartridges but is more like a ballpoint to use. Might be the same at Trinity?

enterparentone · 31/05/2019 16:51

T parents - the kit list specifies an "ink pen" - do they mean a fountain pen? DS has never used one! Confused It says biro as another item...
thanks!

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walkingtheplank · 31/05/2019 13:49

Yes, we went for the coat - it was only c.£25.

The size of the backpack will definitely discourage carrying too much. I'm now wondering if the valuables bag (that everyone claims isn't used) might be useful in that bag after all.

AveEldon · 31/05/2019 08:55

The school is trying to discourage the boys from carrying too many books so they seem to have gone for a smaller bag

I think the coat is good for cold and windy train platforms but it does depend on your child

Remember you can always get a coat later. You can call the shop and pay over the phone - your son then goes in at break and they fit and label the new garment

user1485549700 · 31/05/2019 06:19

We are booked in on Monday. Did you go for the coat? Still not sure what to do about that one. Also is anyone's 10+ DS getting the school bus from East Dulwich?

walkingtheplank · 30/05/2019 23:42

Anyone bought uniform yet? We bought most of the Whitgift uniform this week. A few items weren't in stock. They now do a sleeveless jumper which DS liked - apparently quite a lot of the new boys have opted for them. Very pleased it could all be labelled there and then. Disappointed with the backpack - seems inadequate - lacking pockets, not much space etc. Thanks to those who recommended not getting the valuables bag.

Seeming a bit more real.

Wimbles101 · 16/05/2019 08:34

@BalhamMum - we have generally found our form tutors to be very helpful, and kind. No idea whether they are specially trained tbh!

It is a step change from small primary but the boys usually settle down by half term of their first term, once they have got used to earlier starts, new routines, and longer journeys!

@enterparentone we wear shirts long and short according to the weather - T uniform policy is not as strict as others we've found - as long as the boys looks smart.

enterparentone · 15/05/2019 17:49

Thanks @Wimbles101 I've ordered the same bag! Grin

Do boys generally all wear long sleeved shirts or short? Thank you!

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Pillarandpo · 15/05/2019 08:21

Hi balhammum2019 - assuming it it Trinity you are asking about, I think we were told about classes/form tutors for First Year at the Saturday morning induction. The boys spent some time getting to know each other in their form room whilenparents heard from the Head etc and we then joined them to meet the tutor. Pretty sure the boys were put in forms according to which 2 languages they were learning, I don't know if there are any other factors as well. I don't know about training for the tutors but I found our son's tutor and head of year very good at helping them all settle in in a low key, unforced, way. Plenty of proactive communication from the Head of Year and form tutor always responsive. For uniform, we got everything we needed from Hewitt's at the induction morning and a second hand sale - no need to make a separate visit to the shop ime.

BalhamMum2019 · 14/05/2019 18:50

This thread is so useful! Thanks for all the tips and advice on uniform, equipment, etc. There’s so much to cover!

Are boys/parents expected to buy extras for any subjects as they get older (fancy calculators, foreign language dictionaries, etc.)?

When do we find out about tutors/classes/etc. and are they based on anything (results, sportiness, interview)? They said their Year 6/7 tutors were specially trained for new boys, is that a generic “they’re all great” line or have people found they are genuinely adept at settling new boys in?

We’re coming from a very small primary so it’s quite overwhelming!

Wimbles101 · 13/05/2019 12:51

Hi @enterparentone, any black rucksack is fine I believe.

This is the one we got this time, which I've been really pleased with so far. No complaints from DS either, it has more compartments, and is easier on their backs. They do have to carry quite a lot of stuff back and forth if travelling by public transport! www.very.co.uk/yuu-yuuschool-bag/1600289744.prd

We only bought more socks and that's it, otherwise one each of the PE kit, but my DS is really more musical so doesn't that much team sport.

They bring the kit home every week so should have plenty of time to wash it.

By locker bags do you mean the PE bag? Or is that the one for valuable items? My top tip on the latter from another mum and a few boys is they don't use them, so not worth buying.

HTH

enterparentone · 13/05/2019 11:54

Thank you @Wimbles101 ! Can the black bag have any sort of design/pattern, or completely plain black? Where did you buy the bag with back support please? That sounds such a good idea!
I still can't find the Trinity locker bags on Hewitts Confused

How much of everything is sensible to get, particularly PE kit? At primary one set only comes home every half term but presumably with muddy sports and growing sweaty boys it might be a good idea to have more? Double everything? This is going to be expensive! Shock

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Wimbles101 · 13/05/2019 11:49

Hewitts usually come to the school I think it's on Induction day, can't quite remember, and you can purchase everything in one go then in terms of PE kit. That was the main uniform expense. Everything else is pretty cheap - blazer was £18 when we started two years ago.

