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Mum could be getting sent to prison for my sister missing school, help!

33 replies

hikikomorioh · 10/10/2017 09:37

My mum has always done her best to get my sister to school, but some days she just refused to go. My mum obviously cannot force her, so she would let the school know. We had a lady from the school come round and talk to my mum and my sister about attendance.

Fast forwards a few months. My sister had a day off as she was sick and her attendance is currently at 91%

The school sent my mum a letter stating their intention to prosecute her, with either a fine of £2,500 or 3 months in prison.

Obviously both would be devastating for us, being a low income mum only family. I am 20, and I’m not sure how me and my two sisters (16, 13) would survive without my mum for even a month, never mind three.

Getting a job for a few months isn’t possible as I am doing a full time university degree. Would it be possible to fight the prosecution or if not, get her finances and child benefits transferred to me for a few months as a carer of sorts? My mum is terrified of going to prison and is convinced she is going to have to go. Please, help!

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nocampinghere · 10/10/2017 10:06

IF they do actually prosecute (with an attendance of 91% i very much doubt it) the first step will be to go to court.
Your dm can show the court what she has done etc etc

Allthebestnamesareused · 10/10/2017 09:57

So have you spoken to your sister about making sure she goes to school?

Branleuse · 10/10/2017 09:50

She could deregister and home educate if she cant get her daughter into school and doesnt want any trouble

Maudlinmaud · 10/10/2017 09:49

Did an EWO come out? I would explain to your sister how serious this actually is, if you haven't already. Try to get to the crux of why she doesn't want to attend. Then access support in that area.

WellThisIsShit · 10/10/2017 09:43

Don't panic. A letter saying they can do this doesn't mean to say they will in this case.

They may well be threatening this to get your mother to comply with them. Or to take it seriously.

It shouldn't come out of the blue like you're saying it has. I do wonder if there's more to this that your mum and sister haven't told you?

91% attendance sounds quite high for this type of action, although it obviously falls under the base line of attendance required.

What does the letter say your mother needs to do?

PoppyPopcorn · 10/10/2017 09:43

Never mind proving she's done her best, show the intention to prosecute letter to the sister and let her see just how serious her refusal to attend school is.

LIZS · 10/10/2017 09:41

What help has your dm sought to get your sister in education? If she is trying her best and can evidence that it will help her case. Why won't she attend?

Sirzy · 10/10/2017 09:39

Can your Mum show what she has done, who she has contacted to get help and support?