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Its 2018....countdown to 1st March secondary school allocations!

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Hersetta427 · 02/01/2018 12:10

Well two months down and two to go to 1st March. I have been fairly chilled since applications were submitted however now that 2018 is here it is creeping into my thoughts more frequently.

We are truly lucky to live in a town with very good secondary schools but I know DD would be heartbroken if she didn't get her first choice (a top 10 non selective girls school).

Realistically we should be virtually sure of a place as if we don't qualify on distance within our feeder school group then she should get a sports aptitude place (she score 10 percentage points higher than the required score for the last 3 years). However a part of me is still nervous as I imagine what if all 200 girls taking the aptitude test got amazing scores too. Logically I know this isn't the case as other girls at her school score 20-25 marks lower than DD but there are only 9 places available so the margin of error is small.

Anyone else beginning to get jittery? Please tell me I'm not alone.

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Dancergirl · 01/03/2018 15:30

Thank you tiggytape for your valuable and informative advice.

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Toomanycats99 · 01/03/2018 15:10

@Dancergirl yes - outer London borough. She failed 11+ but liked our eventual first choice. Not sure how other friends getting grammar places may affect her though as I think it's likely to set of her upset again after having got over it.

Milkymilk · 01/03/2018 15:10

We only put 2 choices so a bit nervous as checked after and we were out of catchment for both the last 3 years ....
But if worst happens will go on waiting lists.
I think we get the emails after 5 pm
Just hope ds gets one of them !

Dancergirl · 01/03/2018 15:09

gemm I think the London boroughs will be 5pm.

KathyBeale · 01/03/2018 15:09

Stupid stinky London.

Gemm1 · 01/03/2018 15:07

Hi I m in palmers green north London still waiting does anyone know if 5pm or 7pm we will receive e mails thank you

Dancergirl · 01/03/2018 15:04

sitting have sent you a PM

Dancergirl · 01/03/2018 15:00

Are you in London toomany?

Toomanycats99 · 01/03/2018 14:58

Another 2 hours to go for us - it's horrible!

Shattered04 · 01/03/2018 14:53

Well done Sitting - very pleased to hear this!

Well done bellabelly - stress x 2 cannot have been fun!

We got #3. Which is something, at least. #2 has been taken off the waiting list right away! At least she will know people at #3, even if she is much more suited to #1. We could have it worse.. it's just sickening after all the work she put in for her 11+.

Sittinginthesun · 01/03/2018 14:44

Good news for us, but know lots of classmates didn't get what they wanted in SW Herts. Data's going to be interesting reading.

bellabelly · 01/03/2018 14:39

My twins both got their first choice. So relieved. Can't believe how much nervous energy I've spent on this process.

Congrats to everyone who's had good news and commiserations for those who didn't get what they wanted. Good luck to all for "big school" - certainly not ready for my babies to start Y7!

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Hersetta427 · 01/03/2018 14:37

Thank you Shattered. So sorry about your result - what did you get in the end?

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Dancergirl · 01/03/2018 14:26

Flowers shattered so sorry to hear that. I really hope you get the news you want in the coming weeks.

Shattered04 · 01/03/2018 14:22

Dancer - I wish it was just that. She has ASD and big social issues, so the school is a lot more suited to her for that reason as it's very academic, and having her best friend there to ease her in was so important. Friendships will definitely change as time goes on, but those first few weeks are vital.

I was bullied throughout the first three years of secondary because I had no friends in my class from my school, and I made a few social faux pas and I then became a target for the bullies from then on.

Congratulations to Hersetta and Frickles!

Frickles · 01/03/2018 14:14

Was just coming on to say just received Herts email! Got our first choice - phew. Hope those who had less than great news can get sorted one way or another xx

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Hersetta427 · 01/03/2018 14:11

thanks Shattered - an email just popped into my inbox !

We got our first choice. So relieved. Having a little cry.

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Dancergirl · 01/03/2018 14:08

shattered I know this won't help your dd at all now, but if it's just an issue of friendship, they change a LOT when they start secondary. Even really close friends can drift apart when they meet new people. Plus she may still get a place at your first choice school, it's very early days.

Good luck to everyone waiting. I'm in a London borough, I'm counting down the hours!

Shattered04 · 01/03/2018 14:02

Herts results on portal now.

mummyoftvef · 01/03/2018 13:39

My son got his first choice sons over moon as all his cousins go there

TheWoollybacksWife · 01/03/2018 13:35

@tiggytape thank you for your help so far. I'm going to start a thread of my own in secondary ed for advice on appealing.

Shattered04 · 01/03/2018 13:33

Thanks all. tiggy I guess it's a case of wait and see and hope for the best. The school will be supportive of an appeal anyway (just asked) so that's something.

Still don't know which school she actually has though!!

Theworldisfullofidiots · 01/03/2018 13:11

Just wanted to say congratulations to everyone who got their first choice and don't despair to those that didn't.
Last year ds didn't get into his first choice initially even though his sister was in the same school. He was allocated our local school that had been historically struggling.
My advice is find out as much information as possible and be unfailing polite whilst doing it. My ds was wrongly categorised and moved from 26th on the waiting list to 2nd. (I'm not exactly sure what happened - administration error?). We had a difficult month and we're preparing for appeal and got loads of great advice on here, particularly from Prh47bridge (who should get an OBE), tiggytape and admissions.
My ds did get in on the waiting list for a massively oversubscribed school.
However in the meantime our local school has really improved and has gone from requires improvement to good and actually I wouldn't have minded if he had gone there and the upside would be his day would be shorter.
As it happens I didn't need to appeal but used the advice given from Prh47bridge to help my friend successfully appeal.
So good luck and if need be ask for the help very generously and expertly given on here.

GrockleBocs · 01/03/2018 12:52

That's good news wasp so hopefully you'll get a place soon.