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Trouble with new shoes

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boobyooby · 14/03/2017 19:38

I bought eldest daughter new school shoes last week but her form tutor upon noticing them Friday marched her off to Head of Year and between them they have decided they are not shoes but trainers. She argued back that they were from the school shoe section of shop but form tutor replied of course that's what they will tell you in the shop to get your sale!

They were from the school shoe section Confused
and I've since called up the company making the shoe customer services to ask what they call them. Have code on box and name and they confirmed they are a new range of leather school shoes which I now have from them in writing.

School are adamant they are not shoes but are now calling them pumps not trainers and she was sent out of form again for wearing them and I have spoken to the next person higher than head of year. She insists they break school uniform guidelines as she thinks they are pumps so I've asked her to provide her evidence to claim this and what part of "plain black shoes, must be flat, no glitter or studs" they don't conform too.

Was promised the situation would be resolved by this morning but of course have not heard anything - how do I get a response or how long should I leave it before I take it further to find out why they feel they aren't shoes although I have it in writing they are leather shoes and complain about the teachers attitudes

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Submit · 21/03/2017 23:41

They are shoes but probably not the type the school had in mind when they agreed on their school uniform.

MaisyPops · 21/03/2017 22:39
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MaisyPops · 21/03/2017 22:39

Bensyster Yeah. Though thankfully the onlu uniform policing I have to do day to day is the usual roll your skirts down, do your top buttons up, reminders that shurts should be tucked in basically all the things we all did as a teenagers

Starlight2345 · 21/03/2017 21:25

Shoes to me..makes me relieved my DS will be going to a high school with no uniform.

boobyooby · 21/03/2017 21:14

Just thought I'd give you all a quick update:

not heard back from school at all, I am taking the non-contact as they now agree they are shoes and no further action required. DD has had no further comments but did say her Form Tutor is now wearing a very scarily similar pair ....... DD starts her exams mid-May and her last exam is towards the end of June and that is her done! Hopefully they will be nicely worn in for college in September :D

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WinnieTheW0rm · 20/03/2017 21:24

"They aren't trainers. They aren't really school shoes"

Agree! They're brothel creepers

OhTheRoses · 20/03/2017 20:54

Hmm. They aren't trainers. They aren't really school shoes. But they are flat, black, sensible and won't harm growing feet. I hope every lesson is well taught and well differentiated at the school. If not perhaps the staff should focus on what matters.

paddypants13 · 20/03/2017 20:12

They look like shoes to me!

pho3be · 20/03/2017 19:45

They are not trainers but they definitely look trainery

ATailofTwoKitties · 20/03/2017 19:36

They are self-identifying as shoes.

If you mis-genre them, you could cause literal death of shoes, you know.

Tsk.

lljkk · 20/03/2017 19:32

trainers are shoes. Trainers R a kind of shoe. Gosh you guys are weird.

Bensyster · 20/03/2017 19:26

Maisypops - are you a teacher?

MaisyPops · 20/03/2017 18:40

They are shoes that are designed to appear like trainers imo.
It's a growing issue in school. Rather than selling school shoes lots of makes knowing schools dont allow black trainers (some schools used to say black shoes) they make trainer style shoes that people will buy because they'll claim 'they look like shoes and were in the school section'.

The OPs ones arent the most ridiculous trainer/shoes I've seen. It seems reasonable they could have been bought in good faith. Sometimes that kind of confusion happens.
But its worth being very aware that lots of brands are tapping into fashionable schoolwear and it's a pain (especially when you get black uggs being passed off or leggings style trousers etc and then home shout off about how the uggs are shoes).

TinyPawz · 20/03/2017 07:32

Definitely shoes. The school is nuts. Hope you get it sorted soon. DMs are not cheap either.

Gallavich · 20/03/2017 07:20

They look like trainers. They are shoes that are designed to appear like trainers imo.

Rudi44 · 20/03/2017 07:17

To me trainers are something you would wear for sports. There is no way they look appropriate for any kind of sport. They definitely look more like DMs. Really feel for you daughter in all of this, you brought them in good faith.

MaisyPops · 20/03/2017 06:24

Look more like trainers to me. But then I've noticed a rise in trainer-esque 'school shoes' turning up in shops. Those ones are closer to the shoe end than some of the ones ive seen.
A bit like legging style trousers and short jersey skirts being sold in the 'back to school' section and shirts with no top button.

Shops will brand stuff as 'back to school' because they know kids will want more fashionable items and pester power of 'but mam it says school' will get them the sale.

boobyooby · 16/03/2017 08:22

Well .... the update is, I've no update ... I've not heard anything since Tuesday late afternoon when I was told I would be rung Weds morning as they hadn't had time on Tuesday Hmm

I'm off to work now so they can only get me on my mobile, bit tricky at work but hopefully I can take the call althoughistillfindtimeto-mn--

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Bensyster · 16/03/2017 07:41

And we're told no fashion shoes - now how the hell do you determine what that means!!!!! Fashion is just current - it's not bad in itself, how could be be? School encourage you to seek their advice before making a purchase - how does that work - will the HT provide her home phone number for shopping consultations on a Saturday. I often think HTs live in an alternative universe.

AtiaoftheJulii · 16/03/2017 00:00

For goodness sake, they're shoes! They're nothing like trainers. My dd is currently wearing similar to school (see pic) - they'll last a whole year, they're comfortable, and they're warm and dry.

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Bensyster · 15/03/2017 15:41

This drives me mad - my dcs have narrow feet with orthotics and they walk 30 mins to school, finding a comfortable walking shoe to fit is hard enough without bloody stupid school footwear objections. Last pair of shoes ds had were deemed to be too trainer-like and we were told not to buy another pair - thing is when we find a pair that works we stick with the same pair - so after 3 years of wearing the same style of shoe, on a whim the HT decides they aren't suitable. The search just gets harder and harder.

LittleIda · 15/03/2017 13:45

Good idea. Carve them into a shoe.

ATailofTwoKitties · 15/03/2017 13:42

Maybe you could whittle them, OP?

LittleIda · 15/03/2017 13:28

I don't think it's relevant what the shop call them as it's the school that decide how they classify them on their uniform list. What does it say on the school uniform policy about what is required? The sole is made from a shoe like material, but i think it is the flatness of it that is making them say it's a pump. Usually there is some distinction between the front sole, the heel and the bit in between on a shoe. On the kickers hi lo that is made by the front sole and heel having ridges but the bit in between doesn't.

Clavinova · 15/03/2017 10:58

Trouble is if you look on the Schuh website and search for girls' school shoes, 219 mostly unsuitable 'school shoes' appear;

www.schuh.co.uk/kids/girls-school-shoes/

So the tutor who said 'that's what they will tell you in the shop to get your sale' is probably right.

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