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Continuing Year 13: January 2016

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Needmoresleep · 06/01/2016 13:25

Only two more terms at school. Let's support each other support our DC in getting through to the end.

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RhodaBull · 26/03/2016 11:46

buckingfrolicks - it's funny, the first thing I thought of when seeing that Norwegian prison cell was "Bleedin' hell, I'd have luuuurved that at university!" Back in the 80s I was quite content with a sink.

Dn is very much a party person and a wannabe yah, but even she couldn't stand the noise in the halls in Bristol.

SecretScwirrels · 25/03/2016 14:25

In the end they decided it was the conference market
When we looked around the halls at York last week they were all vacated and pristine ready for conference use over Easter.
Having said that DS is adamant he wants en-suite. "What's my budget mum?"
Spoilt they are!
When DS1 was in halls he asked for a quiet flat. It was certainly quiet in the sense of looking out over fields, and his immediate flat mates were all relatively quiet and studious. However there flats above, below and either side and students in general seem to keep late hours. .

NMS never mind MN rules, I'd ring them. I find my DC struggle with making an old fashioned phone call which is extremely frustrating.

homebythesea · 25/03/2016 13:16

dunlurking at my Cambridge college some had to walk across quads to get to a bathroom. Honestly kids these days don't know they're born Wink

homebythesea · 25/03/2016 13:15

Wrt the quietness or otherwise of halls I wonder if this is even possible to predict given that it entirely depends on each entering cohort? I also wonder if it's a self fulfilling protest if somewhere is labelled "party central" or "full of poshos" or whatever (reading the student room or The Tab is a depressing task in these matters I find). I did notice in the Exeter bumph that there are designated "quiet" halls, don't know if that is universal though?

Dunlurking · 25/03/2016 12:52

Bucking I'm with you on being chuffed to get a sink.

'Twas funny earwigging on my mother and her bf yesterday, planning an imminent trip back to their Cambridge college (Newnham) to celebrate 60 years since they matriculated. Dm has booked to stay elsewhere as she can't cope without a loo at her grand old age, the bf is staying in hall and questioning why they are rebuilding an accomodation block to make it ensuite. In the end they decided it was the conference market. They couldn't see any need for the students to have ensuite.

I guess our dcs are paying the higher costs so the universities can sell the rooms in the holidays. Does it benefit our dcs at all, or just drive up their debts?

Dunlurking · 25/03/2016 12:43

We only had time to visit the Stoke Bishop halls at open day, and not all of them but ds loved the area - green and quiet. He isn't a party animal or a city one so might not be so relevant to your dd. They are pricey though!

Needmoresleep · 25/03/2016 12:36

Squirrels, I had hoped they would do this but there does not seem to be a quiet option. I hate doing this and know it is against MN rules to phone on behalf of 17 year olds but I may give the accomodation office a call. She is dyslexic and will have a heavy workload, so it will be important to get it right. When she was in her Birmingham interview I walked round some of the accomodation and got really good and practical advice from the staff there.

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buckingfrolicks · 25/03/2016 12:19

needmore well done to your DD on the offer. Isn't it a wonderful relief?! A week off doing physical activities in the fresh air sounds perfect given where she is now. a lovely, and sensible, interlude.

squirrel students in my day circa Noah, had no expectations of en suite or queen sized beds! I recall being amazed I had a light and a sink!

lurking frankly I tried everything to dissuade DD from choosing drama school. But hell, you can have a law degree from a RG and still be unemployed, it seems to me. Why not do something you love?!

Dunlurking · 25/03/2016 11:24

Bucking congratulations to your Ds for her GSA offer. That's fantastic. We had the show round at an open day and loved it but dDs decided against drama school but we know how hard it is to get an offer from them. Well done. Good luck for the rest.
Needmore so pleased to hear the news of your dd's medicine offers, especially Bristol. Really really happy for you all after a tough year Grin

SecretScwirrels · 25/03/2016 11:16

Great news buckingfrolicks. I'm sure Norweigan prisons are not the worst in the world. On a recent UCAS visit with DS I was chatting with another parent who had been with her DS to visit Cardiff the week before. She compared the accommodation to prison blocks Grin.

