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Best co-ed boarding school for DD?

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Alexis705 · 11/03/2014 19:58

We're considering sending DD to boarding school for sixth form and were previously considering Canford and Culford however apparently neither are overly academic.
DD is very bright but also enjoys art, music and sport (mostly water sports). We really aren't sure where to send her but location isn't very important as we live overseas already so anywhere would be far away. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated, thanks.

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happygardening · 12/03/2014 13:27

I don't know a Rugby particularly well but I suspect many could come on here and makes comments like schoolchoice. It's all about finding a school that suits you and your DD. If she likes water sports fairly obviously, although I'm always amazed at those who don't, look into the provision for her interest and as importantly how frequently she can do it and to what level. At my DS's school rather unusually there is no major sport each term So he is able to peruse his slightly niche sport at least 3 afternoons during "games" lessons instead of standing miserable on a rugby/football/cricket pitch three afternoons a week and doing it as an extra curricular activity. This is not always the case at all schools. Ditto if she wants to do a particular A level, a mother last year on MN criticised the Pre U choices offered by my DS's school but the choices are clearly listed in their website for all to view why let your DS spend two years at the school and then start moaning about no computer science/media studies Pre U. Also as you're abroad it's worth finding out if your DD can leave a day early at the end of term or arrive a day late most schools are flexible but some won't be this could annoy some I suspect! Finally be careful about the term "full boarding" my definition; sleeping at school 7 days a week is not everyones, remember these schools want you're money bar a few very big names they are struggling to fill every vacancy, they'll almost say anything if they think it's what you want to hear, if necessary get the head/house mistress in a head lock to squeeze the actual number of full boarders out of them, ask more than one person see how much variation you get. Do you research carefully, don't assume it will be there because you're stumping up 34K a year, as I always say if it matters ask.

schoolchoicesdrivingmecrazy · 12/03/2014 09:20

Rugby is considered by many to be the best coed boarding school for girls.

propatria · 12/03/2014 08:53

For a variety of reasons the two you have mentioned would not be on my list,not least because Idont think they are either full boarding schools,and as you are abroad you need to know that a good number of children are going to be around at the weekend,try looking at places like Rugby,Oundle,both good boarding schools,decent/excellent academics and really good sport,others could be Uppingham,flavour of the month-Oakham,theres a few to be going on with

Alexis705 · 12/03/2014 04:49

Thanks for the suggestion of kings! It looks lovely (although DD was very cross that girls weren't allowed the same sports as boys) but it's so important that we get the right school, especially since we will be so far away, so we'll probably make a list of ten or so and go from there.

We would be applying for September 2015, I think most schools take applications from half way through this year.

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almapudden · 11/03/2014 21:08

I was about to say King's too. Good school - academic enough to challenge the bright pupils but lots going on in extra-curricular terms too.

happygardening · 11/03/2014 20:58

Assuming you not looking for entry for this September I would consider Kings Canterbury, the majority full board which is important if your abroad, Canterbury is a very nice city, it's got a good solid academic reputation and it's very close to the sea so good for those who like water sports. We know lots who are or have been there, all different types clever sporty musical arty quirky all bar one were very happy the very bright ones did/are doing very well.