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Hampton School - Can my son be happy there, although he isn't very sporty?

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Kingstonmum123 · 17/01/2015 19:10

Hello
My son has passed the Hampton School entrance exam and I'm being told by various mums that unless he is 'sporty' he isn't going to be happy there/not the right school. My son enjoys tennis, swimming and a bit of cricket, but is by no means in the 'A' school teams.

It's crazy to think that unless you are kicking/catching a ball by the age of 5, your sporting prowess is written off! Most mums I talk to, have a 'sporty' child, am I in the minority because football and rugby aren't my son's favourite sports? Surely, he may be a late bloomer and not found a sport he is good at yet and may excel at secondary school?

Having read the school prospectus (cover to cover), there are scores of other lunchtime clubs and sports that he hasn't tried. HELP! Should I ignore these comments and go with my gut reaction?

Also, if it is such a highly academic school, will it be a problem if he isn't sitting at the top of the class league table?

Sorry, one more concern, is the pastoral care really good as the make out? This is my biggest concern as he was bullied at a previous school.
Thank you and your advice would be greatly appreciated.

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Waitingandhoping2015 · 17/01/2015 19:32

A friends son is currently in their gcse year at Hampton. He has never been very sporty at all, he played football at the school in maybe the D team and that's about all I think, I don't think he has ever played cricket, used to swim (but there's no swimming pool). Didn't play rugby or hocley.

The one thing of caution would be the workload as this boy always seemed to have lots of homework to do compared with my son who is at a less academic school. Couple of hours a night. I've heard this from a couple of others too.

grovel · 17/01/2015 19:25

Really, really don't worry.

Of course sporting ability can be helpful in a boys' (or any other) school but so can humour, acting, music, techie ability etc etc.

He could try rowing or (if small/light) coxing. Amazing how many unsporty boys suddenly find confidence on the river.

He's done so well. Have a glass of something and enjoy his aura.