NMS congratulations to your DD. You must be very relieved and proud. She deserves a week off! I don't know about Bristol but when looking at accommodation lots of places ask the student to give an outline of their routines and preferences such as lark v owl / quiet v party animal.

Needmoresleep · 25/03/2016 08:45

Bucking, congratulations to both your DD and DS. And offer from the Guildhall is very impressive. I hope one of the others comes through, but it must be great to have a safety net.

Things are looking up here as well. DD has completed two out of three courseworks, and claims the other can be done over Easter. She worked very hard, with lots of late nights so it looks as if they will reflect what she is capable of.

And.....

she has an offer. Actually two. The first though, is a big deal as it is from her really aspirational choice (over 25 applicants for each place) and where she really wants to go. Its also lower than the second and very achieveable.

Lots of dancing around, then a bit of a dash to research accommodation before applications open in April. She is off on a school ski trip next week. (Mad in a way, but she might as well have a complete week off before getting back to the revision grind. She is exhausted.) She did not attend an open day and there are no offer days, so it will have to be sight unseen. Student Rooms threads are off-putting as everyone seems interested in the most lively. DD is sociable but not really a party person. If anyone has suggestions for nice halls in Bristol which give lots of opportunities to mix, but where there is a low risk of being disturbed by late night noise, do suggest. En suites etc are far less important.

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raspberryrippleicecream · 25/03/2016 08:36

Grade 8 music exam out of the way here, so DS1 seems to be fully focussed on revision now, with lots of revision planned for Easter.

Accommodation not open until May for his firm or insurance, but he's decided what he will put down.

We will look at student finance this week too.

I pay DS1 to do our ironing so that's OK. He can cook a bit but post exams he's going to do a bit more to get more confident

buckingfrolicks · 25/03/2016 00:03

well news from Bucking Mansion is that DD has been offered a place at Guildford School of Acting - I am bursting with pride and it's given her a massive boost of confidence. She's unlikely to accept it, as she's holding out for Lamda, Bristol Old Vic and RADA... which are all still pending outcomes.

DS has finalised his choices and, with a fair wind, will be off to Scotland - Edinburgh or Aberdeen. After looking at the housing options, he promptly invented a Facebook game called 'Student accommodation... or Norwegian prison cell', which speaks volumes about how well they cater for prisoners in Norway!

Reality has set in hallelujah, and revision is being scheduled and lessons in ironing being requested... all very promising stuff!

eatyourveg · 23/03/2016 12:20

ds has also been allocated his accommodation - even knows his room and who he will be sharing with.

He's about to do his student finance - his db is also about to apply to sfe but for the new masters loan and I'm wondering if when calculating the parental contribution sfe would take the masters into account in the same way as they do when you have 2 dc doing batchelors concurrently

homebythesea · 22/03/2016 23:35

DS has applied and been allocated accomodation! Didn't think that would happen until after the results. Half his year has been poleaxed by this horrible fluey virus that's going round not helped by a round of 18th birthday parties so end of term can't come soon enough. We won't qualify for anything maintenance loan wise and still dithering about whether we pay the fees so the joys of the student finance admin awaits.....

BethanKate · 21/03/2016 14:39

Just applied for student finance here. Estimate he will leave uni with £69,000 debt (4 year course).

Doing Edexcel Maths & Further Maths & OCR Physics & Chem & there's no coursework at all.

EllenJanethickerknickers · 20/03/2016 19:47

We've applied for DS1's student loan. The only information they wanted sent by post was a copy of my decree absolute. Just in case I was lying about being divorced? His father has remarried so it seems a bit weird. Confused

He's also firmed up his first (Warwick) and insurance (Exeter) choices with UCAS so no turning back now. Ulp! Just about to look at applying for accommodation now.

