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Finishing year 13 in 2017 part 2

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user9512736123 · 17/08/2017 19:46

New thread as the old one is at 990 messages!

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bigTillyMint · 16/09/2017 19:03

Errol that sounds good but also weird - tge proposingConfusedHmm

DD also has a peer mentor - 2nd year doing same subject.

ErrolTheDragon · 16/09/2017 18:54

It was a slightly surreal conversation.Grin

HSMMaCM · 16/09/2017 18:48

Errol - that must've really weird. DD has been allocated a peer mentor, who has been in touch already. A second year, studying the same subject.

ErrolTheDragon · 16/09/2017 18:01

DD's college have now sent out the list of 'mothers' - each first year is assigned a second year doing the same subject. So far, so good - my DM was at Homerton during the war, kept in contact with her 'daughter' throughout her life. But because there are fewer engineers this year, DD has been given two mothers. And then each of these has a 'wife' (apparently they have to 'propose' to someone during this year, homosubject pairings not approved of). So she'll have four mothers^^ (not including me, clearly I'm redundant) and quite a lot of sisters. Grin

Oldie2017 · 16/09/2017 18:00

I saw that article too and it's true for us. Son 1 yestwerfday had 3 musical instruments for a start (is in catered halls but still wants a plate etc for bits of food he prepares and took loads of tins of foot and also his own duvet as I'm too mean to buy a second one and he took real physical textbooks from A level relevant to his degree, equipment for four sports, a case of clothes, a box of shoes etc etc.

Today his twin had 2 suitcases of clothes, a box of shoes, box of bathroom products, one of kitchen plates from home (all my second hand stuff), both twins needed to take their suit and some shirts for formal dinner stuff, both had a lap top, one had an ipad too. Various coats. IN fact we took loo paper today because yesterday at the other one's hall it was pretty nasty stuff and hardly any of it.

bigTillyMint · 16/09/2017 16:17

Bizzy that sounds great. Just moved DD in - hope she will be as happy.

BizzyFizzy · 16/09/2017 12:42

I was just thinking how long ago results day was. DD has been on two holidays since, and went to uni a week ago. I've been back at work two weeks (teacher), so holidays are a very distant memory.

DD Facetimed me yesterday and she is totally sorted. She has had a good Freshers week in terms of orienting herself in the city. She is not a drinker, so has not done all the after hours stuff, but has joined societies and gone to their barbecues/pizza parties. She has done the academic stuff she needed to do, and also registered with a GP (which prompted lots of texts as to what vaccinations she has had, as if I could remember for No. 4 child).

Very happy and right choice of uni.

Horsemad · 16/09/2017 12:12

Hasn't it gone quick since Results Day? Shock

Next week for us...

Auntpetunia2015 · 16/09/2017 12:04

Haha. HSMMaCM. That's more likely. I've done everything and ex turned up yesterday to take kids out for tea and saw all the boxes. But at no point has he asked how we're going to get all the stuff in my punto as well as me and the two kids!

bigTillyMint · 16/09/2017 10:46

HSMGrin
The dad looks a bit odd in the pic - like he's trying too hard to be cool!

We are en route - managed to get everything in!

HSMMaCM · 16/09/2017 08:57

Or mum loaded the car and dad is oblivious

HSMMaCM · 16/09/2017 08:56

His son must have ordered a bedding pack and be in catered hall's, surely?

LineysRunner · 16/09/2017 08:55

What a strange article, Errol. Agree they're not representative! Maybe he's trying to be whacky dad.

ErrolTheDragon · 16/09/2017 08:45

A column in the times this morning by someone who thinks students nowadays have less 'stuff' than in his day made me laugh. I don't think he and his son are representative! www.thetimes.co.uk/article/in-praise-of-the-students-who-don-t-need-stuff-kpfdpmp0n?shareToken=90112a5f40ab2da1220edf1ec31ea5b4

user327854831 · 16/09/2017 06:55

good luck Bebumba, I hope it all goes well.

We're about to start getting ready and double checking that everything is packed before loading the car. Youngest is in a chair with the cat and is reluctant to help, promising to do it 'in a second' it's the longest second ever experienced and the other two are in bed still.

No worries, we've got plenty of time and can relax and take it easy

Horsemad · 16/09/2017 06:49

Have a virtual Voodoo doll and stick pins in it! Grin

LineysRunner · 16/09/2017 06:43

I will be Fixed Grin Woman!

Horsemad · 16/09/2017 06:42

Tsk. Liney, obviously Smile Damn autocorrect!

Horsemad · 16/09/2017 06:40

Lindy - I am so glad your ex is EX!!! Angry

Ignore him whatever he says; don't let him spoil today for you.

LineysRunner · 16/09/2017 06:29

Morning, bebumba and Horsemad.

Woke up wondering what do I have to do, what have I forgotten?

ExH is going to have a right moan on about the amount of stuff that has to go in his car. There's never a 'well done for organising all that'. Just griping. You can always count on him to take the shine off any situation.

When I was having a long and tough labour with DD in the maternity hospital, he managed to come out with, 'we don't want to be here all day'.

Horsemad · 16/09/2017 06:12

Thanks bebumba, early start for you Shock

Hope all goes well at Sheffield Smile

bebumba · 16/09/2017 05:47

Well, we are just finishing breakfast
and then will be setting off for Sheffield.
Good luck in the coming weeks Horsemad and Liney.

Oldie2017 · 15/09/2017 22:49

It is 10.45pm and one of mine is still waiting for an internet delivery out for delivery "today". He's out the external lights in theg arden and up the house to help the courier. Talk about last minute and he's not going to open his brand new apple lap top what came yesterday until he arrives at university. Anyway we have just about packed. He seems to have spent a good bit of time today when I was driving his twin, doing 5 loads of washing of his clothes (he doesn't let me near some of them - one of the huge advantages of my reputation for poor washing skills.......) so we have the heating on for those on radiators and the drier on and the car packed except the lap top. He's more into clothes than his twin so has 2 suitcases, not one but still a lot of boxes too but not musical instruments like his twin had today.

I am looking forward to the end of next week. My oldr son leaves home on Monday ( he has hired a van to move into his own house which he's been letting out since last December - he is seeing his tenants tomorrow ehn they leave) and he and I will move all hils stuff on Monday.

I wonder which of the 3 will be first to come home for a weekend? Thankfully the one on a field trip who had put a bottle of vodka in his bag specifically for that trip decided not to take it on the trip.

Horsemad · 15/09/2017 22:45

Thank you user.

LineysRunner · 15/09/2017 22:25

Best to you too, user. I've got one of those Disney-Uni-Dads in the midst also.

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