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I CANNOT get his shirts clean. Already!

142 replies

Soonish · 21/09/2014 15:31

I've just washed some of ds1's school shirts twice using persil and using a prewash the second time.

Zilch effect, the collars and cuffs are filthy and there are random grass stains too.

These are brand new, super ultra non iron ones from M&S that he has probably worn about 3 days each.

He's just started secondary and I am almost in tears of despair. I can't afford to keep replacing them every few weeks.

What do I DO?

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Ruhrpott · 21/09/2014 23:47

I use the green household soap too and we use biotex as a prewash. Bought enough bars of fairy household soap before they stopped selling them to last my lifetime. I use it on the carpet too when someone spills something or the cat throws up.

CakeUpWall · 21/09/2014 23:43

I soak all shirts in a bucket of Biotex solution before washing, then pre-treat cuffs & collars before washing with bio liquid and a Glo-White sachet.

They gleam, I tell you. Grin

Sapat · 21/09/2014 23:33

My children have revolting polos, but they wear them until they outgrow them. I spray stain remover if I remember, otherwise just wash as normal. It is honestly not worth the effort, and soon they will be wearing jumpers anyway. I personally hate uniforms and if the school were ever to complain (which I doubt they would) I would send them packing. Who, on earth, thinks that white shirts/polos are appropriate clothing for children. Honestly...

chocolatespiders · 21/09/2014 22:54

Tesco do sports wash

chocolatespiders · 21/09/2014 22:53

For smelly sports kit trscvo do a sports wash liquid also and a capful or lavender dettol or zoflora

unlucky83 · 21/09/2014 22:50

wincher if it wasn't your pfb you would send them in...Wink
DD1 was immaculate - remember disposing of a school sweatshirt (£10ish) after one wear because it had white board marker on it.
Don't think DD2 has a school sweatshirt without whiteboard marker on it - and I keep one (white) polo and cardigan to one side for things like church services and singing with the school choir...so she has one lot without stains. She then wears them when they are almost grown out of and I can get away with the next size up for my unsoiled uniform Grin

Purpleroxy · 21/09/2014 22:15

I see that your ds has eczema but you could apply bio liquid directly to the stain, wash it and then rewash in plain water or non bio.

Wincher · 21/09/2014 22:11

My 4 year old pfb just started reception a week ago and already one of his brand new polo shirts is stained beyond redemption. They are blue rather than white but it doesn't help. I have left it out in the sun and rain for 3 days but nothing has changed. I can't quite bring myself as yet to send him in a stained shirt - I've put it to the back of the cupboard for now. At £2 for 2 in Tesco they are almost disposably cheap, but it seems such a waste of resources really. Hmm.

girliefriend · 21/09/2014 21:36

My 8yo dd managed to ruin several several new items of clothing this summer, she is very hard on her clothes (think mud pies, climbing trees, playing football) I haven't found anything that shifts ground in mud.

Will try the soap bar though.

Have tried various other so called stain removers, hot washes, soaking over night. We use a non fragranced bio washing powder called Prudax.

Ericaequites · 21/09/2014 21:27

Wash the shirts after each wearing. Cotton can be bleached, so stays cleaner. If your child rios off buttons, sew the buttons in place over the buttonholes, and sew hook and loop tape to the back of the buttonhole placket and where the buttons were when you bought the shirt.

Hakluyt · 21/09/2014 21:25

Soap and a nail brush on collar and cuff dirt before washing.

And thy need anti pirspirant /deodorant not just deodorant. Otherwise they will smell.

cricketballs · 21/09/2014 21:19

After years of cricket whites, white polos and white school shirts from 2 DS I use vanish spray for bad stains (mud/grass on cricket whites), vanish powder, normal persil/ariel tabs and my secret weapon Beckman glowwhite sachets

thejoysofboys · 21/09/2014 20:44

Napisan all the way.

soupmaker · 21/09/2014 20:21

DD1 is 6 and her shirts are stained from all sorts, pen, paint, grass, lunch. She's a complete muck magnet. Oh and bloody sun cream stains too.

Only solution is to wash and wear and ignore stains.

Jerseyicecream · 21/09/2014 20:15

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Moodykat · 21/09/2014 20:09

I used to work in a fancy dress shop and for the clothes that came back filthy it would be a vanish bar and nail brush, for stinky pits we would spray them with malt vinegar and leave for a couple of hours before washing. Seemed to do the job!

acsec · 21/09/2014 20:09

DSS got bloody white board pen on 3 of his 4 brand new white shirts in the first week of school. They are also grubby around the collars. I've soaked then in stain remover powder and dried on the line, they are still grubby. I've given up worrying too much!

BravePotato · 21/09/2014 20:07

Jelly, if you buy 100% cotton shirts you don't have the smell problem.

Polyester holds onto sweat smells!!

jellycake · 21/09/2014 20:01

My son is 15 and the problem is the sweat smell rather than grubbiness. I wash with bio on 50 and on a long wash about 1hr 45 min and that gets the worst although I do sometimes get the smell kicking up when I iron them. He uses deoderant but is a hormonal teenager!

PigletJohn · 21/09/2014 19:55

buy one cotton shirt (I usually get mine from Debenhams, which have frequent sales) as it will stand a hot wash with white cotton towels (no colours). If that gets it clean, look out for more. Polycottons will pucker in hot washes, especially the collars. Short sleeved shirts are less trouble in summer. He will have to learn to iron his own shirts, even if they are nominally easy-care.

Collars and cuffs are skin oil (teens are often oily but adults too) and exfoliated skin. Laundry sprays do work but so do the bars.

Powder and a hot wash get whites whitest (true).

CatherineofMumbles · 21/09/2014 19:43

Same problem - here - with grass and ink, but honestly OP - grass is good - he needs to be active!
I just use white stain remover from Asada, on a 40 wash - is fine.
Definitely do not make him pay for new shirts! Life is too short - they are dead cheap in Asda (I don't have shares in Asda by the way Grin)
And don't bother ironing them!

kormasutra · 21/09/2014 19:32

Op I feel your pain.
My ds has also recently started secondary school and I've had to replace 3 shirts already though for an entirely different reason.

Ds has aspergers and struggles with buttons. In primary they wore polo shirts and now its a shirt and tie.

When he has p.e, he struggles to open the buttons and so just ripped them off and ripped his shirts in the process.

I had also bought marks shirts but have replaced them with ones from Matalan which seem fine and are cheaper too.

If you're near a home bargains they do a white restorer/stain remover, 3 sachets in a box and under a pound.

Soonish · 21/09/2014 19:09

Thanks again all of you and thank goodness for MN.

I'm going to buy some of that lovely green soap and see how we go with that. I'm not sure how I ended up with Persil at all, (it is the powder) I normally get own brand but think it was on offer.

Interesting about the bio-non bio thing. I wonder if it's possible to get an unfragranced bio powder? Most of them seem very heavy on fragrance but then it probably smells awful without.

I wouldn't dream of punishing him for getting dirty, unless he gets really filthy deliberately (dust bombs anyone? sometimes three or four pairs of trousers in a day, which I cannot sustain) and then I shout a bit sometimes Blush but he is half hound, and it means he is happy.

It just annoys me that Persil advertise using the 'dirt is good' thing and then their powder doesn't bloooody work.

5mad - we always meet on the anti uniform threads, I'm with you sista Wink

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Lizardc · 21/09/2014 19:00

If they have been through the wash, they are clean.

School uniform is there to stop normal clothes getting ruined! :)

5madthings · 21/09/2014 18:46

Our primary used to have navy polos, they were great I could even hand them down! And then a change of ht meant a uniform change.