Wimbles101 · 13/05/2019 11:48

@enterparentone - T doesn't require a specific school bag - as long as it's black. We initially purchased one from Hewitts but it got pretty bashed up after a year and a bit, and I've now bought a sturdier one with back support which will hopefully last a bit longer!

walkingtheplank · 09/05/2019 23:11

Thanks AveEldon. Think I'll buy 2 of the outdoor kit as DS always finds the mud. Presumably that's the Games kit rather than PE kit.

enterparentone · 08/05/2019 17:19

Thanks Seeline!

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volpemum · 07/05/2019 15:40

Thanks AveEldon this is so helpful !

I was told that the ladies at the Uniform shop are also really lovely and tell what you really need and what are extras ? Hoping they will guide me through it !

Walkingtheplank I have also heard that the valuables bag is never used. So definitely one to strike off the list !

AveEldon · 07/05/2019 13:40

@walkingtheplank - back pack and sports bag are logoed and must be the school ones. Swimming you can get away with non logo

If the boys wear a coat it is supposed to be the school one

Games kit - PE top is white, Games is reversible blue/gold, PE shorts and rugby shorts are different. Rugby boots - you can swap the studs or reuse for football I think. Trainers suitable for indoor use are needed

My kid has worn a plain beanie in cold weather

www.whitgift.co.uk/docs/7872-WhitgiftSchoolUnif.pdf

walkingtheplank · 07/05/2019 13:25

Having looked at the uniform list, can any existing Whitgift parents share their ideas on what uniform is compulsory/optional?

a) Bags – back pack, valuables, swimming, Olympic sports bag - are they all needed and must they be these specific bags? I understand the Valuables bag is never used.

b) Is the school coat is compulsory; I recall seeing a range of coats when I’ve visited

c) Games kit – PE Shirt and Games Shirt, PE Shorts and Games Shorts – what’s the difference? Are there some sports items that it is worth having more than one of – DS relatively sporty and I’m thinking Autumn could be a muddy term.

d) Sport footwear – only a mention of rugby boots but presumably need trainers, astros, football and rugby boot?

e) List includes a Beanie and Scarf – does this mean that boys can only wear a school hat/scarf.

Any tips on what to (not) buy or what one needs to have more that one of would be really useful.

Seeline · 03/05/2019 09:29

I can't get the Hewitts site to work properly at the moment, but for PE there is a locker bag like this with the T logo. My DS has had his since J Bugs and is still being used in L6.

I don't know whether is a specific requirement for school bags - there didn't used to be. My Ds has always used this They usually last a couple of years at a time.

ANy swim bag will do, as will any towel.

You will get a list of pencil case requirements! But generally just the standard stuff. The school will specify a calculator - which you can purchase direct from school at a discounted price. Have spares at home - they will get lost/misplaced. I have to say the T lost property system is fantastic and as long as everything is named, things do get back. I don't thin we have ever lost anything permanently.

I am sure you get instructions as to what to bring in when. I really can't remember that far back Grin

There is another second hand sale is Saturday 15th June at 8.30am,

enterparentone · 02/05/2019 18:31

Forgot to say thank you @Seeline!

Can anyone advise what sort of bags the T boys need for sports kit/swimming stuff and general school bag please? Are there specific school ones (the Hewitts ones don't seem to be for T specifically) or colours/sizes? Will any pattern towel do? Do boys bring EVERYTHING in on day 1?! What sort of pencil case stuff do they need? (DS is very excited about the WHSmith trip!)

So excited about coming on 22nd and finally feeling properly like part of the school!!

Ps Hewitts 10% discount day is on 2nd & 3rd June

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Seeline · 25/04/2019 09:35

@enterparentone and other T parents

Just seen in the new school diary that there is an induction afternoon for new lower school pupils on 30 August, starting at 12.30.

AveEldon · 24/04/2019 17:34

Whitgift Secondhand Sale will be Sat 11 May 10.30am - 12 midday

Pickofthepops · 13/04/2019 21:32

My son (joining upper first) will definitely be doing the full three days. He is already fairly familiar with the site, having been in for lots of sports courses over the last year or two, But he is chomping at the bit to get another look at the library. And meet his classmates to be of course. Great opportunities here we come!

Snowstorm18 · 12/04/2019 21:50

I think most boys attended the 3D activity days (sports, music, and library) last year. DS found it very good as he made some friends and familiarized himself with the school facilities. A half day induction at the end of summer is a mandatory academic induction day. They will find out their form and meet their form tutor. You will have an opportunity to meet staff and ask questions when you collect the boys. DS is a very happy and proud Whitgift boy now. Good luck.