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Putney High vs Wimbledon High or alternatives

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HermioneGrangersWand · 27/10/2016 11:49

Our DD's teacher has suggested these schools for her at 11+ next year.

DD is bright but sensitive and can be anxious, so we are looking for the holy grail of a girls' school that is academically stretching but not overly pressured and with great pastoral care. Her academic and extra-curricular interests are more creative than, say, scientific/sporty.

I have been to visit both schools and am finding it hard to distinguish between them - clearly both great academically, the girls who showed us round were fabulous, both heads were impressive and both schools talked very convincingly about pastoral care. Obviously we may not be fortunate enough to have to choose between them!

I would be very grateful for views from people with personal experiences about the main differences - if any - between the schools or if there are others in SW London that might suit. We would happily consider less academically renowned schools if they could still provide challenge and the pastoral care was good.

Many thanks!

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jeanne16 · 28/10/2016 07:44

My DD went to Putney High and did well there and was happy. Personally I think the differences between Putney High and Wimbledon High are exaggerated. I would choose the one closest to where you live.

Ericaequites · 28/10/2016 00:22

If possible, take the kindest school. Also, choose the school with the easiest commute. After long days, a long commute is hard. It makes it harder to make friends. Consider the sorts of parents at each school. Parents who share values with you and can afford the same sorts of things are useful. I attended a girls private school with much richer girls who wore cashmere sweaters, whereas I wore rather felty hand me downs. Also, avoid a school where most girls are given lots of allowance. It's hard to develop bad habits if you can't afford them..