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Year 11 parents evening - feel gutted for dd

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briss · 30/01/2016 08:23

She's always wanted to do physio but science teachers said last night that she'd be lucky to get Bs in the three sciences and that physio was very hard to get into. Said she should start thinking of other ways to get into it rather than the 'traditionally academic' route.

Two years ago they said she should definitely do triple science and was one of their best students. Now they admitted she should have done double science and want to enter her for foundation papers for some of the units.

Dd has worked very hard - but the message we got from all teachers was that she worked very hard but didn't have the 'intellectual maturity' to get very good marks in exams.

She feels crushed and so do I a bit. I encouraged her to do triple science and pursue her physio dream and now I feel I've led her up the garden path.

It wasn't all gloomy - history was excellent and English and RE also good so maybe her strengths lie in humanities.

Just like some advice on how now to boost her confidence (which isn't great at the best of times).

I know the school were doing the right thing but I feel a bit sad that they hadn't seen this earlier. Also I think I've really banged on about how brilliant uni is and now I think if she's not uni material I need to stfu about how great it is!

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briss · 30/01/2016 14:33

No they didnt.

If you want to get in by the masters route it is as competitive I believe.

I know cardiff made my friends dd an offer of AAA* - its essential to have at least Biology as a science A level pref Chemistry too although not essential.

From a quick google you can still get onto a degree course with a BTEC Science plus 2 a levels but the BTEC needs to be DDD.

Im rapidly going off the idea for dd - she has a work shadowing thing with a physio in our local hospital in a month or so so we will see what happens then

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TeenAndTween · 30/01/2016 14:30

DD did double science last year.

We found that doing lots of old papers during the revision period really helped her understand where marks were being lost and which topics she didn't understand fully. Luckily I was generally in a position to help explain concepts to her which helped a lot too.

Often she knew the info but didn't realise what the question was asking for. So we learned to look for key words, and if in doubt write down what she knew about them for the 6 mark questions.

For the Physics 2 paper (edexcel) there were a lot of marks to be had just for being able to identify required equation from list at front of booklet, rearrange equation and substitute in correctly. By having a massive blitz on this we got her mark on that particular paper up from a C to an A without her particularly understanding the actual physics any better.

Looking through her mock papers might give you an idea how to proceed.

(None of this helps with whether or not science A levels are right for her, but might help with achieving the required GCSE grades at least)

balletgirlmum · 30/01/2016 14:27

My dd also wants to go into physio & she's just about to choose her options so I'm following this thread with interest.

She will chsnge schools for a levels & the school she will probably go to says they will accept her for science a levels if she gets at least a B at double science. However she wants to do triple. Problem being she has had poor science teaching in the past & is trying to use cgp books to fill knowledge gaps.

Did your dds teachers give any indication as to what the alternative routes into physio are? My dd wants to sum for a career as a dancer first then go back to uni as a mature student so I'm interested in this.

thesandwich · 30/01/2016 14:19

Get her to look at the icould website- excellent careers info/ videos etc which may give other ideas. Tutoring is great to build her confidence. Also nhs careers website. Good luck

areyoubeingserviced · 30/01/2016 14:12

You should use this opportunity to teach your dd about resilience and perseverance.
If she wants something she has to continue to strive.
Definitely explore the tutor option.
My love of maths was due to an inspirational teacher.

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briss · 30/01/2016 13:30

I've been reading up on BTECs and actually the health and social care BTEC might really appeal to her. No exams! If she combined that with two A levels history/psychology I think that might be enough to get her onto a degree course.

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BabyGanoush · 30/01/2016 10:15

She may do better than the school think

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briss · 30/01/2016 10:12

Thank you. Lots to think about. Apparently if she takes one unit at foundation level it's still possible to get a B by getting good marks in the other 2 units. She obtained As in her ISAs. I have a maths tutor booked for half term and apparently she also tutors sciences so will talk to her. I would never 'look down my nose' at other entries into a profession but am not well informed about them. Dd and I will find out!

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LIZS · 30/01/2016 09:32

Would n't it be better for her to do double science than triple at foundation level. Foundation caps her potential grade at a c. With 2 decent grades she could still do science A levels or perhaps a vocational route such as an NVQ / Access course would be a route worth looking into.

Kuppenbender · 30/01/2016 09:27

Two things; first of all she need to use this motivation to up her game. A little extra tuition might help, but single-minded determination can take you a long way. There are successful people from all walks of life who wouldn't be where they are today if they'd been limited by their teachers' expectations.

Secondly, by all means encourage your DC to excel academically and get to a good university, but not at the expense of looking down on alternative routes into a profession. Explore all available options.

In many ways your DD is lucky in that she has a particular and realistically achievable career in mind. She needs to hold that thought, work hard and see where that takes her. This is no time for despondency, no doors are closed to her yet. Everything is still there for the taking.

TwinklyMusic · 30/01/2016 08:35

I second speciality tutoring. The right one to one tutor can turn the situation on its head. Try the 'First Tutors' website.

defineme · 30/01/2016 08:35

That does sound tough. I think she could do with an inspirational visit to a careers library or at least some careers books. I look through the secondary school careers library a lot and there are tons of different jobs with real life examples of people getting them through all sorts of routes. Perhaps she needs to do some serious thinking about her strengths too- if it's humanties she's better at. Better she finds this out now rather than 6th form. She might be inspired by 6th form college prospectuses for courses she's not thought of.university may not be out of the question... there are lots of courses out there at newer unis with lower entry requirements and good post degreee employment stats.
Try and get her to think of this as a hiccup rather than a disaster. She is much more than a science gcse grade. She is her personal qualities, a daughter, extra curricular stuff, her passions... all sorts of things!

PerspicaciaTick · 30/01/2016 08:28

Could you arrange some science specific tutoring to boost her confidence and maybe clarify how she can approach her work more maturely?
It does seem unfair that the school have noticed this so late in the day.