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Starting year 13 2016

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HSMMaCM · 06/09/2016 08:46

Continuing from the year 12 - 13 thread.

Good luck with continuing studies, uni open days, driving tests, etc.

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ErrolTheDragon · 21/09/2016 23:02

I actually think the process of writing her PS has been useful for DD - she's doing the subjects with least amount of writing, and was always rather dismissive of the gcse 'persuasive writing' exercises on subjects she wasn't really interested in.

bigTillyMint · 21/09/2016 21:40

That's better news, HSM.

Definitely, Little! It is a bit of a joke, isn't it? The Head of Dept who gave the talk I went to with DD said they don't even look at them Confused

Mirabelle, I am biting the bullet in the hopes that it lasts till next July. I can't face looking for a new one. DD is miraculously not moaning too much about it - probably because she is just relieved I am going to sort it out for £££

LittleHoHum · 21/09/2016 19:22

Although I suppose that doing PS's that way would turn the whole thing into an exam and that wouldn't be great. I hope the 'powers that be' axe the darn things soon.

LittleHoHum · 21/09/2016 19:19

No predicted grades yet. A couple of comments on the PS - take a couple of bits out and then expand which dd finds illogical.

They are not really Personal Statements by the time they have been through a couple of teachers. It woud be much more exciting to sit them in a room and tell them to write about why they want to do the subject. I bet the recipients at universities would find the end result much more entertaining to read. Grin

HSMMaCM · 21/09/2016 18:53

This is why I only had one child.Grin.

Squeezed DD's predicted grades out of her today. Not brilliant, but not as bad as she's been acting.

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MirabelleTree · 21/09/2016 17:57

Ouch, not cheap. Is there such a thing as reconditioned cheaper ones ?

bigTillyMint · 21/09/2016 17:53

Not jealous, not at all! Though second teen not so good.
Grin re the friend asking if you're due on!

DD's laptop needs repairing - will take 2 weeks and cost about £200Angry But probably better than having to get a new one now - was planning to sort a new one for uni. Why do these things last only for so short a time?

MirabelleTree · 21/09/2016 17:43

That is the beauty of conducting your parenting via Skype, no shrieking.

However My PSB turned 13 last week and has turned into sloth boy. Clearly I'm not dealing with it too well as friend watched me in action then asked me if I am due on. I went to bed later and Googled the times of the swimming sessions and she asked today if I'd thought about swimming. Zen-like sounds very appealing.

I think DD is highly unlikely to want to ever go to University listening to her recently She's had some success booking in some photo shoots for portraits and I can see her going down that route . Although she will be loath to admit it the photography BTEC has really helped and I' glad she stuck it long enough to come out with the 90 credit diploma. Just need her to get this A level though to keep all options open.

dingit · 21/09/2016 14:15

Sorry, hit post too soon, they have no dm's to take it out on Smile

Predicted grades in, and all very official, AAA, her as grades were ABB, but high Bs, so may be achievable, but still a lot of pressure.

Sadly we are not near Nottingham, we are in Surrey, which is her first choice. Ah, she wants her mumma after all Grin

dingit · 21/09/2016 14:11

I wonder what it's like at a girls boarding school

bigTillyMint · 21/09/2016 09:40

teta, I've taken to leaving early for work for the same reasons!

teta · 21/09/2016 08:21

I've taken to going swimming in the evening to calm me down.The thing is my hormones are awry - I'm 52 - and I just shriek back.Which is no good whatsoever.The swimming makes me Zen-like and I actually sleep well.

HSMMaCM · 21/09/2016 08:10

Mine's a door slammer.

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ErrolTheDragon · 21/09/2016 07:43

Mine isn't a shrieker, more of a Hmm-er.

bigTillyMint · 21/09/2016 07:14

Errol, I agree - some strange results from DD's friends and aquaintances. And also fingers crossed for the working harder and getting better grades Grin

And yes, shrieking is de rigeur here. I am trying my best to step away this year!

hellsbells99 · 21/09/2016 00:20

HSM - is it worth your DD discussing her predicted grades with her teachers and seeing if there is any movement? The majority of unis end up accepting students with a grade or 2 lower than their offer (as long as they are not the most competitive uni/courses). She just needs to make sure her insurance is a realistic choice if her firm choice is aspirational.

teta · 20/09/2016 22:04

Dingit I get shrieked at regularly here too.Theres no telling them anything .

ErrolTheDragon · 20/09/2016 20:36

AS grades don't map exactly to A2 though. Apart from there not being an A*, quite a lot of kids do seem to up their game. This seemed to apply even with the old style, but the new ones there's been a bit of a learning curve. DD says that in some subjects (she particularly mentioned friends who do RS) some had done better than had been expected but others significantly worse - maybe some change in marking scheme that they hadn't got to grips with.

LittleHoHum · 20/09/2016 20:23

The difference between those two possibilities make a difference for at least two choices. Hopefully she will find out soon.

bigTillyMint · 20/09/2016 20:09

Surely the predicted grades should be what they atrained at AS level (or internal exams) with possibly a grade on top if the teacher feels they could work harder/do better?

LittleHoHum · 20/09/2016 20:04

dd doesn't have her predicted grades yet which is a bit of a pain. For all we know she could be wasting her time on some open days.

ErrolTheDragon · 20/09/2016 19:58

My DD has has hers too - I think its part of the assembling info for UCAS process.

Horsemad · 20/09/2016 19:50

dingit, do you live far from Nottingham? You could always ask for a dept visit; they are usually accommodating.

Also, if your DD put it down, she would probably get an applicant/offer holder visit.

Would she consider that maybe?

bigTillyMint · 20/09/2016 19:46

Oh no HSM Sad

Yes same here, aging. I think!

aginghippy · 20/09/2016 19:41

DD has her predicted grades because she went and asked each of the teachers. There hasn't been any formal (if that's the right word) notification.

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