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Losing the plot with 11+ for independent schools

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worriedandstressedAAA · 11/12/2018 10:02

DS is above average but not top set/brilliant and we have been tutoring him for the last 2 year to try for year 7 entry as our local state secondary is not great. We chose one "super selective", 3 others good schools which are not top 50 but still hard to get into but two safe choices. DS has already done 2 assessment days which seem to have gone well and has 3 more in Jan. The problem I have is the sheer numbers applying and the high standard. I think DS will do well but am just not sure he will be in the top 5% of whatever is needed to get in. Even the schools that are supposed to be easier to get into have 400 applications for 40 places. Just seems impossible to get DS in anywhere. It doesn't help that DS is not very motivated so it takes a huge amount of effort to get him to do practice papers. I am sure we have done far less than many others which will out DS at a disadvantage. Why are these schools so hard to get into and why are there no options for more average kids? Can anyone advise? Am in 2 minds whether he should even sit the January exams as his chances seem very low based on the number of applicants.

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GU24Mum · 11/12/2018 11:12

Me too - except that I've struggled to get him to do any extra work until very late in the day. Feels like a mountain to climb and I veer between digging in and throwing in the towel. Don't know whether I'm relieved or depressed about the thought that in 3 months' time it will be over for better or worse..........

Taminini · 11/12/2018 10:44

I feel your pain, we’re in a similar position with our DS. I think it’s harder this year than ever as it’s a high birth rate year and there are no new independents or extra places to take this into account. Can’t offer any advice but can only commiserate, it’s a horrible process.