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should i mention "emotional issues " at ds secondary appeal hearing? need help please

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appealtakingovermylife · 19/05/2014 11:55

Hi! I'm new to mn as you can probably gather and have been hooked on the appeal threads for weeks since receiving secondary allocation.
I've submitted my appeal and finally recd date for hearing in 3 weeks.
I've kept it quite factual,appealing on medical/social grounds and have supporting doc evidence, son has aspergers and anxiety.
However, there are factors that I consider relevant such as me losing a baby, two grandparents dying, his grandad dying, his dad moving 7 times in 7 years and on 3rd engagement ( we split up when he was 2) very bad relationship with his dad, gets so upset seeing him once a week, all made his anxiety really bad. Is it worth mentioning these types of things? My dad said no but other people said yes.
Sorry for such a long post, this appeal has made me quite ill, mentally, doctor prescribed tablets for anxiety, it took a lot for me to go docs, I'm normally a good coper.
Thanks in advance to anybody who can help me.

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appealtakingovermylife · 19/05/2014 12:36

Thanks for your reply:)
None of these things directly relate to the need for this school but imo they indirectly relate to his anxiety.
The reasons for appeal are for continuity stability and consistency in having a mixed sex Catholic education with exceptional pastoral care and Sen dept, no other school in this city offers all that and my ds has terrible anxiety relating to change and the allocated school is 2 buses each way there and back on his own every day ( I don't drive ) and have a toddler at pre school, feel like I'm going crazy lol

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mummytime · 19/05/2014 12:27

Okay on all those things the important point is: how do they relate to why you want school A?