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Has your child ever had detention?

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Madmog · 17/01/2013 10:14

My daughter is in Year 7, a reasonably high achiever and lucky to be popular with lots of girls (not sure why he he!), so it came as a shock when she got detention for drawing on someone's collar and making the comment that it wasn't fair someone else had bought a kit to make a castle when everyone else had spent a whole day making them (there were no rules to say they couldn't do that, but I sort of see her point).

Anyway, we were annoyed at the time and she was clearly worried about the detention. Half to laugh though, turned out she really enjoyed it - she had to ready for an hour and chose a book they are studying for English homework - she loves reading and it got some homework out of the way.

Just wondered what other parents experiences are. Why did your children get detention, did you expect it, did they care? Hopefully for mine that will be the first and last detention!

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chuckerbuttypat · 17/01/2013 14:12

It was pleasing she enjoyed the detention. That is positive

Ladymuck · 17/01/2013 12:38

I'd read the OP as "we were annoyed at the time" at her dd, not at the fact of the detention.

Ds1 is year 7. Is meant to have had 2 so far, 1 for not putting his phone in the locker during the day, and 1 for not having got signed out of the correct lesson for his instrumental lesson (he had followed the correct procedure for the initial time of the music lesson, but then the music lesson got changed and he forgot to get the other teacher's signature). He doesn't actually seem to have served either detention yet, though clearly has been bollocked by both the school and us about both offences (which took place last term). But I think they have to send letters home etc so perhaps detentions happen less frequently. I suspect that I agree with the OP - given that ds's detentions have been hanging over him for 5 weeks now, it will feel a slight anticlimax if he gets to read for an hour.

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