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secondary applications and how to order them

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cakeymccakington · 04/10/2018 22:36

ok i'm begging someone to please help me here.

Before I start I just want to say that I'm autistic and I'm really obsessing over this, so please be kind to me! I'm really sorry if tons of people have been asking this stuff lately.

I cannot decide on a school to apply for for my son. There is only one school that I've visited that I've actually really liked and can see him settling in well at. Unfortunately it's Catholic and we are not. Last year it didn't admit any non-church going children, so it's not looking good for us. BUT, I do feel like I want to list it just in case

What I want to know though, is if I put the school closest to me as my second choice (still not my catchment school) and someone else who lives further away puts it as their first choice.... would they get it over me because I've only put it second?

I've actually emailed the admissions team already this evening but they say they are taking 10 working days to reply to emails because they're so busy right now, so I am counting on you knowledgeable people to help me out here.

I know that people will say it's pointless putting a school as first choice when it's so unlikely that we would get a place, but I just feel I need to at least TRY for a place there. I'm genuinely really cut up about it and wishing I hadn't visited and seen how lovely it is!

anyway, i'm nervous blathering so i'll just post this now

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GhoulWithADragonTattoo · 07/10/2018 08:53

I don’t think this is a hard decision from what you’ve said:

  1. Catholic school
  2. Nearby non-catchment
  3. catchment school

Worst case you get allocated 3 and appeal / go on waiting lists. Sounds like you will probably.

inquiquotiokixul · 07/10/2018 06:38

Hi OP. Fellow autistic obsessive here.

Make sure your third choice is one that you have a genuinely good chance of getting. Either your catchment school or a further-away school that always admits plenty of people from your category/distance.

If you use all 3 of your preference slots for schools that you have a slim hope of, there is a good chance you will be put in an even worse situation. However awful the catchment school is, it is less awful than a school that is just as awful AND 10 miles away - which is a genuine risk if none of your 3 choices are realistic.

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cakeymccakington · 06/10/2018 08:47

Thanks.
Our catchment school is under subscribed so I'm pretty sure if all else fails we'd get into it.
But I may name it anyway, just in case.

If we don't get one of the top 2 I'm very strongly considering putting him on the waiting lists and appealing, and home educating in the meantime.

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Bekabeech · 06/10/2018 07:18

The basic advice is that you should pretty much always put the school you can guarantee you will get into on you list. Otherwise you could get a school just as bad/worse and a long/difficult journey.
Exceptions would be you have a choice of schools you will get into eg. Because of sibling rule. Or you hate the school so much you genuinely wouldn't send a child there (would HE or pay private instead).

If your first choice is unlikely, then I would start gathering evidence and thinking about how you would appeal for a place now.

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cakeymccakington · 06/10/2018 01:49

I'm considering ICC but I haven't visited it yet. I have a friend who is happy with it though and she has 2 kids with asd who have been well supported, such is a good sign I think.

I have a child in yr 5 as well so also need to think about him, he is autistic but doesn't have an EHCP so ideally the school needs to work for both of them!

I think whatever I put as third choice, if I don't get offered a place at O I would try and appeal it

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cakeymccakington · 06/10/2018 01:46

He's at primary in Horsham, so all the other parents are choosing schools there.

He basically appears to have no opinion other than he likes the colour of the uniform at O Hmm

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DropZoneOne · 05/10/2018 18:00

What are other parents at your primary considering? Or is your primary in catchment for O?

H has a brilliant Progress 8 score, the best in Crawley! Could he cycle if he got that?

Or what about ICC? All applicants got in there last year.

You say you loved the feel of the faith school, what has your son said about the schools? And have you been to see TB?

TeenTimesTwo · 05/10/2018 08:29

I would put you catchment school 3rd as you really don't want to be in a poor school miles away when you could be in a poor school locally.

If you end up with your catchment school, then you can wait list others and appeal for 1 & 2.

Start thinking now why 1 & 2 would be so much more suitable. Not the results but e.g. if your DC has a special need, interest or aptitude that these schools cater for better (eg orchestra, maths club, something special about pastoral care). This ideally needs to be something you can evidence to give an appeal panel a reason to think you need the school.

ps Sometimes poor reputations hang on long after a school has improved.

