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Wilson's vs. Sutton Grammar school?

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Nups · 27/10/2013 19:54

Hi! I would like some advice on which school is better in terms of all round development of the child- SGS or Wilson's? Please help with your own experiences if possible. Thanks.

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Willemdefoeismine · 01/11/2013 07:49

What did you decide in the end Nups if it's not impertinent to ask? And Dibbleofficer?

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Nups · 30/10/2013 14:51

Thanks Ladymuck..:)

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Willemdefoeismine · 30/10/2013 07:22

I totally agree, Ladymuck. I think having a new head with a lot to prove will make a huge difference....

Ladymuck · 29/10/2013 21:56

It's suffered in the league tables in the last few years, and that is all that matters for some. It would be interesting to compare KS3 data. I think the change to 3 year GCSE will shoot it back up the league table.

Willemdefoeismine · 29/10/2013 17:45

I suspect that in a few years Wally Boys might become the school everyone wants to go to! A new head will make all the difference I'm sure!

Dibbleofficer · 29/10/2013 16:47

wallington GS , never seems to get a shout out , we both really liked it , and the new head has got real vigour....

anotherboringnickname · 29/10/2013 14:13

Yes Willem, it could've been any school. But we visited all the schools you mention, including Graveney, and our best experience was Wilsons. Of course we may have been lucky with the boys showing us around. There are articulate, curious and bright children in all schools!

Ladymuck · 29/10/2013 12:10

"So etching"=something!

Ladymuck · 29/10/2013 12:09

Dibble, even these schools tend to comment on the ethnic mix - certainly I've seen so etching in print from wilsons. It isn't representative of the local population, and, when there was suddenly a swing in the mix, caused some unexpected issues, with boys not mixing outside of their natural groupings. As far as I am aware all of the schools have put a lot more effort into team building exercises, and trying to encourage friendships across the different groups. Most schools are good at managing a diverse mix of children, but when one group dominates, then difficulties can arise for those in minority groups. Lots of parents avoid schools such as Caterham for similar reasons.

Dibbleofficer · 29/10/2013 10:05

nups ....why are you so concerned about as you say " the racial mix" .... Not about the qualities of the school itself....

Willemdefoeismine · 28/10/2013 17:02

But I would argue that you could have just as easily had a similar experience at WCGS or SGS! Or even Graveney or one of the well-regarded comprehensives!

anotherboringnickname · 28/10/2013 16:48

It is Wilsons.

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Nups · 28/10/2013 16:20

anotherboringnickname...is that Wilson's you are talking about or SGS? Sounds great to me!!!

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Nups · 28/10/2013 16:18

Because we are bit far from Sutton, and weren't reallly considering these schools that seriously until DS passed second stage of Wilson's. Also, generally speaking, from the Grammars we saw, we were a bit disappointed. They only seemed to be focusing on academics and results..not on the all round development of the boys. Hence the dilemma!!!

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anotherboringnickname · 28/10/2013 16:16

When we visited we were shown around by two cheerful boys, big smiles on their faces, very sharp and funny. One of them plays Grade 7 piano and the other one is a football champion. They were discussing Alex Ryder books and Dr Who with DS, and telling us all about the chess club.
Judge for yourself!

Blu · 28/10/2013 16:14

Just curious - how can you have not visited either school? Has your DS visited?

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Nups · 28/10/2013 16:11

Thanks. Thats a useful input. How would you rate the two in terms of academic pressure/stress of exams etc? Do they get time to persue their interests or is it just academics every day.

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Classicsgirl · 28/10/2013 15:59

Both great options so you can't go wrong really. we ended up choosing wilsons because it seems to have more allrounders (not just mathmos and scientists) than some of the others. they also do plays and music with girls from wallington, so there are links there, and it has a huge range of extracurricular eg gardening, cooking, strategy games, as well as sports music etc. I cannot quite believe my year 8DS is going to turn into one of the smart young men in the sixth form but here's hoping....

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Nups · 28/10/2013 15:48

thecatfromjapan thank you so much. Thats a very good point. DS really enjoys swimming. Also, I think SGS does some activities with Sutton High School..it may be a good idea to have some interaction with girls. Din't think Wilson's has any of it.

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thecatfromjapan · 28/10/2013 14:04

Ummm. I'm going to throw in one difference I can think of: SGS has swimming, Wilson's doesn't. That matters if your boy is into swimming.

(If he isn't, it's probably less of an issue.)

I think SGS is smaller and slightly less full-on, too. So I get the impression it's nice for the "good all rounder" types.

They are both really good schools. If I were doing it all again, I'd probably make the decision based on which is easiest to get to.

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Nups · 28/10/2013 13:59

You are really sweet Willemdefoeismine...Thanks ever so much for your prompt responses...Such a difficult choice to make..Tossing a coin is a great idea..:)

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Willemdefoeismine · 28/10/2013 13:40

Well yes they would be because it's one of those highly competitive places where the league tables out-weight anything else ;-)!

You could toss a coin for it! Stranger things have happened!

It is worth considering that if your DS has done really, really well in the 11+ exams for both schools, even if you put one above the other, the other might try to poach you just after Offers Day - it does happen.

Given your current situation though I would be tempted to advise you put Wilson's above SGS because it's more of a 'given' - even the cleverest of boys can have off-days and you cannnot necessarily assume anything with the 11+ exams!

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Nups · 28/10/2013 13:27

Have tried there...but no one seems to be talking about SGS there...Everyone going for Wilson's it seems...

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Willemdefoeismine · 28/10/2013 13:22

The only thing that I would say is that it's a difficult decision to make 'blind'. Some schools can seem excellent on paper but the reality of the atmosphere is a lot less inspiring/appealing...

Have you considered posting on the 11+Forum - there's a specific section for Surrey - you might get some more useful insights/'traffic' on there - it seems a bit quiet here this week with it being half-term....

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Nups · 28/10/2013 13:19

One more question..DO these schools predominantly have an Asian population? I more keen on a good cultural mix, and not just dominated by one culture.

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