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Continuing Year 13: January 2016

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Needmoresleep · 06/01/2016 13:25

Only two more terms at school. Let's support each other support our DC in getting through to the end.

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SecretSquirrels · 11/02/2016 16:31

Parents evening in a couple of weeks.
No refreshments just elbows at dawn.
I agree NMS there can be very little to say. I've never missed a parents evening in 16 years of school age DC but was tempted to skip this one. I will go though as it is my last ever parents eve.

DS has bagged the first slot with his wonderful, enthusiastic maths teacher who always runs hours behind as she seems incapable of getting rid of parents who overstay their allotted 5 minutes Wink.
At least they don't employ the system which some schools adopt, where a buzzer sounds and everyone moves around like a beetle drive.

Needmoresleep · 11/02/2016 16:00

Then a not-so-stealthy boast. We got tea and coffee and nice biscuits beforehand, and wine with nibbles after. The wine was of a reasonable quality.

I assume Yr 13 parents evenings are largely the same though. The need to "maintain current efforts" or "put more effort in" if the student is to achieve predicted or required grades. We more or less kept out of it and let the teachers talk to DD directly. We are lucky in that there don't seem to be major problems, though I find the idea of a long slog from now till June more than slightly dispiriting.

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Leeds2 · 11/02/2016 11:16

We get tea, coffee, sandwiches, cake and biscuits. No wine though!

raspberryrippleicecream · 11/02/2016 00:48

Tea and Coffee provided at ours. And there's always a fundraising cake stall from an extra curricular group if you need some comfort!

BethanKate · 10/02/2016 13:57

If we'd known about the wine back in year 6 maybe we'd have chosen private.

Perhaps we should have brought our own wine in, we could have set up a 'my dc's doing A2 Chemistry' support group in the corner.

Actually since the C in his mock DS is working harder - has to be good.

Cherryburn · 09/02/2016 09:47

Another shattered DD here! Our final parents' evening isn't until early March so I'm hoping that in the meantime no news is good news. Mocks not until after Easter.

DD seems to be really busy and working hard though I sense that her organisation (never a strong point) has slipped of late. It's so difficult to tell now as I'm not about to start checking her planner in Y13!

On the one hand a 3 A's offer from Oxford is a godsend. On the other I worry that she'll get complacent. Either way I'd be worrying I suppose. No change there then...

Needmoresleep · 09/02/2016 08:04

Ah Bethan, perhaps finally in Yr 13 we have found the solution to the solution to the state vs private question. Wine. With nibbles. I will watch how quickly people grab a glass and take it as a sign of how well teacher feedback went. Or possibly how long the queue was for some teachers. I will probably find myself wishing DD was taking minority subjects.

DD is shattered. Roll on half term.

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BethanKate · 08/02/2016 17:55

Great news Bucking!

Tea, coffee, wine at parents' evening?? We've never had any of that.

Our last one was last week. Mock results were fine except for Chem - hoing for A got C, honestly don't know what's going on there. Teachers say he needs to work harder & improve his exam technique which is true but when his other teachers say he's doing really well & when the Chem A2 results last year weren't very good it makes me wonder if there's a bit more to it. They actually gave him a certificate at the end of last term for working so hard. He can still get into uni even if he completely messes up Chem anyway (teachers don't seem to realise that). I thought they would know what his offers are & what he's aiming for but they didn't.

Just all a bit strange & would have liked last ever one to have ended on a high note & felt a bit deflated.

Stillunexpected · 08/02/2016 12:22

Just popping in to say that if your DC needs to interview for their course and haven't heard yet, don't be afraid to follow up with the department! DS has only received one offer so far as all his other choices require an interview and portfolio. Three interviews are set up, but he hadn't heard from his top choice. I phoned this morning as getting there requires a flight for us so some notice would be appreciated to find that they had put him on the "wrong" list so if we hadn't chased it is highly likely we would have missed the whole thing! As it is, they have been interviewing since before Christmas (despite the acknowledgement of his application saying they would only review all applications after 15 Jan) and have only three dates left, only one of which he can make. Aargh! All's well that ends well however.

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raspberryrippleicecream · 07/02/2016 16:30

Our parents evening is just after half term.

Last data report with mock results due any day, but DS already knows they were fine. As others are saying, its just the keeping going now!

hellsbells99 · 07/02/2016 12:06

There are also too many 18th parties going on and far too much fun to be had in this last year Wink

hellsbells99 · 07/02/2016 12:06

Bucking - good luck to your DD.
Needmoresleep - I knew there must be some advantage to an independent Wink - we only get offered tea or coffee!
DD has had her mocks (although obviously not in all modules as they haven't finished them yet). They went fine. She just needs to carry on working hard now and not give up before the exams. It is going to be a long haul - I remember is too well with DD1 last year who did lose some of her momentum before the end.

UhtredRagnorsson · 07/02/2016 11:55

Bucking - that's wonderful. Well done to her.

Needmoresleep · 07/02/2016 11:50

Well done!
Exciting. I hope the next three go well.

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buckingfrolicks · 07/02/2016 11:15

Very happy daughter here - she has a recall to RADA which is hugely encouraging all round. Only 3 more auditions to go before she gets her RADA offer (we're thinking positively). Not sure my heart can take the strain!

Needmoresleep · 07/02/2016 10:15

Our last ever parents evening next week as well. I'm not sure there will be much to say, especially as mocks are not till after half term. But it will be sad to say goodbye to teachers. Both DC have really enjoyed their time at the school, to the extent that DD does not want it to end.

Hopefully at some point she will get a University offer so will start looking forwards. At the moment the known seems safer than the unknown.

Being an independent, we get a glass of wine afterwards. Probably the last time we will see many of our fellow parents, some we have known since this whole education journey started.

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hellsbells99 · 07/02/2016 09:12

Good luck Lizs!

LIZS · 07/02/2016 08:22

We also have last parents' evening tomorrow. Hope to establish what results they feel is realistic to narrow down the uni visits.

hellsbells99 · 06/02/2016 16:32

We have our last parents' evening this week. One think I am concerned about is that in all 3 subjects, DD is only just starting the last module (excluding Empas). Looking at my calendar, if you subtract all the holidays and days set aside for practical exams, then I think she only has about 7/8 weeks until study leave! This is a bit worrying.

SecretSquirrels · 06/02/2016 09:45

Ah sorry Uhtred. I thought as UCAS deadline was May they didn't couldn't allocate accommodation until all had accepted. Conservatoire obv a different thing.

hellsbells99 · 06/02/2016 09:35

My friends DD went to a London uni last year and I remember her having to confirm and pay the deposit on accommodation very early. I don't think any universities outside of London ask for this. Good luck to your DD!

UhtredRagnorsson · 05/02/2016 22:55

Yep. Conservatoire.

hellsbells99 · 05/02/2016 22:00

Is that a London one Uhtred?

UhtredRagnorsson · 05/02/2016 20:45

DD1's deadline was 31 January and the room guarantee expires on 15 February. Not all colleges are the same, you know.