Tutoring for 11+ or not?

You know best how your child will react. DD would have hated having a tutor and it would have made her feel under more pressure. She was however a child who sometimes chose to do maths questions "for fun" instead of eg reading at bedtime so it was relatively easy to drift into 11+ practice books.

So she did lots of practice questions in Y5, with DH or I occasionally having to explain concepts she hadn't met at school, then a few practice papers the summer before tests.

She could probably have got slightly higher marks if professionally tutored but I did not want her to be the one who just scraped in due to tutoring. It seems to have worked as she is top half of class.

I further support the need that it is about technique and exam skills, not ability if your son is able. My State primary DS had Mum and Dad 'tutoring and passed to go into a selective independent. Not super selective and not London or a grammar school area, but selective all the same, ie we know of kids that didn't pass. We stated the obvious- read the question, write clearly, think clearly, move on if you are stuck. We used Bond papers for VR and NOR as this isn't something a state primary kid will ever have encountered before. The main advantage to us 'tutoring ' over paying for a tutor(apart from the cost, obvs) was that we could fit it into his week when he was most receptive. If he just had a slot every Saturday, some sessions would have been a waste of time, he was tired, grumpy, just not in the mood. We had a gently emforced understanding that he shoukd aim for one VR practice, one NVR practice, a set of maths questions and one comprehension a week in the 6 months up to the exam. Some weeks this worked some weeks this didn't. But he passed, and we all became closer actually and have a better understanding of how he works best, hopefully useful for later exams. He also wanted to go to the Indy school and realised early on how working hard can help you achieve your goals. As you are a teacher, and your DC is a bright kid, I'd home tutor if you can get one on one time with him.

Wow everybody is from Birmingham-so am I. My DD passed the grammar school tests. No tuition but 1 hour every Sunday on Bond/CGP books for a year. Plus a few timed tests. You can do it yourself if you have the time,

That’s very interesting whatwouldrondo, and helpful. Parents at our school start tutoring far too early, so i’m going to take that on board.

Agree about the Valium in tea too.

Oh and if you believe the "everybody does it so you have to too" argument then clearly you would not score highly in a test of critical thinking, though I do appreciate how the angst tends to get in the way of that......

They should put Valium in the tea of parents from Year 4 onwards (it used to be Year 5 but the stakes get raised all the time. )

It completely depends on the child and the test.

A lot of parents fundamentally misunderstand what reasoning tests are designed to do, though as a teacher I would hope that you do. The questions are designed to test ability not knowledge and where the institution (they are used in recruitment for business and government as well as schools) has the money to invest then they are developed to ensure the questions are not predictable and cannot be tutored for. Those tests are rigorously iteratively changed, the measure being that someone cannot improve their score beyond a few (less than ten) practise papers to familiarise yourself with the format etc. It is why employers give you practice questions and many children who sit reasoning papers set by private schools are often stumped by them. State schools don't have that sort of money so it would appear (though I am sure exploiting parental ignorance and angst is a factor in creating a need) that tutors can predict the sort of questions and prepare students for them. However the fact remains that bright students will be able to score highly without years of repetitive practise and that repetitive practise is only going to benefit those on the borderline. Whether you are prepared to put your child through years of repetitive uninspiring practice that has little educational value when they could be reading and discovering the joys of language and numbers is of course for parents to decide.

You can test your child yourself to see whether they have the raw ability and decide for yourself whether it is right for your child. Both of mine are dyslexic so I already knew the level they were able to score at. One sat for the superselective and scored what you would have predicted, having been familiar with the format from her Ed Psych assessments. She hated the school though and was charmed into choosing a very selective private school partly because she felt they had made the effort to assess her as a person with all her talents and challenges.

To say the superselective supposedly creams off the top 3% of the 2000 applicants its results do not compare as well as they should with both the private schools and the top sets of local outstanding comprehensives

Obviously tests of attainment are another matter and you need to look at where your child is versus what is required but there too selective schools can be very good at setting questions that let them judge ability versus cramming. I remember a lot of mothers sitting round completely stumped by some of the Maths questions in the sample papers, largely because they weren't really Maths questions but tests of lateral thinking that needed you to apply the knowledge not just regurgitate it.

That’s the thing isn’t it? Test technique counts for so much. If a child doesn’t know to leave a question and move on, that the questions don’t get harder but are a mixed bag (CEM tests here) then working through a paper methodically goes against them. Makes me so cross!

Also a Birmingham 'mom'. We didn't tutor. He did go to a practice session at a private school in the holidays where he sat a mock paper and we went through the results to see if he needed any help. (Although it was only 2 weeks before the actual exam so not much time if there were huge problems!) and we discovered we (and he!) knew nothing about cloze tests. So we did about 5 of those and we did some 10 minute practice things with him because again, we didn't realise the test was lots of short parts that you can't go back over once the time for that section elapsed.

He passed with flying colours and said the test wasn't the hardest he'd ever done. Feedback from other kids showed that the kids who had no prep simply didn't answer enough questions to get the marks needed.

We didn't choose the most selective school because I didn't like it, (crazycrofter will remember my thread about the head teacher I'm sure!) but he'd have got in.

Hope that helps?

Good advice from middleoftheroad, I’d add to that knowing times tables really well. Speed is of the essence.

I'd echo that it's about understanding the style/format.

Exam technique, as speed is everything in these tests.

I know it's been said before, but reading widely is one of the best tips I could offer. We could have done more of that!

