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I think DDs school want her out

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lucydaniels4658 · 13/09/2014 10:54

DD 14 attends an academy school. She is achieving very low grades 3c-4a . She has ADHD and dyslexia . In the last few months they seem to be targeting DD . DD is no angel but she has never bullied anyone sworn smoked etc . Her crime not concentrating and being a bit disruptive (chatty ). Previous schools have dealt with it well simply by refocussing her . They tell her she is going to be permanently excluded then wonder why she has become more defiant and off with them .I know there are students much more challenging but achieve higher grades and they don't get harassed. They call me many times a day over things like her shirt was untucked ,she had gum really trivial minor things that don't warrant the sanctions and calls home.Where as some classmates truant and swear and nothing.Even her classmates ask teacher why they only tell DD off . When i complain they more or less say im the problem and they are trying to "correct her behaviour" and i make it difficult. Sadly moving her isn't an option in the area i'm in. I'm so desperate i'm considering homeschooling but she'd hate it she is very sociable . I have made official complaint and outcome was they are doing their job i'm preventing them. What would you do?!!

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capsium · 14/09/2014 12:55

I care about provision when a Statement says this is what my child needs to cater for additional educational needs and find out this provision is not being actively provided because it is utilised elsewhere.

StarlightMcKenzie · 14/09/2014 12:53

Well if provision mapping starts with outcomes, and then maps onto them provision that will achieve that then that's good.

Provision maps that I have seen tend to go something like this:

Child will have access to pencils and crayons to meet their fine motor difficulties.

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capsium · 14/09/2014 12:52

^properly quantified Provision Mapping is all the better, for a truly informed picture......

StarlightMcKenzie · 14/09/2014 12:51

I've never seen a SMART provision map either though.

Who cares about provision anyway? The focus should be on outcomes for the child. If that is achieved by plying them with tooth-friendly icecream then so be it.

StarlightMcKenzie · 14/09/2014 12:50

I wasn't talking about any children having targets such as reaching a B. That's shite imo.

But they should have targets such as 'can consistently use Capital Letters appropriately, with a measure of what would constitute 'consistently'' for example.' Or 'remembers to put hand up rather than shout out', again, with a measure of what would constitute that target met.

What would the point of wanting these things of the child and not telling them about it Confused.

capsium · 14/09/2014 12:49

Starlight I actually prefer Provision Mapping to IEPs, simply because the targets in IEPs are all too often meaningless and not SMART (whether taken in the acronym sense, or not!).

We do not need our children to be set targets, we need to see that there is sound provision for their additional needs and what provision has actually been utilised for additional need + outcomes. This is what illustrates overall progress and support required. Simply concentrating on 2 or 3 targets (often seemingly at random or chosen for their convenience to the teacher) does not illustrate provision and progression of overall need well enough IME.

EvilTwins · 14/09/2014 12:47

What's that got to do with this thread? Of course we have a behaviour policy, but sometimes, students with SEN such as ADHD and ODD find it difficult to adhere to certain elements of the policing as quickly as other students.

Round and round in circles.

Fairenuff · 14/09/2014 12:42

I'm not talking just about levels and grades, though, Evil. Do you have a behaviour policy? If so, what is the system in the policy regarding good behaviour?

EvilTwins · 14/09/2014 12:34

Not actually true, Fairenuff. Your kids' school might do that but it is in no way a requirement. They need to know how to make progress, yes, but that does not need to be linked to levels or grades. In fact, levels are gone, officially.

Fairenuff · 14/09/2014 12:32

But Evil all students are supposed to have measurable 'stepping stones' (for want of a better phrase) that they know and are working towards. In each subject. Both of my secondary school children know their targets/stepping stones and they know when they have achieved them and what the next step is.

Their school has a reward system and they both regularly receive awards in line with the behaviour policy. It sounds like your school doesn't have any kind of system in place to reward good behaviour and progress for each and every student?

EvilTwins · 14/09/2014 12:27

Also, LP go across a key stage so linking praise to meeting LP targets would mean very little praise.

EvilTwins · 14/09/2014 12:25

Targets are not the same as levels of progress. Targets are set beforehand. LP are looked at afterwards.

Teachers need to know a student's starting point and therefore what 3,4 or 5 LP would be. Students don't need to know this.

EvilTwins · 14/09/2014 12:24

Starlight - no, because schools are interested in students making 3 (good), 4 (excellent) or 5 (outstanding) LP. Knowing that if you get a B in Maths you've made 4 LP does not help a child know what to learn Hmm

Anyway, this was about linking praise to meeting targets.

Fairenuff · 14/09/2014 12:23

Academic targets - ie your target for Maths is B. That's outdated. Now schools look at levels of progress rather than presenting children with targets that they may feel are out of reach.

Targets are the same as levels of progress. So, you do have levels of progress for each individual child and can reward them accordingly?

lucydaniels4658 · 14/09/2014 12:19

I meant targets for personal development at last school it was things like a) i shall tell the teacher one thing i have learnt b) I will put my hand up if i do not understand

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StarlightMcKenzie · 14/09/2014 12:18

So aren't levels of progress targets? How do children know what they are trying to learn otherwise?

btw, I have never actually SEEN a SMART IEP in 6 schools so perhaps that is why they are being removed.

EvilTwins · 14/09/2014 12:10

Academic targets - ie your target for Maths is B. That's outdated. Now schools look at levels of progress rather than presenting children with targets that they may feel are out of reach.

StarlightMcKenzie · 14/09/2014 12:08

How can an IEP be meaningful without targets?

StarlightMcKenzie · 14/09/2014 12:07

Why are targets outdated Confused?. They are used to ensure outcomes in pretty much every other successful institution and children will have to meet them in whatever situation they find themselves in after their school years.

EvilTwins · 14/09/2014 12:02

Targets are very outdated. We have not set academic targets for several years. It's all about levels of progress now.

Likewise learning objectives - it is no longer required to have it written up for kids to copy. As long as they are told what they're learning and why then it's fine.

And praise points can't just be issued for meeting targets - that would be daft.

lucydaniels4658 · 14/09/2014 12:01

Mandyandme i need to find a school like this!

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PolterGoose · 14/09/2014 12:00

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Fairenuff · 14/09/2014 12:00

Evil how many subjects do you teach? Children should know their targets, they can be written in their diary. They should know the learning objective of each lesson. Do you not do this? Confused

lucydaniels4658 · 14/09/2014 12:00

I think DD would make do with an occasional smile and "well done!" . I told DD to try and be friendly to them and ask about them and they mighy do the same she said "did you do anything nice at the weekend miss" she said "i do not talk with students about my personal life" biy abrupt fair enough no detail needed but why not say "good thankyou yours?" .Its a joke .

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