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Year 11 support thread - keep on keeping on!

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AtiaoftheJulii · 09/06/2017 06:36

Just getting this ready!

Following on from www.mumsnet.com/Talk/secondary/2936097-Yr-11-support-thread-the-scaffolding-is-holding-up-well

Good luck to those with exams today 🍀

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Danglingmod · 31/07/2017 10:16

I think there's usually either a slot for other year groups which is after the year 11s, or else you wait until September. I would check school website or ring and ask.

I realised we've not actually been told what time ds can collect year 11 results!

Clavinova · 31/07/2017 08:46

How do Year 10 pupils find out their results? DS1 sat his Maths IGCSE this year - would he be expected to go in to school with Year 11 on results day? We forgot to ask and apparently it's 'uncool' to ask friends now.

Icouldbeknitting · 31/07/2017 08:01

Last year I sat in the car (a bus is a rare and special thing) and fretted because he was gone forever.

LIZS · 31/07/2017 07:09

Dd will go to collect her envelope at 10am while we loiter outside.

errorofjudgement · 31/07/2017 01:55

Interesting question. I didn't go in to school with either of my older 2, but sat in the car. I'm not sure what will happen with DD. I suspect if she sees friends going in, then she will abandon me, otherwise, I'm expecting she will want me to go in with her.

NeverEverEver · 30/07/2017 20:13

DD will get results emailed to her at 8.00am I think and the plan is that I'll go in to school with her if there's anything unexpected...

minesawine · 30/07/2017 19:14

Hi everyone. I hope you are enjoying your summer hols so far. Thank God for NCS. My DS was so bored before he went off and is having a fantastic time. I am so glad we did it. Nothing worse than a sulky, bored teenager.

Anyway, my question is - will you go with your DC to collect their GCSE results? I really want to go with him, but he has said no way. I am worried about his maths result because he wants to do it for A'Level, but who knows what his result will be. I said I will sit in the car, quietly trembling and chewing on my nails, but he is not keen for that either. He said nobody takes their parents. Is that true?

LittleHo · 27/07/2017 10:22

ds has a job over the summer. I'm glad as he was starting to get bored after study leave.

ifonly4 · 27/07/2017 09:52

We've been away here, which I think we all needed after exams and other things going on. DD is moving away for Sixth Form, so travelled to buy compulsory items from school shop yesterday. We're popping into town today as she needs loads of things like shoe cleaning kit, laundry bag, coat hangers, new quilt covers, as well as all the usual school stuff. DD is away twice before she goes back and has loads of plans with friends the last week, so need to starting sorting things out to save last minute panics.

Eve · 25/07/2017 10:46

.. 2 more to go though and they need to be an A and a B to make his offers!

Eve · 25/07/2017 10:45

DS is away for 6 weeks so I have his log on details to get results.

Was checking it today to make sure I can get in.... and his level 3 BTEC Science result is up.

DS*

I may have cried, hes severely dyslexic and has had to work sooooo hard all the way through school.

I lost my mum a few months ago and wish she was around to tell, she would be so proud of him.

cantkeepawayforever · 13/07/2017 14:17

Had a couple of quiet weeks here after a manic week to ten days of concerts and socialising post final exams.

Off on a trip with him tomorrow, just the two of us, relevant to A-levels.

Then it all picks up at the end of next week - music tour and then course, family holiday, possible internship, results, camping with friends, then back ready for the start of term...

errorofjudgement · 13/07/2017 14:12

Baby sitting
Paper round
Stores like Wilkinson, B&Q, book shop ( my dream job)
Volunteer in charity shop or old people's home to get experience,
Cleaning the house for mum - DD has got much tidier since I offered to pay her to clean the house, she nags us now to put stuff away!

PaddlingInTheShallows · 13/07/2017 13:34

Frequently handing out cash here too! I was hoping DD could get a summer job, but she/we are away for 4 weeks in late July/early August, so no point really.

