This is a complicated story. Three years ago I was persuaded to move up north from east london and tried to back out. My middle daughter was looking forward to her new school so she persuaded me to try it for three years and then we'd go back. I stuck it out for three years, hated it. She didn't want to move back to London so we all moved back to Sussex where I have family. My daughter loved it where she was, hates her new sixth form. She'd started a relationship with a boy - who is actually trans - in Yorkshire whom she misses desperately. She is committed to two years of sixth form, but wants to go to uni in Yorkshire and be reunited with boyfriend, which I am happy for her to do. Meantime she is broken hearted, what can I do?