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cakeymccakington · 05/10/2018 08:03

I would only be taking him if he was at one of the further away ones.
I'd give him the option of taking the bus but I'm certainly not going to force him to. Not to start with anyway, I'm sure he'll soon want to be off on his own and not have his mum drop him off.

TB is currently under subscribed (and for good reason imo) so we would probably get a place there even if we don't list it.
Having said that a friend has a daughter there who is doing well. I guess a lot, at any school, depends on what your cohort is like.

But it's all feeling like a bit of a gamble! I don't really know what to put for number 3

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PillowOfSociety · 05/10/2018 07:53

And yes, unless there is some condition that affects their ability to travel, there is no need for secondary children in urban /suburban areas it to walk or get the bus. It is normal and usual for secondary age children to make their own way.

PillowOfSociety · 05/10/2018 07:50

Is TB oversubscribed?

If so I think you need to put it in last place, because if you don’t, and you don’t get any of the schools you don’t put down, they will wait until all the other allocations have been made and then give you a place in whatever school has places left. I.e an undersubscribed school. Which might be just as bad or worse than your catchment and further away.

It sounds as if you might have a good chance of O? Is there another school that you like better than TB that you would stand a reasonable chance of? If so, I would consider putting that instead of the Catholic school, which sounds as if you would need a miracle to get into.

If you don’t get O on Offer Day you might get a place when places move on the waiting lists.

clary · 05/10/2018 00:01

cakes your child can make their own way to secondary school, please don't be taking them!

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cakeymccakington · 04/10/2018 23:52

I can't really decide what to put for 3rd choice though.
Hazelwick and the Gatwick school are going to be a pain to get to as I still have a primary school run to do each morning.
ICC is a possibility... I haven't visited it yet though

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cakeymccakington · 04/10/2018 23:49

Dropzone yes, that's exactly it.
We're literally the other side of the railway line

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DropZoneOne · 04/10/2018 23:46

Ah I've worked it out. Your catchment school is TB but you want to get into O? I can see how you could live closer to O but he outside catchment. If you are 200m door to door in a straight line, then you'd likely be one of the nearest? The furthest out of catchment was 800m this year.

If you don't want TB, don't put it down. You might still be offered it if none of your 3 choices have spaces, but you can go on a wait list for O.

Marypoppins19 · 04/10/2018 23:36

Put it first and appeal if you need to

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cakeymccakington · 04/10/2018 23:32

I'm at the point where I have read so much that I'm just confusing myself and reading too much into it now I think

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cakeymccakington · 04/10/2018 23:31

The school I really love is St Wilfrids. We would come under criteria 11 of their admission policy.
Last year they filled all places with criteria 1-9 so we have very little chance, but I want to put it anyway because I'm just stubborn like that

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cakeymccakington · 04/10/2018 23:29

I've read everything I can find on the west Sussex website.
We're in Crawley, if that helps at all!

The head teacher of the closest one said they never fill it from catchment, but like I say, they only took 10 from out of catchment last year.
We are VERY close though, so if they don't fill it from the catchment area this time we stand a good chance of getting in I think.

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DropZoneOne · 04/10/2018 23:26

cakey I'm West Sussex too, there are a couple of areas that have unusual rules, Horsham and Steyning spring to mind. Have you read the admissions brochure online? It lists out all of the schools that don't follow "usual" application process.

Have you gone to the open day of your closest school? As sometimes the head will give an idea how likely out of catchment applications are to get in. Certainly our catchment school said they didn't fill from catchment and even some waitlist pupils got in - we're in an area that tends to get a few going private so they get offered state and find out later whether they've got into private / got a scholarship and then turn down state place.

Marypoppins19 · 04/10/2018 23:25

The CofE admissions seem a bit more straight forward than the catholic schools

MarchingFrogs · 04/10/2018 23:25

The local authority's 'moving up' / 'secondary transfer' booklet or web pages will explain the process. There is a limit to how 'weird' the local arrangements can be without falling foul of the Admissions Code.

Marypoppins19 · 04/10/2018 23:24

West Sussex here too. It should work just as explained above. There are some super faith schools in West Sussex

maz99 · 04/10/2018 23:21

Don’t listen to Head teachers... most of them don’t really know how admissions really work.

Your best bet is to read the admission policy for each school. If you want help understanding the policies, then either list the names of the schools or links to each admission policy here.

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