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Friend has asked for advice on her DS's exam results

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MaximiseProductivity · 13/08/2015 21:32

I'm the only person in her circle who has any A-Levels, so I'm the one she asks for anything to do with school, but it was a long time ago....

Her DS has just finished his 2nd attempt and the 1st year of sixth form. He was originally taking 2 A-Levels and a BTec (equiv 2 A-Levels?) but struggled and dropped an A-level, still didn't pass the AS Level at the end of lower sixth, so repeated the year.

Just has the results for the end of his 2nd 1st year (IYSWIM!) and he's failed the AS level. In the Btec he's got merits or distinctions for 4 our of 5 modules, but a fail in one of them, which I'm told = fail overall.

He's had poor attendance at school due to anxiety, often friend can't get him out of bed until evening, then he stays up all night.

So, he has to decide what to do next. My "advice" would be to do something completely different for a year and see what he wants to do then. Maybe a year of NMW jobs will motivate him to actually work next time. Friend says he's still saying he wants to go to Uni so they will look at him either repeating school again (if the school allow it) or continuing the BTec at college. I don't think the BTec alone would get him on a degree course?

What would you advise? Where can they get proper advice? Personally I don't think they were best advised to let him repeat the year at school, he's been very unhappy seeing his year group progress without him.

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notquiteruralbliss · 16/08/2015 20:14

In his position, I would look at what work was needed to complete the BTEC L3 and compare that to doing an access to higher education course at 19.

He may also want to look at IZt based apprenticeships. He could maybe do one of those ( they seem to take one to two years)and then ( if he still wanted to go to uni) do an access to HE course. He could then apply to uni with some some good work experience and an understanding of what working in IT would be like. Or he could do an OU 'certificate' level course in IT as a way of getting into a brick uni. He is still very young and had plenty of time to find the style of learning that suits him best.

If he is suffering from anxiety and struggling to pass AS levels, I would think that 6th form isn't working for him, but the decent marks in BTEC modules suggest that something with continuous assessment could suit him better (without the pressure of also trying to pass an AS level).

MadamArcatiAgain · 15/08/2015 17:45

This may sound harsh but I think If he can't pass one AS level after 2 years of trying then he is not university material.Somebody needs to tell the kid instead of blowing smoke up his arse.Wasting more time and in the future,money on something he can't do is not doing him any favours.

MarvinKMooney · 14/08/2015 08:49

I work in an admissions team for a computer science dept at a university.

As someone up thread said, you don't necessarily need an IT qual for a cs or IT degree, but a good standard of maths is usually required. A lot of unis ask for A level maths (we look for a grade A ideally).

You say he has anxiety issues: do you know if he asked for this to be taken into account in his first year? mitigating circumstances can help, as missed deadlines for assessments may not immediately be a fail (sorry not familiar with btecs so that may not apply). However it's rare that mitigation can be done in retrospect.

Back to his current situation: if he wants to complete the btec, it's important to check the funding issue to ensure it can be done in the time he has left.

However, I am another who thinks it would be best to consider time out completely and perhaPs consider an Access to HE course instead. Ideally he needs to look for science-based access courses as these will give him the maths/physics background that would be useful for a cs/it course.

I'm not sure if there are IT access courses, but these would have a more 'applied' approach, and perhaps better for IT degrees with a 'business' slant.

I really do think he needs to talk to the school/college for more advice in the first instance. He needs to prepare for a frank discussion about his performance and where to go from there. But more importantly perhaps, think about what he really wants to do. Time out to rethink / regroup is a very brave thing to do and could be the best thing he'll ever do. (And I speak from experience there!)

Wishing him all the best of luck.

BaronessEllaSaturday · 14/08/2015 08:39

He could look into doing an apprenticeship, he still gets the chance to improve his qualifications and won't rule him out of going to Uni but it may help to focus him on seeing the effort needed to progress, it may bring home to him that there tends to be a correlation between effort and reward ie wages.

titchy · 14/08/2015 08:33

Southest - read the OP - has HASNT stayed up late, that's not the reaon he's failed. He has MH issues and these need addressing first. Spending yet another year at college and failing a third time could totally destroy him.

MaximiseProductivity · 14/08/2015 08:32

I think that's where his parents are ATM southeastra, what on earth will he do if he doesn't study....He's supposedly taken over his brother's paper round (brother is working too hard to do it) but mum usually ends up doing most of it, so I can't see work working out either.

He has seen the doctor over the anxiety and been offered some counselling which he's refusing. They won't medicate at his age, which seems fair enough when he's being offered other treatment. His mum has suffered severe depression on and off since she had PND so is very sympathetic, whereas to people less involved it might look like lack of application....

I can't se how things will improve once he's at Uni either, or for that matter, during a further year of school. But he has to do something...