And don't forget that the 11+ covers curriculum areas that will not have been taught yet at school (e.g. Y6 maths). Which makes so totally, pointlessly unfair on those who can't afford a tutor that it makes my blood boil. But that's a whole other rant. We very reluctantly decided on a tutor during Y5 and are now glad we did. DS 'should' sail through 11+ but his tutor has given him lots of useful hints and tips, and it's really thrown up the fact that he has a tendency to rush things and never checks his answers! We could have tutored him ourselves, but I suspect it would have been an endless battleground. This way, he really enjoys his tutor sessions, and does his homework with zero complaint.

1. It is the most extreme 11+ people who post on the 11+ forum. Most of us read and take it with a pinch of salt. Do not get too panicked by them.
2. Ignore most of the people who said they did no prep, had no tutor etc. They will turn out to be teachers/ auntie flo is a teacher/ be at private school etc.
3. Take the stories that my kid was from state school, did little prep and sailed into a private school with another pinch of salt. Their kid is probably pretty bright but private schools can pick who they want, and that's not always done on the raw score.
4. If you choose to tutor yourself (and many people are academically able to do it) then take account of the fact that unless you have a compliant child you may be setting up a bit of a battleground, which is where outsourcing to a tutor can be a good idea.
5. Not sure where you'd be applying. Presumably Kent/Sutton. Local knowledge (supplied by local tutor) can be invaluable, as sample tests may not be available and tutors build up a bank of knowledge of what schools test on.

My son wasn’t professionally tutored, not least because I was hopeless at finding a tutor- I found there was a lot of secrecy around tutors with names and telephone numbers being passed amongst friendship groups and not openly available. Anyway, a kind friend who was preparing her daughter took DS on for weekly 1 hour maths class3, and I did some top up in English. He passed a super selective grammar school test. Whether he has a place or not we shall find out on 1st March.
So I think it is possible to DIY, if one starts early enough ( 1year in our case). And does a little research into exam formats.

We chose not to get a tutor for DD but gave her some practice papers that I went through with her afterwards. Most of her friends were professionally tutored but not all got in, as CATS scores and teacher assessment also were taken into account. Timing was the main thing in the exam, and following questions through (ie reading thoroughly so not stopping halfway through an answer)

Yes you should or at the very minimum make sure he is comfortable with past papers and exam conditions. There will probably be MICK exams over the summer.
I always say this on these threads but a good friend of mine invigilates the 11+ in our area and every year without fail there are a couple of kids who turn the paper over and panic due to lack of prep. These could well be very bright kids but unless they know what to expect it could go badly wrong.
You will always hear a few parents who say they did no prep and their child did really well but do you want to risk it?

Yes, tutor in Y5. Get an actual person for 1-1 sessions rather than a tuition centre. Don’t sign up to something daft like the student support centre. Explore learning also isn’t much use.

I'd find out what papers the school(s) you are looking at use. For example, GL assessment, you can then by practice sets of these papers. Have a look at them and get your child to have a go and go from there.

Not a grammar, but my child just sat and passed with flying colours an independent selective school 11+ from state school. He is naturally bright and so just needed to practice technique for the exams. Together we learnt about VR using the internet- there are only 21 question types and most are easy if you know how to do them.

One piece of advice I would give to you OP as a parent is to stay out of playground conversations. It’s quite a contentious issue, people do it differently (some tutor from Year 1 here), I did it from Easter before the Sept exam. A mild Hysteria starts up quite early on. Results day is pretty horrible as is the next school day, it can be extremely divisive - i’ve Seen parents and children crying in the playground. I’ve learnt from experience to keep eyes down and mouth closed. The Eleven plus forum is quite useful.

I’ve done it four times, and it’s a huge relief when it’s all over. Good luck with yours!

Basically I agree that they’ll need preparing - whether privately or by you. It’s the amount of prep that some do which I think is crazy.

Tutoring can fill in gaps in Maths particularly, if your school is lacking. And a certain amount of exam technique and speed practice is important. But I don’t think a whole year is necessary, let alone the two or three years some do.

Having said that, a good tutor can add value in other ways - but if you’re just doing it with grammar school in mind, I’d go for three to four months of regular practice at home and no more!

Preparation is needed. This can be achieved via a tutor or by you delivering it yourself. As a teacher, you are perfectly able to do this (as are most parents) but it's a question of whether you want to do it yourself. Some people prefer to DIY as they have more control and can fit timings to suit their families. It saves money and no-one is ever as invested it all, as a parent is. However not everyone has the time to research, access resources or a relationship with their child that will stand doing the tutoring themselves. Lots of people pay for expertise and because tutors have resources and a child might work better for them than at home.

It seems that in super selective areas, even very bright children need preparation to get in. Cleverness alone is not enough when the numbers applying are so high, that a lack of familiarisation with things like VR and NVR and ability to work in tight timed conditions are often the deciders of what gets the place.

There will be a variety of timescales and intensity though. Many perhaps do an hour of tutoring for a year, plus the associated homework. Others will work at it for 2 or even 3 years, whilst others might do 3 months.

Doing nothing doesn't seem a good option though, although it's a shame in many ways.

I would recommend tutoring as there it would give him skills to do the tests with greater confidence.
DS was very bright and I was told that being bright doesn't mean that he is good at exam techniques too.

MacaroonMama I would definitely tutor a bit. There will be loads of kids tutored since year 1 & in preps so your dc will need an edge too. Unfortunately heavily tutored brights kids can appear 2 academic years ahead. Good luck!

Yes Prep=Private. All parents will expect those schools to work with their children so they get a place at Grammar or Private schools so its a big part of the reason they exist. Its about evening the playing field.