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Would your year 7 dd wear these school shoes?

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Picturesinthefirelight · 10/08/2013 21:40

www.startriteshoes.com/girls-shoes/school-shoes/stone-black-leather

Dd and I are having second thoughts. They fit perfectly & are acceptable to the school but the hearts look little girly.

Dd is a size 1 G and is almost 12.

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Picturesinthefirelight · 11/08/2013 10:30

Insoles what for?

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waikikamookau · 11/08/2013 10:29

other children I mean

waikikamookau · 11/08/2013 10:29

if the school are ruling out so many, as I said, perhaps there will be others in the style you have already bought?

waikikamookau · 11/08/2013 10:28

can you buy insoles?

Picturesinthefirelight · 11/08/2013 10:27

To clarify - she needs a black leather full shoe. Ballerinas, ones that look like trainers & boots are not allowed.

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Picturesinthefirelight · 11/08/2013 10:26

Boots are not allowed. She struggles with winter boots actually. The shoe shop lady asked if she had difficulties with boots. Her high instep means she can't pullout of them on.

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waikikamookau · 11/08/2013 10:24

does she like ankle boots?
although they probably aren't available til autumn/winter

Picturesinthefirelight · 11/08/2013 10:14

Sent = arn't

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Picturesinthefirelight · 11/08/2013 10:14

I know those Clarke brogues you mean. They sent very hard wearing and in any case sent deep enough for dd

Pity Bloch don't make a school shoe. Dd absolutely loves her new Bloch tap shoes. (That reminds me, need to get her jazz shoes too. At least school will fit the pointes next year.

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cece · 11/08/2013 10:12

All of the girls at DD's school seem to wear brogues or ballet pumps. DD has Clarks brogues.

Picturesinthefirelight · 11/08/2013 10:11

Completely agree about ballet flats and they ate banned. Their feet claw at the toes to keep them on.

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Picturesinthefirelight · 11/08/2013 10:09

Dd is having second thoughts. She has gone her whole life having little choice about her shoes so is used to it. She says she will wear them because she knows how important it is to have supportive well fitting shoes - but she wishes they didn't look so childish.

She is a dancer so her feet are her future potential livelihood.

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SanityClause · 11/08/2013 10:08

Ballet flats are not suitable for Y7 girls, IMO, as their feet have not stopped growing, and the shoes stay on by being too small for the foot. (Speak to a podiatrist about it.)

DD2 wore lace up "jazz shoe" style shoes last year (Y7) and they were a PITA, because she didn't want to take the necessary time to loosen the laces, then do them up, so she walked down the backs. The soles also wore out before a full year (Clarks shoes). She now has black Kickers.

DD1 goes to a different school where being nerdy is okay, so there is less of a issue about what shoes they wear. She wears Mary jane type shoes, and so do many of her friends. She is going into Y10.

Re bags, I bought them both Cambridge Satchell Company "Batchells". The biggest size. They were expensive, but they will have them for years. At DD1's more fashion conscious school, lots of girls are very admiring of it.

Picturesinthefirelight · 11/08/2013 10:07

The school have sent pictures of the styles they want. It's just that in dds size they come with hearts & flowers on or are not wide enough.

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waikikamookau · 11/08/2013 10:05

op what does your dd say?
she probably wont be the only one in such shoes you link to?

brightermornings · 11/08/2013 10:03

My dd is due to start year 7. I have bought a pair of cheap shoes (not ideal I know). Once she starts school and sees what everyone is wearing we will go shopping again and buy a more suitable pair.
Bag shopping easy apart from the price!! Paul frank bag Smile

Picturesinthefirelight · 11/08/2013 10:01

The shop we went to is very well stocked with staff who really know their stuff. It's just dd has awkward feet.

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Picturesinthefirelight · 11/08/2013 09:56

I don't think kickers would do. They look too low at the front. And don't come in width fittings. They all look like they gave flowers & hearts on too.

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minesawine · 11/08/2013 09:22

No - too 'primary school'. What about Kickers shoes. All the girls at my DS's school wear them and they last the whole year

BillComptonstrousers · 10/08/2013 23:19

To be honest, the quest for bags and shoes is never ending. I now make all my girls go shopping in the first week of the holidays for uniform, bags, shoes. I can't bear it otherwise.

Picturesinthefirelight · 10/08/2013 22:30

Don't start on bags! I still haven't found one yet that is black, not too big and will carry her books. At least she's hot her dance bag sorted (her old dance teacher gave her one)!!

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thornrose · 10/08/2013 22:26

I think in Year 7 there'll be all kinds of footwear. The vast majority of girls will be worried about their shoes and their bag and fitting in in general. I really wouldn't worry too much.

Picturesinthefirelight · 10/08/2013 22:17

Just found ehAt creepers are. They look too casual as far as I can see (school sent photos of acceptable & non acceptable styles) and don't come in a wide fitting. In fact it looks like they don't start until size 2 as well.

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Picturesinthefirelight · 10/08/2013 22:10

The only saving grace is there were some tiny girls on induction day who must be having similar issues.

Dd knows that wearing supportive shoes @ taking care of her feet is really important so she is prepared to put up with them if she has to - I just feel sorry for her.

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Picturesinthefirelight · 10/08/2013 22:08

What are creepers?

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