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southeastastra · 14/08/2015 08:25

or maybe he'll spend a year totally de motivated if he didn't have a course to attend.
my ds(21) stays up late and has done thoughout hi degree course i don't think it's rare for a teenager. He also got onto his course with a Btec and just graduated with a 2:1.

dread to think what he would have done if he'd just left school after 6th form.

senua · 14/08/2015 08:21

Are there apprenticeships? Would that suit his learning style better?

titchy · 14/08/2015 08:08

It doesn't sound like he's ready for university. He'd just be missing university classes, and the loan entitlement is such that he really can't afford to fail - it will mean he's unable to access loans for the rest of his life (some exceptions - computing is one ironically....).

He needs to take time out of education, sort out the anxiety, and work for a year or two. If he's still determine to go to university he can get a loan for an Access course which he won't have to pay back as long as completes his degree.

But right now, studying doesn't seem the right path.

Charis1 · 14/08/2015 06:17

well, obviously, there is a different standard required for each level, roughly pass = E-D, merit D-C-B and Distinction B-A. The standards required for each level are totally different. getting a merit in a unit isn't equivalent to just completing more pass standard tasks, you need to pass all the pass standards tasks, and then all the merit standard tasks, and the merit standrd tasks are significantly harder. Then if you pass all those, you get the distinction level tasks taken into consideration, and they are often very difficult, detailed and involved indeed.

ImperialBlether · 13/08/2015 23:33

Yes, EvilTwins, that's what I meant. An assignment might be P1, P2, P3, M2 and D2. They could complete just the P tasks or continue on to do the M or the D tasks. However, there wasn't a standard they had to meet in order to get the tasks, as there is in an A level. So in an A level they might write an essay and get graded from A to U.

EvilTwins · 13/08/2015 23:12

They differ.

I teach BTEC Performing Arts, in which the marks come from the standard of work. Each separate assessment criterion cones in Pass, Merit or Distinction. So to get an M, a student has to get M1, M2, M3 and M4 in a given assignment. However, others, for example Health & Social Care, have different assessment criteria for different grades - so for a Pass, a student might need to complete 2 criteria to P standard but the to get M, they would need to complete a further 2. Not sure that makes sense, but they might achieve P1, P2, M3 & M4 in an assignment, where M is not actually an available mark for assessment criterion 1.

noblegiraffe · 13/08/2015 23:08

He doesn't need IT to do a computing degree, but he would probably need maths. Given that he has failed maths twice now, that's probably not the right direction for him.

A bigger issue is the anxiety preventing him going to school. Has he ever seen anyone about that?

Charis1 · 13/08/2015 23:05

The thing is that a Merit or a Distinction in a BTEC (well, the one I taught on, which was IT) does not indicate the student is more academic

How bizarre, the pass merit and distinction work is of a completely separate standard in every Btec I have ever taught.

ImperialBlether · 13/08/2015 23:02

The thing is that a Merit or a Distinction in a BTEC (well, the one I taught on, which was IT) does not indicate the student is more academic, in the way an A* might. Certain assignments were Pass assignments, or Merit or Distinction. If they worked fast, they got through the Distinction assignments.

I think the A level results indicate he's not ready for university.

ImperialBlether · 13/08/2015 22:59

He doesn't need IT to do an IT degree.

I wonder about someone's anxiety that makes them stay in bed until lessons are over. Missing college would lead to more anxiety, I would have thought.

A degree (if he got onto one) would be more of the same, but much harder. It doesn't sound as though that's what he wants.

I'd persuade him to try to find any old job until next summer and then spend three months or so travelling. Throughout that year he may get an idea of what he wants - or more likely, what he doesn't want. I doubt if another year in school/college now would do much good at all.

PUGaLUGS · 13/08/2015 22:57

Sorry Blush

EvilTwins · 13/08/2015 22:54

It stands for Business and Technology Education Council.

EvilTwins · 13/08/2015 22:53

It's a BTEC. Not a BTec and not a BTech.

Sorry, but it really gets on my nerves.

PUGaLUGS · 13/08/2015 22:52

My son has just done a BTech. He is going to Uni.

MaximiseProductivity · 13/08/2015 22:32

Maths A Level and BTec Engineering. Wants to do something with computers but IT (or something, forget the actual subject name) was the A Level he dropped

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EvilTwins · 13/08/2015 22:27

BTECs have changed this year. It used to be nigh on impossible to fail a BTEC unit but now it's a lot tighter and if deadlines are missed there is no wriggle room. If the failed BTEC unit was one of the mandatory units for the course AND if he has already been given and missed the opportunity to re-submit, then it's perfectly possible he has failed overall. BTECs do get students into university.

What subjects was he doing?

Charis1 · 13/08/2015 22:13

no impact on funding for uni. However, he is only entitled to one more year of free education, and he isn't where he wants to be, so it is a no brainer to use that year, if the school accepts him, or if another school accepts him. There is no option to defer, or think about it, or take a break from education, or any of the things suggested on this thread. He has next year, then that is the end of his state education. He would be a fool not to take it.

guzzlewump · 13/08/2015 22:04

If he does go back to school or college again, will it have any impact on his funding for uni or college later on?

I have no idea if it will or will not - but think it's definitely a question he needs to find out!

headlesslambrini · 13/08/2015 21:59

He needs independent careers advice. They will go through the full range of options with him.

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