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The Trinity-Whitgift thread of 2013 continued

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Somelikeithott · 16/02/2013 16:46

Hi all as I posted on previous thread, I realised we had hit the 1000 mark, do felt obliged to open a new one. Hope everyone finds this thread easily

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havinganightmare · 04/03/2013 15:39

W second hand uniform sale this sat. Well worth a visit. They change tie after year 7 just so you know so no need to stock up on too many! I think times are on the website. The uniform list is on there as well for you to tick off stuff. Shirts and trousers are great quality and so cheap! Lots of sports kit as well - if only for a spare set. The ladies who run it very helpful for advice too. Cash and cheques only I think.

Shorrolds · 04/03/2013 11:24

Another 11+ T to add,just handed in letter ,had taken a while to decide between W &T,but T it is and they have been very helpful in the whole process .I have no doubt that Ds would have been as happy at both , however we are very excited about our final choice ,roll on September...

NotADragonOfSoup · 04/03/2013 11:14

If you want to manage the cost of uniform a bit, you can buy some stuff in advance - things like ties, locker (sport) bag, rugby socks which they're unlikely to grow out of. Obviously easy with T as you just go to Hewitts. You can also order the large name tapes you have to sew on all their sports kit.

burntoutdad · 04/03/2013 11:11

Sorry Fatal - nearly forgot. Should have done the final count on receipt of your news! Good luck.

burntoutdad · 04/03/2013 11:10

So today is the deadline and I guess this thread will start to wind down.
It would be nice if we could post updates at some point getting to know how the school starts went, how DS fared in first weeks, have we made the right decisions Confused etc.
As a final count, assuming no-one else posts today and including iluvwe have
11 at W and 8 at T from this thread.

2 at T 11+ 5 at T 10+ 1 at T ?+
4 at W 11+ 6 at W 10+ 1 at W?+

A reasonably even spread. Well done and good luck to all of our DS's in their new schools, wherever they are going. And perhaps I will meet some of you (even without knowing it (Except rugrat Grin)) in the coming months Smile.

NotADragonOfSoup · 04/03/2013 11:06

T's next second hand uniform sale is on 16th March 8:30 -11:30am

FatalFlowerGarden · 04/03/2013 10:57

We're still hanging on! Rang W this morning and was told they are sorting through a massive pile of acceptance/rejection letters and emails ... and may even have some news for me this afternoon re our bursary appeal... aaaargh. Must say the admissions office have always been absolutely lovely - they must get so fed up with anxious parents ringing them every 5 mins but they've always been so friendly.

I'm a little over-caffeinated this morning and feeling rather jittery!

Somelikeithott · 04/03/2013 10:33

Excellent, iluv. Just realised deadline is today and not tomorrow as I thought.

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iluvmyboys · 04/03/2013 09:42

Posted our W 11+ acceptance form on Sat !

havinganightmare · 04/03/2013 07:39

Interview absolutely doesn't guarantee place. I certainly know of several last year who werent offered - after seemingly positive interviews and one sports assessment.

NotADragonOfSoup · 04/03/2013 07:07

I know of boys from previous years who were not offered a place after interview in previous years (10+ and 11+, T&W) - I can't say whether or not they were waitlisted though.

burntoutdad · 04/03/2013 06:46

Thats surprising bond. Was that at T, W or both? Well i say thats surprising but i remember now that some boys were tested and recalled before the interview (including us). So perhaps it was some of those who were didnt get a recall that were not offered after interview?

basildonbond · 03/03/2013 22:41

I know of several boys who have not got a place following interview (and in some cases sports assessment as well) - for this year, and the last two years

burntoutdad · 03/03/2013 22:25

We have been wondering what the stats were for this year for those interviewed and then offered. I realise not evryone had a scholarship offer but has anyone heard of a ds not getting an offer following interview? It almost seems that all interviewed are offered or waitlisted.

NotADragonOfSoup · 03/03/2013 21:12

There was a soupdragon at the rugby but I left before the match SmileSmallDragon2 was there though.

I'm not doing the quiz - I was meant to be going but I think I've got out of it!

Ladymuck · 03/03/2013 20:46

I went to the W one for new parents last year, and our team won. Despite the fact that half of us didn't have a child at the school....

And I was at T yesterday looking at a rugby match in the distance, but couldn't see any soupdragons.

Asterisk · 03/03/2013 14:30

Any existing T parents taking part in the Quiz Night next weekend? Perhaps we could suggest a round on guessing the identity of mumsnetters (or mumsnutters as sometimes known in our family)...

Kylep · 03/03/2013 11:02

Suz-- great info thanks

NotADragonOfSoup · 03/03/2013 08:08

Those of you with disorganised and unreliable boys heading to T will be delighted to know they email you letters too. :)

Somelikeithott · 03/03/2013 07:49

Divamum, burntout's post is encouraging. All the best to your friend's DS

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EyesWideClosed · 02/03/2013 21:18

Thanks Suz742 I can see those parents' pages being invaluable. Letters never seem to make it past the school gates at the moment, and I can't see things changing in 6 months time.

DivaMum23 · 02/03/2013 20:18

burntoutdad- Thank you that is very encouraging

burntoutdad · 02/03/2013 19:37

suz742 - your post has made me realise something I had not thought of before...the term dates! The summer and easter term breaks are longer, 3 weeks longer in summer, 1 week in easter which equates to at least 4 extra weeks of childcare to consider for those working when factoring costs!
Just thought I would highlight that to anyone else who hadn't realised.
Divamum - when I called the school last week they asked me if DS was on the waiting list, which led me to believe that they have perhaps already started considering them. The scholarship offers have been a lot lower this year so im guessing there are a lot more rejections coming through considering the economic climate.

DivaMum23 · 02/03/2013 19:07

Somelikeithott, thanks for your very informative reply, I should have said
my son is already at Whitgift this is for a friend who's son is on the waiting list, she is so upset.

Thanks again

Somelikeithott · 02/03/2013 18:52

Hi Divamum, welcome to the thread. I imagine it will be at least Wednesday before boys on the waiting list know. Because the schools over offer places, and the deadline for acceptance is Tuesday, that will be the earliest day they can reconcile numbers. And even then it would depend how far down on the waiting list. They will offer places, if they go to waiting list in order of the list and will need those people to accept or reject the places before they move down ( or not), the list.

All the best with the wait. Hope you get the news you want.

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