Any suggestions for jobs on her return? She's really not into fashion, so wouldn't really suit high street retail. She's also pretty clumsy and not very alert to things so I think waitressing is out too!

She's also scared of dogs (aside from our soft-as-you-like pooch) so dog walking is a no-no as well. I'd welcome any thoughts Smile.

Otherwise the summer will continue to be comprised of chatting to friends, forays into town, generalised mooching and youtube.

BigSandyBalls2015 · 13/07/2017 08:08

I do seem to be constantly handing out cash though!! That needs to stop once this prom is over

BigSandyBalls2015 · 13/07/2017 08:07

DDs are not bored here yet. Had first week chilling then we were away for two. This week has been gearing up to prom night with much excitement. Sounds like a weekend of partying coming up.

NCS for one for the following three weeks.

I think the time is flying!!

AtiaoftheJulii · 12/07/2017 22:51

Ds wants to apply for jobs but has been slightly hampered by the fact that we've lost his NI number and some applications ask for it. He's sent off the form to ask for it again.

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errorofjudgement · 12/07/2017 21:28

DD's been busy rehearsing for a show this weekend, plus doing some voluntary work that looks as though it might lead to a paid Saturday job.
Plus she's made a start on the mountain of reading she has to do for September, and she's just heard that the weekend drama group she's been wanting to join for a year, have finally offered her a place!

pointythings · 12/07/2017 19:33

Nope, not bored! DD had prom last Friday, looked amazing and got photographed a lot so is likely to end up in the prom edition of the school newsletter...

She's sleeping a lot, been out with friends a few times, has downloaded her reading list (all except the one book that isn't on it).

Laniakea · 12/07/2017 19:14

Nope not bored - enough stuff with friends to keep her busy, she's sewing for an etsy shop that she'll probably never set up, writing a lot (the D&D thing is taking ages & she's doing some creative writing too). Sleeping often. Annoying her siblings. Eating everything in sight & generally making a huge mess Grin

She's going up to stay with her cousins next weekend, then on holiday with cousins & grandparents at the beginning of August, then Reading Festival (& cousins again!) at the end.

Will gently suggest she has a look at the summer school work before she goes away.

Watching American Gods & all of Netflix too & reading for pleasure again. I'm jealous actually Grin

AtiaoftheJulii · 12/07/2017 18:27

So, are they all bored out of their minds yet?!

Nah! Lots of sleeping, lots of gaming (some retro Super Smash Bros, plus he was very happy to come second in a Steam tournament, lol), and he's being surprisingly sociable, has seen several friends.

Has cleared out all his old books, is selling the ones that are decent but unwanted on Amazon, and took a few back to school - they didn't want most of them back due to the GCSEs changing. I'd written cards to the teachers who have really been there for him and me in the last couple of years, and he went and found them and gave them the cards and chocolates and told them he was leaving ... I was nearly crying writing the cards and then again when he told me he'd actually given them out in person - I was expecting him to leave them in reception.

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LIZS · 12/07/2017 17:52

Dd has been sorting out some of her gcse books and thrown past papers out. Also made a start on holiday A level prep work and ordered recommended reading. Just over 2 weeks until she starts rehearsing her next drama production.

BringOnTheScience · 12/07/2017 16:59

So, are they all bored out of their minds yet?!

Mine was totally flummoxed by having nothing to do at first. Now settled to lots of instrument practise and watching Game of Thrones from the start. They're going abroad to visit a friend next week.

AtiaoftheJulii · 09/07/2017 18:20

Ds hasn't had anything from his old school (haven't officially turned down the place yet) and from his intended 6th form college he has some maths questions to do which will take about half an hour, and there are suggested activities/reading for the other subjects on the college website, but nothing compulsory.

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Danglingmod · 09/07/2017 16:26

No reading lists or summer work at all here. Independent school. I think they're supposed to get a rest and play loads of sport or something...