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Dd crying upstairs - poor predicted grades at A level

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misblink · 26/01/2017 16:39

I feel so sad for her and cross with myself. We moved her from a small private school to a large state 6th form for year 12. She wanted to go (she was bullied and numbers were tiny). She loved her new school at first but has now admitted she's really struggling with the subjects History Biology and RS. She seems to be doing OK in rs predicted a high C. But the other two are a struggle. She isn't particularly interested in the topics for history and she is finding it very very difficult. She says she's been working very hard and she certainly seems to be, but she's not getting the results. She has just had an outburst saying she's desperate to be clever and she hates being stupid. Her essays are garbled and badly structured and despite some advice from the school they don't seem to be improving. I now think we made a mistake moving her. She said her tutor today was dismissive and just told her to work harder. She's been assessed by the learning support and given extra time in exams but I dint have anything in writing about this and her teachers seem unaware of it. I don't know what to do. I really really wish I'd pushed for her to drop biology and do photography but she really didn't want to, she felt so confident and now she's in bits. I've emailed the school to see if I can go in and chat but any online advice welcome.

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thesandwich · 26/01/2017 17:10

Some tutors offer Skype sessions. We got some good tutors via first tutors.

Wtfdoipick · 26/01/2017 17:10

At this stage of year 12 my dd was working at d and e level but she worked hard, researched answer formats and ended up with the B's she needed for uni. It can be done. The step up to A level is a massive shock to the system.

Scarydinosaurs · 26/01/2017 17:08

Mr Bruff YouTube videos for RS.

Get her a tutor- someone to sit and do essay work with her- you could get an English tutor, it just needs someone to give her a confidence boost and show her how to structure responses in an A Level style.

SecondsLeft · 26/01/2017 17:07

Can you afford a private educational psychology report to rule out or diagnose any specific problems and give strategies?

misblink · 26/01/2017 17:06

Thanks she's year 12. I really want to get her a tutor but we live quite rurally and I can't find anyone

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Mary21 · 26/01/2017 17:04

Is she in year 12 or 13 now. If year 12 there is still lots of time. I think is hard for students to understand the depth they need to go into after gcse.
It is worth going back to learning support and ensuring they disseminate any information to all teachers. Has she done any study skills sessions. There are also some excellent you tube a level tutorials.
Lots of students struggle with the transition to sixth form. If she had stayed put it doesn't mean she wouldn't have struggled.
In reality I know so many people who have done a 3 year sixth form. From all types of schools and done really well. Some 3 years for Alevel, others changing to btec after 1st year sixth form. Just so you are aware . Doesn't mean your dd is on course for this.
Also not all uni,s require very high grades. Some excellent uni,s offfer foundation years for students with lower grades. This does of course mean more cost. Higher apprenticeships are another post a level option.