user is a TA and from what she posts one I'd call a "bum on a seat".
very curious way of thinking!
You read that I am subject to constant abuse, and your immediate assumption is that I am to blame, and somehow must be negligent in my job for this to happen.
I am very interested in hearing you articulate this view point further!
For example, at what point did I become responsible for the behaviour of the children in my classroom? When I signed the contract? When I set foot through the front door? When I first arrived into a chaotic and riotous lesson? after that?
I recently recieved a cut on the back of my head, walking down the corridor, when a student I don't know, who was behind me, hurled a chair at another student I don't know, missing him and hitting me instead. This was my fault presumably? After all, I'm only a "bum on seat" I'm not doing my job properly, it must be because of that that I end up bleeding in the first aid room.....
One of my students has just been convicted of attacking and raping a 50 year old woman at the bus stop on the way home from school last year. Presumably you don't feel she brought this on herself by not sitting at the bus stop at in an engaging enough way? Was she not considering his needs carefully enough? Was she just being a "bum on seat"?
If you don't hold the 4 O'clock victim outside school responsible for bringing about his aggression, why would you blame the 3 O'clock victim inside school?
At what age, or at what point would you consider a young person responsible for their own behaviour, and being proactive in their own education.
Please explain in detail!, I am finding your point of view absolutely fascinating!