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Its 2018....countdown to 1st March secondary school allocations!

632 replies

Hersetta427 · 02/01/2018 12:10

Well two months down and two to go to 1st March. I have been fairly chilled since applications were submitted however now that 2018 is here it is creeping into my thoughts more frequently.

We are truly lucky to live in a town with very good secondary schools but I know DD would be heartbroken if she didn't get her first choice (a top 10 non selective girls school).

Realistically we should be virtually sure of a place as if we don't qualify on distance within our feeder school group then she should get a sports aptitude place (she score 10 percentage points higher than the required score for the last 3 years). However a part of me is still nervous as I imagine what if all 200 girls taking the aptitude test got amazing scores too. Logically I know this isn't the case as other girls at her school score 20-25 marks lower than DD but there are only 9 places available so the margin of error is small.

Anyone else beginning to get jittery? Please tell me I'm not alone.

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HastingsLikeTheBattle · 01/03/2018 08:25

Well done those who are happy, commiserations to those who aren’t, and Flowers to those still waiting!

DD got her 1st preference, which I’ve accepted online but I haven’t had any kind of response to show that I’ve accepged - I thought I’d get an automatic reply?

We’ve also clicked to join the waiting list due her 2nd choice - but I’ve just realised I have no clue if we can actually do that? If so, and she gets offered a place, does that automatically negate her 1st choice offer? Would we have to them accept the 2nd choice?

TracyBeakerSoYeah · 01/03/2018 08:20

All is good Smile
Just phoned LEA & DD has her place. It was the way the confirmation was worded. I wasn't the only parent to query this.
Anyway I told the lady on the phone that I loved her. Apparently I'm also not the only one. Grin
So I'm now going to sit quietly with my cuppa. DD is still asleep as her school is closed again today.

IntheMotherhood · 01/03/2018 08:11

Lambeth don't give need until 5pm+
I don't know why they can't get the information out earlier in the day - do other London boroughs manage to do this?

CotswoldStrife · 01/03/2018 08:08

Well after me being sad last night because we only got our second choice, DD was actually quite pleased! I had been bigging up both our first and second choices because I knew it would be hard to get into the first one.

I offered to put her on the waiting list but she's going to see where everyone else is going first.

Email arrived overnight but I got our results because you can log in to the system at midnight.

Good luck to all those waiting to hear today Flowers Cake Wine

Shattered04 · 01/03/2018 07:56

So sorry to hear all the crappy news here Flowers Massive sympathy.

Well done to those who got what they wanted, that's brilliant!

I had an awful night's sleep, very clearly dreaming that DD got our #3 school, the fairly decent local comprehensive. This is not actually the end of the world, but I felt like it was in the dream. And DD would be devastated (goes without saying I'll be putting a positive spin on it for her) The dream felt so realistic it must be true!

Six hours to go. I can't believe it's snowing AND we have to deal with World Fecking Book Day today too. I'm in no state!

TracyBeakerSoYeah · 01/03/2018 07:54

Lipstick I'm counting down the minutes & will ring at 7.59am.
I hope it is just a system error.
I'll post back when I know.
And thank you for slightly calming 'the kittens.'

AjasLipstick · 01/03/2018 07:34

Tracy it sounds like an email error not a system error....and I bet you won't be the only one it's happened to so be prepared to start calling at 1 minute before 8.

mamaslatts · 01/03/2018 07:19

I'm also waiting on East Sussex but hoping for a kent grammar place. Good luck to my other sussex mnetters.

It seems about half and half on this thread between those that got something they are happy with and those that didn't. Really feel for those that didn't. I'm dreading the uphill struggle of waiting lists and appeals.

TracyBeakerSoYeah · 01/03/2018 07:13

Help I'm panicking.
Just collected offer online which has allocated our chosen school, which is also our nearest school. (Luckily where we live everyone gets into their nearest school.)
I've accepted DD's high school place & submitted the form back. Then I get confirmation that I've declined!
I know I clicked on accept as well as clicking on apply for school transport.
Our LEA phone line is open from 8am so I will ring them then.
But until them I'm having kittens arghhhhhh Shock

meditrina · 01/03/2018 07:12

It's the whole pan-London and Surry system that goes live on-line at 5pm (and emails are sent out in trances starting then, can take several hours to get them all out).

It's been running that way for several years now, and KittyBelle it has withstood everyone piling in at 5 for several years now.

Gileswithachainsaw · 01/03/2018 07:12

So sorry for those who didn't get anywhere today:( how horrible and stressful

And genuinely happy for those with the good news.

Good luck to everyone else

CalmDownAndBreathe · 01/03/2018 07:04

Hope everyone ends this day at a happy note. Finally all that anxiety is over. And thank you all for the fantastic support you showed here.

itshappenedagain · 01/03/2018 06:58

We got our first preference! Some friends haven't even got one in there Top 5!

HermiioneSnape02 · 01/03/2018 06:49

Thanks Trampire very frustrating

I bloody hate waiting :)

Trampire · 01/03/2018 06:43

I think all the Londoners gave to wait until this evening so you're not alone.

Trampire · 01/03/2018 06:42

Fingers crossed for you Hermione.

HermiioneSnape02 · 01/03/2018 06:38

Congratulations to all who are happy with their places. Us brummies still haven’t heard anything ...

megletthesecond · 01/03/2018 06:34

Second preference here. It was the one DS really wanted though so he'll be pleased. And it's walking or cycling distance so I won't have to pay for bus fair.

gussyfinknottle · 01/03/2018 06:27

We got second preference which is actually my first.

Trampire · 01/03/2018 06:18

I'm in the South West near Bristol.

emmy4 · 01/03/2018 06:16

I'm in the North East, we got an email 10 minutes ago. 1st preference here.

HermiioneSnape02 · 01/03/2018 06:03

Where do you live if you have had an email sent out at midnight. I’m in Birmingham and nothing at all. You’d think a big local authority would be doing the same?

Trampire · 01/03/2018 05:43

Just woken up to an email sent just after midnight.

1st preference here too. It was probably the sibling element that meant I wasn't nearly as stressed as last time. Still a huge relief though.

FuckYouDailyMail · 01/03/2018 05:36

1st preference here, so relived. Hoping good news for all still waiting.

julz35 · 01/03/2018 03:49

I haven’t applied for any schools in the town I live in as they are all shocking. Just hoping I get one of my 3!