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Is this normal in a state secondary?

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FredWorms · 26/09/2012 22:18

DS is Y9, and often comments on the amount of "snogging" that goes on at breaktimes. He said today that one girl in his year with a Y11 boyfriend was getting particularly into it and they were "making noises and writhing about, she was kind of climbing on him".

DD has just started Y7, earlier this year in her previous school she was turning cartwheels on the grass, laughing and playing - now she comes home and reports in disgust about all the tongues.

It just seems so sad, somehow. Yes, I'm sure I'm being naive and they have to grow up sometime and blahblahblah but is it normal to have all this fevered snogging? I can't say I remember it back in my day (which was, admittedly, some time ago now). I realise the teachers can't be all eyes but it just seems to be accepted. Surely it should be discouraged at school?

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chocoluvva · 26/09/2012 22:35

You're quite right though. It's sad when your DCs are exposed to less than innocent behaviour. It's the swearing that gets to me.
(I think it is normal for a school. DD's one-of-the-best-state-schools-in-scotland-secondary has this too. DD doesn't approve. She is very discreet with her BF).

chocoluvva · 26/09/2012 22:29

The snoggers are showing off to the others.
I agree it's a shame. They probably don't do it so openly when they're a little bit older (hopefully).
The older ones probably think this is very immature behaviour.

FredWorms · 26/09/2012 22:19

I've just read that back.

I sound hilarious.

I'm going to have to change my name to Mary Whitehouse or something.

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