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End of year 7 advice..

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miffyandsnoopy · 16/05/2016 14:37

Hi, my DS is approaching the end of year 7. Recently we went to parents evening and evidently DS has made a good impression, each teacher we met discussed the fast approaching end of year exams, urging him to aim for 2 hours of revision a night and explaining that if he puts the work in he is more than capable of being put into the top sets in year 8. So, we've made up a timetable of revision. Yesterday was the first day DS started it, he found it very difficult, and he ended up having a temper tantrum and he asked me to sit with him and do the revision with him which I'm happy to do.
I'm worried now, as I don't want him to feel pressured and overwhelmed, I certainly don't expect him to be slogging away and getting perfect grades for all of these subjects, I'm wondering if he really needs to revise for 'every' subject?!? He's even got PE revision! He hates PE, and there are other subjects such as English, mathematics, science, History and French (his favourite subject) that I wonder if he would be best to focus on rather than cramming in hours of revision for things that aren't essential, such as PE and textiles! that he doesn't have any intention of progressing with when he makes his 'choices' at the end of year 8?
I just don't like to see him struggling/feeling pressured.
I'm just wondering if people on here have already experienced the end of year exams and how you dealt with/made it work for you, with your children.

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prepeduc · 16/05/2016 18:50

FWIW that's way beyond what's expected in a very academic, scholarship-focused prep school's year 7, too. How about starting at the other end, by making a list of what needs to be learned and having a plan based on that? I can't believe a year 7 child who's been keeping up needs two hours a day, unless exams start next week and revision isn't started or something!

Peanutbutterrules · 16/05/2016 18:40

We were told 1.5 hours on top of homework. Which made DD's head explode. The only way we could do this was if she cancelled most of her after school sports for a month before exams (she needs her sleep so staying up til 9/9:30 would do her in).

She's ended up doing 2 hrs each day at the weekend. 30-45 minutes during the week. I've not pushed on topics I'm not overly fussed about but have ensured she's spent the time on what she cares about.

Exams start this week so we'll see....if it doesn't go well then we'll be 'following orders' next year!

Oh....and yes...she gets set according to exam results as well. Sets are based on exam results only.

amidawish · 16/05/2016 18:37

I'll be getting dd to do a bit of revision over the half term, go over languages vocab, maths topics, read over science, history, geography books. That will be it!

Certainly won't be encouraging much for non core subjects that she doesn't enjoy and will be dropping soon.

HSMMaCM · 16/05/2016 18:28

If the tantrum was because he didn't understand it and was happy for you to help, then carry on supporting him. It is great that he talks to you about it. If it all becomes too much, then cut down and ignore the subjects you don't care about.

Decorhate · 16/05/2016 18:16

Two hours is excessive at this age. It's Y7 not A Levels. Obv you want him to do his best but they will probably be revising in class anyway.

Is this a state school? I would be quite surprised if they base next year's sets on one exam

Traalaa · 16/05/2016 16:27

Two hours a night?! I honestly think that's ridiculous for year 7 and if it's on top of homework it's even worse! How long does the school normally expect them to spend on homework each night? I'd say stick to that, or at most add an extra half an hour.

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