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Girls Boarding Schools without Exeat

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SingaporeMum2000 · 15/08/2013 17:07

We are Singapore residents looking to send my daughter to an all girls boarding school in UK in Sept 2014 for Year 9

She is not an achiever under the academic driven Singapore system but does relatively OK. Not exactly sporty and not too girly. She is keen on giving overseas education and boarding a try as thinks her current school does not provide much in term of teacher support/ school facilities and resources.

As we are not in UK, we will appoint a legal guardian from one of those registered with the school.

Appreciate if someone could recommend school with NO or minimum exeat so that we do not have to concern about placing her somewhere during these short breaks

Many thanks

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Dustylaw · 21/08/2013 01:13

SingaporeMum, as others have said, it's difficult to find a boarding school with no exeats. It's also difficult to find one that doesn't empty (to varying degrees) for at least part of the weekend. You could look at Uppingham which is very full boarding, no exeats but that is mixed (which perhaps you might consider?). As an alternative, have a look at Roedean. The advantage Roedean has is that it has quite a lot of international boarders (the local girls now tend to be day, flexi or weekly boarders) and the result of that is that the school does not empty at weekends or at exeat weekends - there always seems to be plenty going on. It's also a nice school! Getting to airports at the end of term is easy and there will be others going of course.

Munashe · 17/08/2013 00:45

I don't think you will find a school with no exeat breaks at all. I suspect you are looking more for full boarding. They aren't that many schools left now that are full boarding. Even these they still exeat every three weeks or so. Most boarding schools now tend to empty at weekends so make sure that when you inquire they give you % of boarders who stay during the weekend otherwise your daughter may find herself alone with a few others during weekends.

Munashe · 17/08/2013 00:39

What kind of feel are you looking for apart from the academics? Roedean for a example has quite a number of Asian girls and its right by the sea in an urban location. You then have Cheltenham girls which is in a city and the intake is mixed, some overseas and then some local girls. Because it is in a city centre location, the girls are more street savvy. Also do you have any preference for single or mixed sex?

On the other end you have Benenden, more of a country(rural) boarding, in the middle of nowhere and most of the students tend to be from the counties or British expats abroad with a handful of overseas girls.

So in brief do you want the school to be in an urban area, country (ie rural) location? If that doesn't matter how about the feel. Do you prefer a school that has a good number of overseas girls or do you prefer ones with more local girls? Most of the rural schools tends to have more local or rather counties student population as overseas normally prefer urban locations.

Most schools cater for airport pick and drop offs so that shouldn't be a big problem to fly out when they need to.

Exists are nearly every other three weeks and plenty of mid term breaks too. For September 2014, some of the popular schools will have closed their lists but always worth emailing them to see if you can have your name down. There will be plenty of other good schools too. I am down in the South, so tend to know a wee bit about boarding schools down here.

For mixed schools you have Sevenoaks (very academic and very international in outlook), Kings Canterbury etc.

The best thing once you have a shortlist is to visit the schools. You will be surprised something that feel good and ticks every box doesn't feel that way when you visit. Since you'll be far away you want to make sure your daughter is in place you'll be happy with and where issues will be dealt with when they do prop up.

Even though you need to exercise caution reading as some of it is tick boxing but they give a bit of an overview, Ofsted reports are a good start because all boarding schools should have them. Some may be a couple of years old. If you just google name of school + ofsted report, they should come up. You can also go on the Independent School Inspector for more reports here www.isi.net/home/

There is also the Good Schools Guide. this isn't official and tends to be more on the comical side look at these schools. By the time you are done you will either be more overwhelmed or you may just scramble a shortlist. Good Luck.

SingaporeMum2000 · 16/08/2013 08:54

Thanks Needmoresleep

Lizs: Believe the Guardian do take on the wards if they have no where to go. Just not sure how comfortable daughter would be since the guardian is perfect stranger to her so the boarding house would provide more comfort especially in the first year of boarding

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LIZS · 16/08/2013 08:07

Don't the guardians normally take them for exeats or other families might . St Catherine's Bramley ? Your issue may well be that increasingly schools are doing flexi boarding so many pretty much empty out over the weekend anyway.

Needmoresleep · 16/08/2013 08:02

Mayfield? A fair number of overseas students including a contingent of friendly Mexican girls. Takes a broad academic range and is small enough to be nurturing.

SingaporeMum2000 · 16/08/2013 00:30

Oh ya, regarding the location of the school. Ideally not too far from airport and does direct flight to Singapore

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SingaporeMum2000 · 16/08/2013 00:28

Ratchetsmun: Thanks, will have a look at Oundle

Mutteroo: Fees wise, budget for 25 - 30K per year

Doodledumdums: Thanks, will have a look at Beechwood

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Doodledumdums · 15/08/2013 20:02

Beechwood Sacred heart in Tunbridge Wells has no exeat weekends. It was all girls until a few years ago, but is now mixed, but I think still only girls for boarding.

Mutteroo · 15/08/2013 20:00

Do you know how much you want to pay? Which part of the country are you interested in, if any?

Ratchetsmum · 15/08/2013 17:58

Hello, why don't you have a look at Oundle School. It is a fabulous Public School and has a good mix of all Nationalities. Not only does my son attend as a boarder but I have friends who have children doing well there too. This school has less exeats than most but once your daughter makes friends she will most probably want to spend some of these exeats with them anyway.

Regards