DS is doing OCR MEI maths as well, but finished his maths coursework before Christmas. He's yet to do his Physics EMPA though.

SecretScwirrels · 20/03/2016 18:05

Those rules must be just for self employed Visions as we've had to put new figures in each year for DS1. I did wonder whether there was any account taken for having two student DC and there is a small adjustment. New rules for 2016 starters but I'm not sure how much difference it's going to make.

After a last minute UCAS day at York, which was his 5th choice initially it has now gone up to first place and DS says he's going to firm it. The course was always the best but he wasn't keen on the campus. However we both saw it in a new light this time. I will wait until he pushes the button to be sure Grin. Then I guess he can look at accommodation although applications cannot be made until after the May UCAS deadline.

MyVisionsComeFromSoup · 20/03/2016 15:07

here we've started the student finance application, although the Current Year Income form won't be available till April (for first timers - that's where you estimate that your income for 16-17 will be at least 15% lower than your tax return figures for 14-15; any differences are added to/subtracted from the 17-18 award. Useful for self-employed folk. Also worth knowing that the 16-17 figures are used for all three years, so for eg DD1 ended up with loan + grant as her first year coincided with us setting up a new business, so lowish income, but that was still used for Y2 & 3, even though our income had changed).

Plus accommodation applied for, even though there's still this week's post-offer day(s) at Durham.

Chemistry coursework might be finished finally this afternoon, then EPQ presentation at the end of the week. Revision starts at the Easter weekend allegedly Wink

Cherryburn · 20/03/2016 13:18

Sympathies Needmoresleep, it's so tough for the medics. One of my good friends has a DD going through it too-no offers yet for her. It's such a long time to be in limbo.

DD has broken up for the holidays and is already knee-deep in revision. She's doing 4 humanities subjects and although on the face of it her Oxford offer of
3 As should be achievable she's very conscious that the marking can be unpredictable. Carrying on with all 4 to A Level theoretically gives her a safety net but of course also increases the workload. But she really didn't want to drop any of them so it is what it is.

Good luck to all the DC for the final push!

Needmoresleep · 20/03/2016 12:43

I dont think they need to reply till May, though one is promising a response before mid-April. The problem seems to be the interviews, plus their need to get numbers right. I think they get fined if they take too many or too few. Last year's Student Room threads has example of students being given offers after earlier rejections, or of being offered bribes in August if they agree to take a gap year.

There are lots of Plan Bs and things will work out. But it is awful to see DD go through this. Hopefully one set of coursework is finished today. In some ways I am glad the school have set a deadline.

In the meantime I hope things are good for the other Yr13 DC. Once the offer is firmed it becomes quite exciting.

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SecretScwirrels · 20/03/2016 12:06

Needmoresleep it seems cruel to the point of incompetence to make the poor medic applicants wait so long. Surely your poor DD can't have to wait too much longer?
DS's Chemistry and Biology are not going to be finished much before May I think, although they are nearly done with Maths.

Needmoresleep · 20/03/2016 11:51

What is yours wanting to do?

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Needmoresleep · 20/03/2016 11:51

Yes, so not the only one of her friends still to be waiting. Unfortunately others don't have the same coursework logjam and are happily sitting on offers they want. I'm thinking back guiltily to when I was at the same stage and had five offers. I am not sure I showed any sensitivity at all to less fortunate classmates. One advantage is that she is taking sciences where grades are more predictable. Humanities students seem to run a much higher risk of unexpected missed grades. So if it all works out for her I will remind her to reach out to others in the summer.

It's a tough introduction to the adult world.

I hope your Sunday is proving fruitful. I would not worry about the lunchtime sessions. My understanding is that the lab time is mainly to collect data, so not too arduous, it just takes time. And that the physics coursework write up is reasonably straightforward. (OCR B here)

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maydancer · 20/03/2016 11:39

Needmoresleep- is she a medicine applicant?

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