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Its 2018....countdown to 1st March secondary school allocations!

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Hersetta427 · 02/01/2018 12:10

Well two months down and two to go to 1st March. I have been fairly chilled since applications were submitted however now that 2018 is here it is creeping into my thoughts more frequently.

We are truly lucky to live in a town with very good secondary schools but I know DD would be heartbroken if she didn't get her first choice (a top 10 non selective girls school).

Realistically we should be virtually sure of a place as if we don't qualify on distance within our feeder school group then she should get a sports aptitude place (she score 10 percentage points higher than the required score for the last 3 years). However a part of me is still nervous as I imagine what if all 200 girls taking the aptitude test got amazing scores too. Logically I know this isn't the case as other girls at her school score 20-25 marks lower than DD but there are only 9 places available so the margin of error is small.

Anyone else beginning to get jittery? Please tell me I'm not alone.

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Shattered04 · 01/03/2018 09:51

In the interests of "science" I had another go on the headteacher this morning, this time mentioning it was Allocation Day and how anxious I was.

I'm normally pretty good at spotting subtle stuff but wow, that lady has one mean poker face!!!! Hats off to her! Not a clue. (she was lovely of course!)

hornetgirl · 01/03/2018 09:49

I'm waiting until 5pm for my twins today....stressed.

However I just though I'd say that this time 2 years ago my son was offered his 6th choice. We accepted and went on the waiting list for all of the other 5 preferred schools.

Anyway he ended up at the 6th choice school and it has been fantastic. He is in year 8, thriving and happy. So there can be happy endings xxxx

GrockleBocs · 01/03/2018 09:48

Thank you tiggy

Shattered04 · 01/03/2018 09:48

So sorry Grockle - My DD also has ASD and so I can completely understand why you're worried Flowers

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GrockleBocs · 01/03/2018 09:41

Thanks mama. Unfortunately we are likely to be a very long way down the list. We didn't meet the bar for exceptional grounds but hopefully it'll be enough for an appeal panel to agree.

tiggy can I pm you later with the detail as it would be very outing to post the details? I just need a view on it rather than help pulling it together.

wineoclockthanks · 01/03/2018 09:39

5pm seems a long way away, wondering if 9.30am is too early for 🍷🍷? Grin

TF4646 · 01/03/2018 09:38

Still waiting in Hertfordshire, I'm told it's around 4pm - so a whole day to go.

Well done to those who've got what they wanted. And stay strong for those that are disappointed at the moment.

@tiggytape - great advice / words - hopefully I won't need them later, but thank you :-)

mamaslatts · 01/03/2018 09:21

We got first choice!! So happy.
grocklebocs that's awful, agree with tiggy though, there will be movement and I think you would have good grounds for appeal. Good luck xx

user1475317873 · 01/03/2018 09:21

Can't believe we have to wait until 5pm too. We are in London

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kyrenialady · 01/03/2018 09:03

DD2 got her first choice very relived about that.

I'm not sure whether we have to accept the place or not it doesn't say so.

Anyone else in North Staffs?

GrockleBocs · 01/03/2018 09:01

Bad news here as expected. Dd has the school that she doesn't want and that doesn't want her :(

Appeal will be going in. Just so pissed off with everything around autism being such a struggle.

HastingsLikeTheBattle · 01/03/2018 09:01

mamaslatts not Hastings Smile And 2nd choice is actually a marginally better school in terms of progress and ethos, a lot has changed in this year!

HermiioneSnape02 · 01/03/2018 08:58

Well emails come through finally!

We got 1st choice.

So chuffed as it was touch and go I thought but all’s we’ll that ends well.

I’m sorry to all that haven’t had their choice and also for everyone still waiting including my best friend and her son who still haven’t had an email. It seems so hit and miss.

itsazoohere · 01/03/2018 08:58

We got 2nd choice!!
It means a train and then a bus, but it's a school that my dd liked, and it's NOT Athe one that I really wanted to avoid!
Can't quite believe it, we are so far out of the catchment area....I keep having to re-read it.

Waspnest · 01/03/2018 08:57

The school we wanted is closed due to snow. Do you think anyone will be there to answer the phone about lists?

mamaslatts · 01/03/2018 08:56

Congratulations Aquamam

Sorry to hear that person, its early days though, do you have much movement on lists where you are? There's usually a fair bit.

julz35 · 01/03/2018 08:54

Both got first choice! So happy. Hope you all get the result you want.

PersonAtHome · 01/03/2018 08:49

Bad news here this morning, DS2 has been allocated our third choice, a school that is very low down in all the league tables and historically has a bad reputation, though apparently the school is better in recent years and there are lots of parents who are happy with it. It's just that I'm not one of them!

I'll be phoning up about waiting lists at 9am when the admissions office opens.

Congrats to all those who got the places they wanted!

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BeesAndChiscuits · 01/03/2018 08:43

Hastings, if a place for the 2nd choice comes up you will lose your 1st choice: the system is designed not to allow people to hold onto more than one place.

Aquamam · 01/03/2018 08:43

I only put 2 choices down & luckily got my 1st choice 😰 🍷

mamaslatts · 01/03/2018 08:35

Hastings also Congratulations! Why do you want to be on waiting list for 2nd choice?

mamaslatts · 01/03/2018 08:33

Hastings are you in Hastings?? If so, how do you know??

Still no email or word on website. Waiting to see if DCs school is open.